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Having It and Eating It [Hardcover]

Sabine Durrant (Author)
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May 23, 2002
Maggie Owen lives in London and has given up her job to stay home with her infant and toddler; her husband (well, they aren't exactly married) is a busy advertising executive. Trying to resign herself to a life filled with playground mums, soiled clothing, and a partner who comes home in time to kiss the kids goodnight when he's not away on some business trip, she suddenly runs into Claire, a former classmate whose confidence, looks, and sex life throw Maggie's own confidence, looks, and sex life-and the chaos her life has become-for a loop.

Having It and Eating It is a hip, in-the-know social commentary on contemporary life, and at the same time a hilarious, entertaining read. For any woman who has small children, any woman who had small children and is relieved to now have somewhat larger ones, or anyone who has ever contemplated marriage and children, it is the book to read, reread, and then pass along.

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There's no place like limbo to encourage a decisive stroll down one path or another. London suburbanite Maggie Owen is thoroughly disenchanted with domestic life. She gave up a journalism jobgranted, one she wasn't very good atto raise two sons, toddler Fergus and baby Dan, with hopes of personal fulfillment. Instead, she is bored by playground mums and dreary household cares. After a chance meeting with Claire Masterson, former classmate and glamorous career woman who seems happily single, Maggie's self-confidence takes a nosedive. She worries that, at 35, she's aging prematurely and poorly. As if confirming her fears, Maggie's longtime partner, advertising executive Jake, starts working late hours and stops initiating sex. Maggie feels especially vulnerable because they never married. Could he be having an affair? Maggie's best friend, Mel, doesn't think so. She's a single mother and doctor whose wisdom and patience temper Maggie's worst moments of self-involvement. At another get-together, Claire confides to Maggie that she returned home from New York City because the married love-of-her-life was in London. Clever to a fault, Maggie assumes she knows what's going on with whom and considers defying her do-gooder, do-right role and exacting revenge. The personal dramas are only as tragic as Maggie's sharp humor will allow them to bethat is, not verywhich makes British journalist Durrant's debut a fine mix of adroit plotting and page-turning comedic suspense.
Copyright 2002 Cahners Business Information, Inc.

From Library Journal

In this debut novel by British journalist Durrant, Maggie is a thirtysomething Londoner who has traded in her funky job at a literary magazine to stay home with a toddler and a baby. As her pseudo-husband Jake (he never wanted to marry formally) zips off to advertising meetings in Amsterdam, Maggie attempts to stay sane and raise her children at the same time. Then Maggie bumps into Claire, an old school friend who had it all in high school and still does. Claire is single, gorgeous, and a famous screenwriter. She is definitely not wearing a ratty T-shirt spotted with spit-up, and, as Maggie determines later, she may also be having an affair with Jake. So when Maggie meets a sexy gardener named Pete who gives her some encouraging glances, she thinks, Why not? Jake's work pals and Maggie's droll mother make for an amusing cast of characters. A cute and entertaining story, this novel reads like a Julia Roberts movie and will appeal especially to readers who have or enjoy young children. For public libraries. Beth Gibbs, Davidson, NC
Copyright 2002 Cahners Business Information, Inc.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 272 pages
  • Publisher: Riverhead Hardcover (May 23, 2002)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1573222151
  • ISBN-13: 978-1573222150
  • Product Dimensions: 8.3 x 5.5 x 1.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 14.4 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 3.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (10 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #3,907,010 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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6 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars What a fun sassy read!, May 22, 2003
This is a fun book! It's a guaranteed read to take your mind off of your troubles! This is my first Sabine Durrant book and I thoroughly enjoyed it. I didn't read it to pick at the moral issues ~~ I read it to have a break from nonstop packing and moving woes. And it's a perfect escape!

Maggie gave up her career to stay home to raise her two little boys ~~ her boys with her partner, Jake. One day she runs into her schoolhood chum and realized that her own life isn't as together as Claire's. Then to top it off, she suspects Jake is having an affair with Claire ~~ and off this book goes. With hilarious tales of two little boys running amuck in the house and with other people, Maggie begins a journey into self-awareness. And this is a fun hilarious read!

At first Maggie puts herself down for being a stay-at-home mom ~~ engrossed with recipes and childcare and local gossip. Then as the story progresses, she begins to realize that she is the envy of the women in her life. And she begins to grow up!

This is a must-read for all women ~~ regardless of their marital status or children-status. I think moms with very young children can relate to Maggie's dilemmas with the babies ~~ but everyone can enjoy the stories. Durrant writes with a flair and humor ~~ you can't help but fall in love with the characters and keep on turning the pages. This is the perfect summer read!

5-22-03

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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars Stale cake, June 28, 2003
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Emma Kaufmann (Baltimore, MD, USA) - See all my reviews
This isn't a bad book, but it isn't a very good one either. Yes, I have kids so I can concede that her observations about chaotic childcare are accurate. Accurate, yes, but not original, thought provoking or more to the point, funny. Because this writer seems to have taken a stab at comic writing. My advice: Don't do it, you're simply not funny enough. Sabine Durrant is certainly no Marian Keyes.

I kept reading this thinking it would pick up. It didn''t. The plot didn't really go anywhere and the ending was anticlimactic. I guess I mainly read it because I'm a UK girl living in the US and like reading about England when I feel homesick. But this book was like a long forgotten eclair you find at the bottom of your fridge, looks tasty but ends up tastingt kind of stale.

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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars I am Maggie Owen!, March 12, 2003
This review is from: Having It and Eating It (Hardcover)
Reviewing readers who have no children can not POSSIBLY understand this book. No offense. Neither could I have two years ago before the birth of my first child. Now home with two, I COMPLETELY relate with Maggie Owen, our narrator and protagonist.

Durrant clearly has experienced motherhood, perhaps even stay-at-home motherhood. It's a different world. It's stifling, but fulfilling in its own wonderful ways as she explains so beautifully.

I called friends and family at times to read excerpts that struck me just so. Even staggered down the hall (no, not drinking...laughing so hard I could hardly walk) to read bits to my husband/the father of our children.

If you haven't had kids yet, wait to read the book...no...don't...this'll give you a taste of what IS to come.

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It is not often you really want someone else's life. Read the first page
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Claire Masterson, New York, Morton High Street, Morton Park, Hefty Thighs, Maggie Owen, Madame Charbonnel, The Snot Goblins, Bob the Builder, Gold Buckles, Palm Pilot, Pete Russ
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