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Hell Is Other Parents: And Other Tales of Maternal Combustion
 
 

Hell Is Other Parents: And Other Tales of Maternal Combustion [Kindle Edition]

Deborah Copaken Kogan
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War photographer and author Kogan (Shutterbabe) has survived the dangers of covering the Afghan war, but in this collection of essays she turns her attention toward a different kind of struggle—raising three children in the trenches of Manhattan. Her opening essay, The Bleeping Bleep Next Door, arguably the funniest in the book, details the birth of her third baby and the experience of sharing a hospital room with a 16-year-old unwed mother who blasts the TV and is visited by a gaggle of noisy teen friends toting McDonald's bags and soda that smells of booze. In other essays the author delves into life as mother of a child star (her aspiring actor son nabs a part in the new Star Trek film), the ups and downs of children's friendships, the rules and bylaws of marriage and the hassles of juggling the needs of a toddler and a teen. Kogan also explores the judgmental reactions of other parents who raise their eyebrows when she picks up her daughter at school on a Vespa. While most of Kogan's essays are witty and smart, a few (about old college roommates, and former boyfriends, etc.) seem both gratuitous and out of place. Still, readers will find plenty to ponder and laugh about as they follow this self-described laissez-faire parent on the challenging assignment of raising three kids. (Aug.)
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I read No Exit in my early twenties, and I remember thinking hell might very well be other people, okay, sure, but under what far-fetched conditions would anyone ever actually be trapped forever in the company of strangers with no sleep or means of escape?

Then I became a parent.

From Deborah Copaken Kogan, the acclaimed author of the national bestseller Shutterbabe, comes this edgy, insightful, and sidesplitting memoir about surviving in the trenches of modern parenting.

Kogan writes situation comedy in the style of David Sedaris and Spalding Gray with a dash of Erma-Bombeck-on-a-Vespa: wry, acutely observed, and often hilarious true tales in which the narrator is as culpable as any character. In these eleven linked pieces, Kogan and her husband are almost always broke while working full-time and raising three children in New York City, one of the most expensive and competitive cities in the world.

In one episode, exhausted from a particularly difficult childbirth, Kogan finds herself sharing a hospital room with a foul-mouthed teen mother and her partying posse. In another, Kogan manages to crawl her way to her own emergency appendectomy, which inconveniently strikes the same week her infant's babysitter is away on vacation, her adolescents are off from school, her New York Times editor needs his edit, and the whole family catches the flu. And in the book's capper essay, she drives twelve hours, solo, with a screaming toddler in a rent-a-car in a futile effort to catch a glimpse of her eldest child in his summer camp play.

Yes, Shutterbabe is all grown up and slightly worse for the wear, but her clear-eyed vision while under fire has remained intact: You've never read funnier war stories.


Product Details

  • Format: Kindle Edition
  • File Size: 284 KB
  • Print Length: 228 pages
  • Page Numbers Source ISBN: 1401340814
  • Publisher: Hyperion e-books (August 18, 2009)
  • Sold by: Amazon Digital Services
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B002JXB8BG
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
  • Average Customer Review: 3.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (16 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #409,525 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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9 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars Not sure if these stories are book-worthy, October 9, 2009
I have to admit that the title of this book was the one thing that grabbed me. As a mother I can also appreciate all of the author's stories. I am not sure that many of them weren't embellished for effect. Come on, lying on the floor of an NYC emergency room because you are in the throes of an acute appendicitis attack and a security guard is screaming at you to get up? I have a hard time believing this one because just a few short miles to the West, this sort of thing wouldn't happen.

I can see any of these stories being told as part of a much needed rant to a girlfriend, significant other, Mom, sister, what-have-you. They are stories to be relayed and replayed, laughed at over a glass of wine or run in the park but turned into a book?????

The author did not come across as humorous as she obviously intended but instead a bit pathetic, needy, and in need of ego-stroking. She obviously has nothing to prove in the way of mothering or any of her vast accomplishments yet one cannot help but get the sense that she is bragging for attentions sake. We get that she attended Harvard but still grew up middle class, gave birth to an actor whom we have had to have seen in something what with all the name dropping she did on his behalf. I really wanted to identify with this mom but because of the boastful way she came across, had a hard time doing so.

In addition to this, maybe I am old-school but I have always believed that a book was something to be elevated past an article written for any magazine or a blog on the internet. Nowadays, it seems that anyone who has any story to tell can tell it in a book along with a shiny new cover and prime real estate in any Barnes & Noble as long as they have the right contacts. This book was seriously a misguided attempt. It was literally all over the place, went off on unrelated tangents that seemed completely beside the supposed point. It just did not seem well thought out or executed but yet something that just met the requirements of a deadline.
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14 of 18 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars Did not live up to its title, September 12, 2009
The title was so brilliant I had to buy this book, but it disappointed me on many levels.

It is not a book about parenthood...It is a book about a Harvard-educated, whiny 40-something Manhattan liberal who made the ultimate sacrifice of giving up her photojournalism and network news careers to become an underemployed but well-connected freelance writer and sometimes parent of three children with little money in a cramped Manhattan apartment. The promised humor reeks of bitterness over life choices she made herself. Her poverty complaints wear a little thin intermixed with trips to LA movie lots and Paris vacations.

Instead of writing this book, the author should have gotten a salaried job, moved to the suburbs, or both.
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5 of 6 people found the following review helpful:
2.0 out of 5 stars total disappointment, January 7, 2010
I picked up this book in the PARENTING section and was so excited. I quickly opened to the introduction, a great story about the day-to-day reality of other people thinking they know better that you do how to parent your own children. Not a single one of the essays in this book have ANYTHING to do with living in a world of competitive parenting, or really parenting AT ALL. Just because you write a story about yourself and you happen to have children, whom you may or may not even mention in a given story, doesn't make this a parenting book. I might have enjoyed this book if I picked it up in the non-fiction section or biography section, but what a total disappointment. I wish I had kept my recepit.
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More About the Author

1966-1970: The preschool years; fuzzy memories of hippies, astronauts.

1970-1978: Moved from Adelphi to Potomac, MD. Attended flower-shaped elementary school that had no walls; first writing award; weird obsession with Jonestown massacre.

1978-1981: Hormones.

1981-1984: Gigantic public high school; reams of angsty poetry; first pieces published in Seventeen.

1984-1988: The college years, which coincided with the crack/AIDS years: mugged at gunpoint unrelentingly, mated cautiously; made films, shot photos, wrote articles for the school paper, performed in school plays and one film, Key Exchange; rejected by every creative writing course in the Harvard catalogue.

1988-1992: The croissant/photojournalism years; stored clothes, personal items in Paris, France, while parachuting in from conflict to conflict (Afghanistan, Israel, Romania, Zimbabwe, the USSR, etc.) Won awards, had exhibitions; images published in Time, Newsweek, The New York Times, L'Express, Libération, Géo, Stern, etc.

1992-1998: Moved from Moscow to New York; produced TV for ABC then NBC News; got married, had a couple of babies, won an Emmy, inexpertly juggled work and kids; loudly whined for subsidized daycare, secretly pined to be a writer.

1998-now: Wrote bestselling Shutterbabe, followed by unpublishable drivel, followed by Between Here and April, Hell is Other Parents, and The Red Book; published essays in The New Yorker, The New York Times, Elle, More, Slate, Paris Match, O, and others; shot photo assignments; produced and shot a documentary in Pakistan for CNN in the wake of 9/11; became a columnist for The Financial Times; performed live on stage with The Moth, Afterbirth, Six Word Memoir, and Eve Ensler's tribute to Anita Hill; adapted Hell is Other Parents for the stage; wrote several screenplays and a TV pilot that were never produced; watched Shutterbabe (the big and small-screen versions) languish in development hell; had another baby; lost appendix, father, Upper West Side home, bearings, socks, sanity, and several nouns; found Harlem, yoga, and occasional serenity. But not the socks. Or the whatchamacallit. Nouns.


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