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Elyse M. Fitzpatrick (Author)
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May 1, 2003
There are few more contentious and heart-rending topics among women in the church than submission and what it means to be man's helper. Elyse Fitzpatrick believes that understanding this topic can bring about great freedom and a more meaningful relationship with Christ and your husband. In Helper By Design, she takes an in-depth theological look at what it means to be made in God's image to be a helper. No matter what your perspective, this book will set in motion great heart changes as you grow toward becoming the woman God has called you to be.

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About the Author

ELYSE FITZPATRICK (M.A., Trinity Theological Seminary) is a counselor at the Institute for Biblical Counseling and Discipleship.  She holds a certificate in biblical counseling from IBCD and is a member of the National Association of Nouthetic Counselors.  The author of five books, Elyse lives in California with her husband, Philip.
c.2003

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  • Paperback: 224 pages
  • Publisher: Moody Publishers (May 1, 2003)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0802408699
  • ISBN-13: 978-0802408693
  • Product Dimensions: 8.9 x 6 x 0.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (8 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #248,034 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Elyse Fitzpatrick was born in 1950, but more significantly, was re-born by God's grace in 1971. She married Phillip Fitzpatrick and set about raising their children while completing her BA in Theology.
In 1986, sensing a distinct calling to disciple and counsel other Christian women, she began training in biblical counseling with The Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation. She became a member of the National Association of Nouthetic Counselors in 1991 and earned a Master of Arts Degree in Biblical Counseling from Trinity Theological Seminary in 1997. Then in 1998, her first book, "Women Helping Women", was released, winning a Gold Medallion Finalist Award.
Since that time, Elyse has written 12 books aimed at encouraging, enlightening and comforting her sisters and brothers in their Christian walk. In recent years she's become convinced of the centrality and relevance of the Gospel message to every area of life and has found renewed zeal and joy in the ancient (and perhaps all-too-familiar) message: Jesus Christ died to save sinners! He rose again for our justification!
Elyse lives with her dear husband, Phil, and their two Cavalier King Charles Spaniels (Tanner and Rosie). Her children (and their wonderful spouses) have presented her with 6 delightful grandchildren: Wesley, Hayden, Eowyn, Allie, Gabriel and Colin -- her darlings. She loves the Southern California lifestyle -- riding bikes (and attending classes at Westminster Theological Seminary) all winter and riding waves all summer. She attends Valley Center Community Church where you can find her nearly every Sunday morning rejoicing in the grace that transformed her life so many years ago.

 

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5.0 out of 5 stars This book isn't essentially about submission in marriage!, July 5, 2005
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Even though submission is an important topic when discussing marriage, I don't get to it until chapter 9 and it's not the primary topic of this book. "Helper By Design" is about the way that God designed women with certain inclinations and strengths and how they can (and should!) be used in marriage. It's about the image of God in us and how that Trinitarian image translates into the relationship between a husband and wife. It's about how you, if you're a Christian wife, can find purpose and joy in that relationship as you come to know Christ in a more intimate way. If you're sick of fluffy books about marriage that tell you the "10 Steps to a Perfect Marriage (Like Mine!)" then this book is for you.
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18 of 18 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent Book!, June 22, 2004
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This is, by far, THE BEST book written on this topic that I have ever read. Elyse lays out God's plan for us starting from "the beginning." I very much appreciate her emphasis on the Scriptures, allowing God to enlighten us through His Word, instead of being convinced by good argument. If you want to know how to live with, love, and support your husband, read this book. If you want to know how your identity fits in with being a "help meet", read this book. If you feel frustrated with your unbelieving, or believing but still growing, spouse, read this book. Elyse paints an incredible picture of women made in God's image. She tears down your defenses, releasing you to explore the truth about who you are meant to be as a wife. Problems will always exist in marriages, but understanding the unique role you have in it, ordained by God, helps you to overcome. As always, there is joy and peace when you do things God's way. Elyse has shown me that marriage insn't something to be endured, but to enjoy. There is hope and happiness even if your spouse isn't perfect. I highly recommend this book, especially as a pastor's wife.
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16 of 16 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars This book has transformed marriages, April 13, 2004
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We used this book in a small group setting with 30-45 women. We spent approximately 12 weeks doing one chapter a week. The women began commenting week after week that this book simply transformed their marriages. One reason for the success of the book is it helps women to gain a biblical perspective on their role as "Help Mate" to their husband. Thus instead of focusing on changing their husband, they need to look at their own lives; and see where change needs to take place. Elyse does an excellent job at getting to the heart of the issue.
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