He Comes Next: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Pleasuring a Man (Hardcover)

by Ian Kerner (Author) "SEX HAS A LANGUAGE all its own..." (more)
Key Phrases: white tigress, sex script, direct genital stimulation, Says Ian, David Schnarch, United States (more...)

Editorial Reviews

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"In Passionista, his pleasure is all yours!" -- Tracey Cox, bestselling author of SuperSex

"Passionista satisfies the reader with tasty morsels of sexual enlightenment, nibble by nibble, bite by bite." -- Lou Paget, best-selling author of How to Be a Great Lover and The Great Lover Playbook

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"Passionista satisfies the reader with tasty morsels of sexual enlightenment, nibble by nibble, bite by bite." (Lou Paget, best-selling author of How to Be a Great Lover and The Great Lover Playbook )

"In Passionista, his pleasure is all yours!" (Tracey Cox, bestselling author of SuperSex )

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Product Details

• Hardcover: 240 pages
• Publisher: William Morrow (January 10, 2006)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0060784563
• ISBN-13: 978-0060784560
• Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.7 x 1 inches
• Shipping Weight: 15.5 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars See all reviews (30 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #159,238 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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58 of 60 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars A surprise, January 20, 2006

By	Lianne (Chicago) - See all my reviews

This wasn't what I was expecting, but turned out to be so much more intense and interesting. If what you're looking for is a bunch of tips there are plenty of other books that will give you that like Lou Paget and the other sexperts. This is really a look inside the male mind and how they approach sex and where their fantasies and fears come from and that great sex is more than knowing how to perform oral sex. It's easy to think from She Comes First that that's what this book is going to be about, but really it's just a small piece of a bigger idea. The book is a little dense in places, but it's also really friendly and I think it's unique to hear a guy talk so openly about what's really going inside a guy's head when it comes to sex.

51 of 53 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Your friendly neighborhood sex therapist, February 5, 2006

By	Jenny "North" - See all my reviews

That's what the author calls himself and his voice is really honest and friendly. I loved this book because it was focused on the male mind and had some really new things to say about the male body. Just when you think you've known everything there is to know about the penis, Kerner gives you some really new things to think about. Most of all he makes you feel really confident and I've already put some of the techniques into action. I also emailed him with a question and he emailed me right back!!!! I guess he really is my friendly neighborhood sex therapist, even though I live in Portlan and he lives in New York.

23 of 25 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Very feminist and psychological, January 10, 2006

By	Brooke (Miami, FL) - See all my reviews

I think of myself as a thinking woman, so the title hooked me. The book is definitely long on male psychology and issues affecting male desire and less focused on techniques. It's nothing like a magazine article. But there's so much great stuff in here, and the thing I love most is that the book is really feminist and inspiring. It's not just focused on giving pleasure, but also on receiving. I would have liked some more techniques personally, but after She Comes First and He Comes NExt, maybe we can look forward to We Come Together.