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Have Mother, Will Travel: A Mother and Daughter Discover Themselves, Each Other, and the World [Hardcover]

Claire Fontaine , Mia Fontaine
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Book Description

July 17, 2012

Glamour magazine called Come Back, the first nonfiction collaboration by Claire and Mia Fontaine, the “best mother-daughter memoir,” while the New York Times Book Review praised it as, “a testament to the power of the love.”

The Fontaines are back with Have Mother, Will Travel, a beautiful, thoughtful, insightful, inspiring book that brilliantly captures the changing relationship between a mother and her adult daughter. Seen within the context of an unforgettable round-the-world adventure, the emotional milestones reached and the new understandings and appreciations achieved will warm the heart and nourish the soul—an extraordinary journey that should not be missed by armchair travelers and by mothers and daughters everywhere.


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“Have Mother, Will Travel is filled with what I would have given anything to experience and treasure with my own mother—the inner workings of our hearts and thoughts. I love these women!” (Leah Komaiko, author of Am I Old Yet? )

“A beautiful, funny, and oh-so-representative peek into how complicated—and wonderful—a mother-daughter relationship can be…. I could feel, as a mother and a daughter, every struggle and bump in the road…the love between a mother and daughter, while not always sunshine and daisies, will never end.” (Ree Drummond, author of The Pioneer Woman Cooks )

“Finally, a book that celebrates the complexities of the mother-daughter bond with humor and depth. Both authors come to terms with who they are as women—together and apart—as they traverse twenty countries. Their relationship is an inspiration; you’ll want to travel every step of the journey with them.” (Maureen Murdock, author of The Heroine's Journey and Unreliable Truth )

“Nobody writes with as much honesty, bravery, and humor as Claire and Mia Fontaine when it comes to the dynamic of the complex, baffling, nurturing, infuriating, comforting labyrinth known as the mother/daughter relationship. No matter how far we travel or what we do, we will always be one.” (Tracey Jackson, author of Between a Rock and a Hot Place: Why Fifty Is Not the New Thirty )

“An extremely insightful and inspiring look at how we relate, with our loved ones, with ourselves, and the world….Their courage in examining themselves, and their relationship, reminds us how important it is to stay mindful and proactive in all of our relationships, especially with our family.” (Janice Croze, founder, 5minutesformom.com )

“As a mother of young daughters, I finished this book with such anticipation for the future, inspired by the relationship that Claire and Mia have formed through challenges and triumphs…. I found myself falling deeper in love with the soul–transforming journey of both loving a mother and raising a child.” (Kelle Hampton, author of Bloom: Finding Beauty in the Unexpected )

“If you like Eat Pray Love then check out Have Mother, Will Travel...Written in alternating voices, the book humorously documents the power of travel to test and deepen relationships.” (National Geographic Traveler )

“Frequently hilarious and often sobering … poignant and affecting.” (BookPage.com )

“‘Have Mother, Will Travel,’ is a must-read for every woman (or man, for that matter). It’s charming and enlightening, and will help any reader in their own understanding of this world and the relationships that it contains.” (Spencer Daily Reporter )

From the Back Cover

A mother, a daughter, and a life-changing adventure around the world . . .

Their bestselling memoir, Come Back, moved and inspired readers with the story of Mia Fontaine's harrowing drug addiction and her mother, Claire's, desperate and ultimately successful attempts to save her. Now it's a decade later and Claire and Mia each face a defining moment in her life, and a mother-daughter relationship that has frayed around the edges. At fifty-one, Claire's shed her identity as Mia's savior but realizes that, oops, she forgot to plan for life after motherhood; Mia, twenty-five and eager to step outside her role as recovery's poster child, finds adult life isn't all it's cracked up to be. Determined to transform themselves and their relationship once again, the pair sets off on a five-month around-the-world adventure.

What awaits them is an extraordinary, often hilarious journey through twenty cities and twelve countries—one that includes mishaps, mayhem, and unexpected joys, from a passport-eating elephant to a calamitous camel ride around the Pyramids—and finally making peace with their tumultuous past in the lavender fields of France, where they live for the last four months of the trip. Seeing how self-possessed and community-minded twentysomethings are in other countries broadens Mia's perspective, helping her grow, and grow up. Claire uses the trip to examine her broken relationship with her own mother, a Holocaust survivor, and to create a vision for her second act. Watching her mom assess half a century of life, Mia comes to know her as Claire has always known Mia—as all mothers know their daughters—better than anyone else, and often better than themselves.

Wiser for what they've learned from women in other cultures, and from each other, they return with a deepened sense of who they are and where they want to go—and with each embracing the mature friendship they've discovered and the profound love they share.

Alternating between Claire and Mia's compelling and distinct voices, Have Mother, Will Travel is a testament to the power and beauty of the mother-daughter relationship, one that illuminates possibilities for our own lives.


Product Details

  • Hardcover: 320 pages
  • Publisher: William Morrow (July 17, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0061688398
  • ISBN-13: 978-0061688393
  • Product Dimensions: 6 x 1.2 x 9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (24 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #208,564 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Claire Fontaine is an author and screenwriter, and certified life and relationship coach. She is currently living in Paris and at work on a novel.



Customer Reviews

They both have good, distinctive reading voices, full of personality. Christina (A Reader of Fictions)  |  3 reviewers made a similar statement
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars I loved this book! July 23, 2012
By Carejan
Format:Hardcover
I can't stop thinking and talking about this book. I opened it on Friday morning, just to take a peek, and came up for air and Pizza at about 7:00 PM.
The next day was the same. I couldn't put it down. My husband was on his own for three days while I sat snug in my chair either laughing or crying,
occassionally saying "you won't believe where they are now, lets Google it". I was introduced to places I had never even heard of and learned so much.
They have this amazing way of putting you right in the middle of whatever they may be doing or saying and you become part of this real and intense
relationship. I loved it!
Mothers and Daughters are forever bound by love and understanding, frustration and anger all put right out there for you to read in this, my new favorite book.
What A Great Movie This Book Would Make. Who do you think should play the mother and who should play the daughter?
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A moving, funny memoir, beautifully written July 17, 2012
Format:Hardcover
This memoir was nothing like I expected, which was actually what made it such a great read. It was always fresh, and skillfully balanced between their exotic and sometimes hysterical travel experiences and their insightful inner dialogue and commentary on the world, their lives, the lives of mothers and daughters. They both write beautifully about places and people, without sounding like tour guides. They're both also extremely honest and candid, not just about the world (neither is worried about being politically correct!) but about themselves. Parts of it are as raw as their first memoir, Come Back, which was painfully frank (which suited it, it was a painful subject matter.)
As an example, the chapter on Bulgaria satisfied on many levels - I was surprised to find it such a fascinating place (apparently so were they), it was laugh-out-loud funny in places, it also movingly depicted anti-Semitism, in Claire's own history, and in Bulgaria (the only country that refused to give the Nazis their Jewish citizens.) The end of that chapter was meaningful for me, when Claire writes of how subtly mothers tell their daughters they don't trust them. It made me realize how my offers of help or giving advice may handicap my daughter, not help. "If a daughter, of any age, senses her own mother doesn't trust her, how can she truly trust herself?" That whole section was very eye opening for me. There are many, many places like this that as a mother gave me pause.
The section on France is more leisurely but engaged me in a different way, and they're there for four months, so I feel like I really got to know Avignon, and their friends as well. Claire and Mia get to know each other on a much deeper level, with Mia often taking the lead in clearing up things from their past. She's a very wise young woman, what she has to say about how twentysomething kids differ in other countries is very astute and, for her, a kind of wake-up call. Claire's sections about her non-existent relationship with her own mother are often heartbreaking.
It's a great summer book, entertaining and meaningful for a woman of any age, also one that can be savored slowly, any chapter can be read on it's own, and as part of bigger story.
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars An oustanding and enriching book! July 31, 2012
Format:Hardcover
What a wonderful and inspiring book! I think I enjoyed it even more than Come Back, if that's possible! (Perhaps a bit less emotional for me :) I will highly recommend to all my friends!

Here were a few of my favorite quotes and words of wisdom:

"A woman's relationship with herself is mirrored everywhere in her life, but no place more than with her daughter."

"Travel empties out everything you've put into the box called your life, all the things you accumulate to tell yourself who you are. Women tell themselves who they are through their career, marriage, home, social life, style, through our face and body, by how well we please; we often mistake our lifestyle for our life and others liking us for us liking ourselves."

"I've made far more, and bigger, mistakes in my life by ignoring the nos than the yeses. What woman hasn't? If for no other reason than we're trained from a young age to please, to be a good girl--"Don't be so negative, smile!" After a while the hesitation, the doubt, the I don't really wannas are so subtle we can miss them altogether. But there's always a moment. It may be hard to recall, but there's always an exact moment when we go underground, twist a no into a yes."

"We tell our daughters we don't trust them in a thousand ways. We don't consciously mean to, but we steal their confidence in their own strength by stealing their pain. And their confidence in our strength by saying we aren't strong enough to see them struggle."

"There are lots of ways to lose yourself--motherhood's just one of them." -Claire

"These are the kinds of regrets all women have, mistakes and missteps, paths not chosen, opportunities gone. Youth gone. Forever. And until I honestly acknowledge how this regret feels, acknowledge that I'm not okay with how some of my life went, it's like having a fake past, and a fake present, which is surely a prescription for a fake future."

I could see where I'd mistaken drama and conflict for life, which meant years of living reactively instead of generatively, a life I let be determined by circumstances and the choices of others. We like to think life happens to us, but pretty much everything in your life is there because you wanted it, even if unconsciously. Results, I have learned, don't lie."

"I know that for every mother, there is always the possibility of three in your relationship with your daughter. You, your daughter the way she is, and your daughter the way you want her to be. I learned the hard way ten years ago that that kind of control is an illusion and a barrier."

"It's a dangerous thing, to divide yourself, to break off bits of yourself until there's no solid core. We are, after all, just the sum of our total experiences, each one lying beneath us like a brick in the foundation of a house. To be selective, to block out portions, is to destabilize the very ground on which you stand."
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
4.0 out of 5 stars Thank you for writing this loving & insightful memoir.
I am so very thankful for Claire & Mia Fontaine's open honesty with this memoir as well as their previous one, Come Back: A Mother and Daughter's Journey to Hell and Back. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Donna Tidwell Hickman
3.0 out of 5 stars A bit muddled, but worth the journey
This is one of those memoirs that gives away nearly the entire story in the description. So, while reading, there really is not suspense or surprise as to what is going to happen. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Jaime H.
5.0 out of 5 stars I'm a mother who travels with daughter
This book was a wonderful collaboration and relates strongly to the ways my daughter and I have chosen to travel together. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Kim M. Federici
4.0 out of 5 stars Interesting travel memoir with depth
Claire and Mia Fontaine's HAVE MOTHER, WILL TRAVEL is a unique blend of memoir that both excites with its armchair travel opportunities and entices with its insights on the... Read more
Published 1 month ago by Megan Snider
5.0 out of 5 stars Have Two Daughters, Will Travel
I went on a trek in Nepal with one of my daughters many years ago. This May two of my daughters have asked me to join them on a hiking and sightseeing trip in Tuscany. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Ann
3.0 out of 5 stars Ope's review of Have Mother Will Travel
My daughter, Kristin of Kritters Ramblings and I decided to "travel" through this book together. It is always fun to discuss books with her, but this one was especially... Read more
Published 1 month ago by Margie
4.0 out of 5 stars Wow, What a Trip!
Although I read this from the library, it's going to stay in my own personal library since it's one of those unforgettable stories that leave you slightly different afterward. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Pamela Wilbur
5.0 out of 5 stars a beautiful warm story of mother-daughter relationship
this is Clalre and Mia's 2nd book. Their life story is similar to mine and my daughter's. Mia was sexually abused when she was a child. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Vera Green
2.0 out of 5 stars Should have been 100 pages shorter!
This was LOL funny in places and the tour of interesting places around the world made it readable. There is quite a bit of "navel gazing," however, and all the long... Read more
Published 3 months ago by sherrill Kauffman
5.0 out of 5 stars Women - Read this!
We're all daughters, and many of us are mothers. If you've ever traveled as adults with either mom or daughter, read this book. Read more
Published 5 months ago by Lisa Miller
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