Help Me, I'm Sad: Recognizing, Treating, and Preventing Childhood and Adolescent Depression [Hardcover]

David G. Fassler (Author), Lynne Dumas (Author)

Book Description

ISBN-10: 0670865478 | ISBN-13: 978-0670865475 | Publication Date: October 1, 1997 | Edition: 1

This expert, reassuring guide for parents of the the one-and-a-half million children and adolescents whose lives are darkened by depression--and the millions more who are at risk--explains with wisdom and empathy how parents can play a vital role in helping a child overcome, and often prevent, depression.

Product Details

• Hardcover: 240 pages
• Publisher: Viking Adult; 1 edition (October 1, 1997)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0670865478
• ISBN-13: 978-0670865475
• Product Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 1 inches
• Shipping Weight: 15.2 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (5 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,615,760 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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40 of 41 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A reassuring and thorough guide for parents and pros., October 28, 1997

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This review is from: Help Me, I'm Sad: Recognizing, Treating, and Preventing Childhood and Adolescent Depression (Hardcover)

If you're the parent of a depressed child -- or think you might be -- this is a must-read. It's a reassuring, gentle but completely informative guide to all aspects of childhood depression. The part I liked best? How to get help for your child. It includes the best discussion of medications and other treatments I've ever read. This book makes an extremely sensitive, scary and complex subject easy to understand.

14 of 15 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Gotta Start Somewhere, November 16, 2001

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Rivkah Maccaby "Rivkah Maccaby" (Bloomington, IN United States) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Help Me, I'm Sad: Recognizing, Treating, and Preventing Childhood and Adolescent Depression (Paperback)

Although adult depression has been recognized for decades, childhood depression has only been considered since the 1980's. Previously, it was simply thought that children couldn't be depressed. Perhaps this is because (as is learned from this book) the lethargy and weepiness that adults and adolescents experience during depression, in children is often expressed as hostility. The depressed children may in fact be the troublemakers and the discipline problems.

This book reports on few case histories, but because only twenty years of research are behind this subject, that isn't surprising. Most of the descriptive text looks at the stages of childhood depression, and what to expect from various treatment options. The authors do suggest that while several stressful situations such as parental divorce, or placement in foster care can lead to childhood depression, in most cases, there will be no single, obvious, precipitating factor, and parents should not look for one.

More than once, the authors state that depression is not the fault of the parents, or the result of bad parenting. Of course, what are they going to say, if they want parents to buy their book? Parents don't want to be blamed. At any rate, if they are voluntarily looking for help, the family is probably at a point where placing blame will not solve anything, so the authors are undoubtedly correct in this approach. The problem is that this approach appears to slant the book toward physiological causes of depression almost to the exclusion of environmental factors.

Nonetheless, the information presented is readable, clear, and written in a soothing narrative voice. Just reading the book may give relief to parents who are concerned about a child.

The book neatly describes external symptoms of childhood depression, offering a great deal of help to parents and people who work with children in identifying children who may be depressed. Much of the book is given over to choosing a therapist. This is so thoroughly commendable, I don't know where to begin, because it is not uncommon for people to walk into a therapist's office, and immediately turn over all their power. This book will help families hold onto themselves until they are certain they have the right person, not just for the child but for the whole family.

I would recommend this book over most of the others addressing this topic.

4.0 out of 5 stars Informative, February 15, 2005

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Tiffany Showers "Sam, and Oliver's mom" (Louisville, KY) - See all my reviews

This review is from: Help Me, I'm Sad: Recognizing, Treating, and Preventing Childhood and Adolescent Depression (Paperback)

I found this book to be very informative and highly recommend it to anyone concerned with how "sad" or withdrawn their child is.