Healing in the Hurting Places [Paperback]

Karen F. Riley (Author), Sonia Aufiero (Foreword)

Book Description

Publication Date: August 16, 2011

 

Assurance of Healing

 

The depth of pain is overcome and replaced with the infusion of healing from God into every sliver of your mind, body, and spirit.

 

Healing in the Hurting Places is a personal experience story and outreach for victims of childhood sexual abuse, and those who want to help them. It sensitively focuses on the healing journey—how to recognize symptoms of abuse and offer help. Victims often feel alone, they don’t know where to turn or may believe no one will understand. Karen Riley speaks to that place of pain and takes you on the healing journey that transformed her life.

 

“This is not about the tragic event, but about where to go now. I want them to know that they are not alone, and there is One who can heal their broken hearts.” —Karen Riley

 

Others who will benefit from this story of hope and healing: those affected by alcoholism, drug abuse, domestic, and other physical or verbal abuse—and those who are involved with them.

 

And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding,

 will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).

 

Many victims share similar characteristics and traits as a result of abuse, which often manifest in the same behavior patterns—Healing in the Hurting Places is a springboard to empowerment and better understanding.

 

Editorial Reviews

Review

Your book was very moving, Karen. Some parts were easier for me to read than others, but all of them, in one way or another, rang true for me. Thanks for being brave enough to write it. --- Jeffrey Russell, a sexual abuse survivor

Thank you for sharing your story and for the awesome privilege of being able to read it. I was blessed by virtually every page. I was also struck by precisely how on-target your assessments were of PTSS victims behavior as borne out in the experience of several people I have worked with over the years. Thank you for the courage to write this book and for all the ministry that will definitely come from this labor of love. Thanks again for being such an awesome inspiration of what God can do in all things! --- Pastor Scott Hoffman, Ocean Grove Camp Meeting Association CEO

I thought it was an amazing book. I cried a few times and in a lot of weird ways, I related to a lot of your thoughts and feelings, though I know I could never understand what it is like to have gone through what you did. I ve had times when I ve felt some of the things you ve felt, and I think a lot of people will have that and be able to relate in some way, even if they haven t experienced what you have. Having it touch me that much makes me sure that it must really hit home to those who have felt that exactly. I think those pieces of you and your feelings that I relate to will help all of those that you reached out to that have loved ones that have gone through it understand a little better. I think it is very important for people to find and read your book just to help them feel and understand what some people may be going through. You also showed how being a Christian can be so helpful in bringing you through the process and provide a way and an open door for people to accept Jesus in to their lives and know that there is a way to get through it. --- Jeremy Skillings

About the Author

Karen F. Riley writes for newspapers and magazines and has authored two weekly newspaper columns and four books. Seven years ago she started KFR Communications, a custom graphic and Website design company. She also leads a ministry called Healing in the Hurting Places that offers hope to those suffering from childhood abuse. Karen and her husband, Bill, have been married for 30 years and are the parents of Lisa, Laura, and Christopher. They reside in New Egypt, New Jersey.

Product Details

• Paperback: 224 pages
• Publisher: Destiny Image (August 16, 2011)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0768438888
• ISBN-13: 978-0768438888
• Product Dimensions: 0.6 x 5.8 x 8.8 inches
• Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (18 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #421,707 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
  • #66 in Books > Politics & Social Sciences > Sociology > Abuse

More About the Author

Author Karen F. Riley has been writing since she was 8 years old. Nationally published at the age 11; her work has appeared in NJ Monthly, the Asbury Park Press, Tri-Town News, The New Egypt Press and other media.

Whispers in the Pines: The Secrets of Colliers Mills was originally introduced in May of 2005 after 5 years of research into the Colliers Mills Wildlife Management Area.

Her 2nd book, Voices in the Pines: True Stories from the New Jersey Pine Barrens, was released in April of 2009. The book contains 35 first person accounts of people who live and work in the Pine Barrens - a way of viewing history by stepping into their shoes. It won a silver international award in the regional non-fiction category in May 2010.

Images of America: The Pine Barrens of New Jersey, was released in October 2010. It contains many images from the late 1800s and spotlights the various industries of the pines, the world's 8th largest structure, the only derailment of the Blue Comet and many other tidbits not found elsewhere.

Karen, her husband, Bill and their three children - Lisa, Laura and Chris - moved to New Egypt, NJ in 1992. With her home and office across the street from the northern fringes of the Pine Barrens, it was only a matter of time before this unique area captivated her heart. Subsequent book signings and talks and additional research broadened her knowledge and love for this area and bringing out a revised edition of Whispers in the Pines was a natural fit.

She looks forward to encouraging and educating more people about this fascinating area. Karen is available for book talks and slide shows of old photos of the Pine Barrens. Please contact her to arrange a speaking engagement for your organization.

Illustrator Andrew Gioulis grew up in a family of skilled artisans. He started out as an illustrator and still incorporates sketches into his work as a graphic designer. Andrew holds a B.S. in Graphic Design/New Media Design from Roberts Wesleyan College and is currently working on his MFA. He has garnered 30 awards for his innovative style. Andrew created the illustrations and front cover art for Voices in the Pines. He developed his knowledge and a passion for the pinelands while working on that book. Whispers in the Pines gave him an opportunity to return to the sketchbook to capture once more this unique region. Andrew resides by the Jersey Shore where he can indulge his love of surfing and photography.

Most Helpful Customer Reviews

5 of 5 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars A Healing Journey That Leads to Transformation August 14, 2011

By Richard R. Blake TOP 500 REVIEWERVINE™ VOICE

Format:Paperback

"Healing in the Hurting Places" is drawn from Karen F. Riley's personal experiences and the lessons she learned as a victim of childhood sexual abuse, working through a manipulative home environment, the hurtful impact of bullies throughout her high-school years, and her ongoing ministry of restoration, hope and healing to other victims of sexual abuse.

Karen is a gifted communicator. As I scanned the back cover of "Healing in the Hurting Places" I knew I was in for a memorable reading experience. I was drawn into Karen's story before I had finished the first two paragraphs of her opening statement. Her writing is personal, intimate, and candid. I appreciated her willingness to make herself vulnerable. She tells of her active faith without being judgmental or preachy. Well chosen Scriptural references illustrate her faith-walk as well as Biblical principles, illustrations, and applications.

I was personally struck by the power of the illustration from the Old Testament book of Jeremiah which describes the process of the potter's wheel and the impact this had on Karen's healing.

"Healing in the Hurting Places" is must reading for sexual abuse victims, for anyone caught up in the cycle of addictive behaviors, and for those concerned loved ones attempting to provide help and encouragement.

I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission's guidelines.

4 of 4 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars Extremely Helpful May 23, 2012

By Joyce M. Ottino

Format:Paperback

I am a victim of childhood sexual abuse. I struggle with it and the after affects of the abuse almost daily. I read karen's book. It was extremely helpful. Brought a lot of things to mind, and through that I have been healed of some issues. I really recommend this book to anyone who has been abused.

2 of 2 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars Hurting Then a Loving Change November 3, 2011

By Robert A. Burns

Format:Paperback

We do, yes we do hold on to our hurts. And for some their hurts are worse than others.
This book is for those who have deep deep hurts. Read and listen to the heart of this women who was raped and held her hurt through so, so much.
Every woman should read this book, and so should a man to learn just how much the source of this hurt, hurts. And rally how we should live!
But does the hurt stop?
This is a great book to be read by those hurting for so many reasons, and are still holding on to their hurts.
Our Lord enters the life, and read of the change for yesterday and today.
I especially ask lawyers and their associates to read this book.
Rape and sexual abuse are words we hear, but read and learn in this excellent book of Truth.