Health Care Without Shame: A Handbook for the Sexually Diverse and Their Caregivers [Paperback]

Charles Moser (Author)

Editorial Reviews

Review

"Dr Moser... provides down-to-earth expert advice on health care for the sexually unorthodox. You must read this book and give a copy to your doctor." -- John Money, Ph.D., author

"Dr. Moser is the most sexually knowledgeable physician in the United States. This book helps sexually diverse people get the health care they deserve. It will also educate health care providers about their real-world patients." -- William A. Henkin, Ph.D.

"For anyone who has to talk about sex, sexual matters, or sexual body parts to a health care provider, and for any health care provider whose patients are sexual beings." -- Marty Klein, Ph.D., author

Product Details

• Paperback: 100 pages
• Publisher: Greenery Press (CA) (September 1999)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1890159123
• ISBN-13: 978-1890159122
• Product Dimensions: 8.9 x 6 x 0.3 inches
• Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (3 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,622,126 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

Customer Reviews

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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Wonderful Sex-Positive Health Resource, May 2, 2000

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Todd Hawley (San Francisco CA) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Health Care Without Shame: A Handbook for the Sexually Diverse and Their Caregivers (Paperback)

Several times I have struggled with seeing a doctor about a health-related problem because it might mean I'd have to disclose information about my sexuality. This book tells you how to do so in an informed and calm manner.

Charles IMHO is a hero for writing this book. Not only is there information for the patient on dealing with a doctor's concern about your "alternative lifestyle," (ie the section called "For Consumers") and any related health concerns but also a section for Health care workers near the end of the book (the section called "For Practioners").

Buy this book both for yourself AND for your doctor!

5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars A slow and safe approach for those frighten ..., June 12, 2000

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TammyJo Eckhart "TammyJo Eckhart" (Bloomington, Indiana United States) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: Health Care Without Shame: A Handbook for the Sexually Diverse and Their Caregivers (Paperback)

of the health care system because of their sexuality. Now, I've never been one to not go to a doctor because of my sexuality -- I just don't like doctors period. But I always get an annual from my Gyn and I'm very upfront with my sexual choices -- I figure I'm paying, she can listen and give me the best information. Others however are not as comfortable and thus they miss those very necessary check ups. Now I don't think that the doctor should be someone's primary source of information about bdsm, but about general and specific health questions, that is their job. Doctor Moser gives two audiences reassurance that to be honest about your sexuality in relationship to doctors is a necessary thing: the lay public or consumers and the health care providers. I'm not sure that the two audiences in one book was the best approach -- I found the "providers" sections a bit dull to read but I think the "providers" can gain insight from the "consumers" section. The overall message of the books is simple: you are ultimately responsible for your well-being, this means getting your physical and emotional health tended to on a regular basis. Trust me, someone with experience in the scene, you are doing yourself a favor by seeing your doctor and you are performing a necessary task if you want to protect and care for your partners. Moser's book will help you overcome your concerns and reclaim your rights as a consumer and a human being.

2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent source for providers and sexual minorities, January 23, 2003

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Scott Butler (Chapel Hill, NC United States) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Health Care Without Shame: A Handbook for the Sexually Diverse and Their Caregivers (Paperback)

This book is a really outstanding source for doctors, counselors, therapists, as well as patients/clients who have experienced difficulties communicating their sexual problems to their health care provider. Moser's unique education (Phd in sexology as well as a MD), vast research experience, and knowledge in sexual minorities make him the most qualified individual in the field to write this book. The text is short and sweet, to the point, informative, and draws upon Moser's experience as a physician specializing in sexual medicine. I felt the dual nature of the book (for providers and patients) was useful because it enables everyone to ponder both aspects of the interaction. His recommendations explain how to take control of your health care situation, including what is necessary and what is not. Providers will find this book useful and aid them in developing nonjudgmental techniques with their patients. The explanation of the nature of health care coverage is also informative. Overall, I highly recommend this book. As a human sexuality counselor/educator I can appreciate Moser's dedication to the field.