From High Heels to Bunny Slippers: Surviving the Transition from Career to Home (Capital Lifestyles) [Paperback]

Christine Conners (Author)

Book Description

Series: Capital Lifestyles | Publication Date: March 28, 2006

Psychotherapist, mother, and author Christine Conners never doubts that the decision of a professional woman to stay home with her young children is the right one. In From High Heels to Bunny Slippers, she supports their decision to personally care for their children with compelling new research on childcare and its potential negative effects on young children, as well as her own firsthand experience as a co-founder of the NASA child development centers. Unlike previous books aimed at this growing readership, Conners recognizes and addresses mothers’ adjustment problems that, like any major life event, arise from the decision to quit your job and stay home. She offers tools and strategies that gently lead the professional woman from the challenge of her work world into the new challenges of parenting full-time. She sympathizes, as a stay-at-home mother herself, with the immediate frustrations of loss of personal identity, financial difficulties, depression, and marital discord. As a mental health professional, she offers her proven techniques for forming a strong new identity as a parent when you leave your career, for addressing financial woes through part-time work and money-saving strategies, for overcoming social isolation, depression, anger, and stress, and for finding personal fulfillment during this special time with your young children.

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About the Author

Christine Conners is a psychotherapist and counselor with a master’s degree in Marriage and Family Counseling. She was president of the board of directors and a co-founder of the NASA Dryden Child Development Center and worked as a liaison with NASA Headquarters and other NASA centers to define uniform guidelines for NASA child development centers. For the last nine years Christine has been primarily the stay-at-home parent of her four children, though she works part-time as a child therapist for Georgia’s state mental hospital in Savannah. Christine is the co-author of Lipsmackin’ Backpackin’ and Lipsmackin’ Vegetarian Backpackin’. She lives in Savannah, Georgia.

Product Details

• Paperback: 204 pages
• Publisher: Capital Books (March 28, 2006)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1933102144
• ISBN-13: 978-1933102146
• Product Dimensions: 8.8 x 5.9 x 0.5 inches
• Shipping Weight: 8.8 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 3.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (21 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,565,627 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Most Helpful Customer Reviews

17 of 18 people found the following review helpful:

1.0 out of 5 stars Ridiculous biased views, February 15, 2008

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Chickadee (Texas) - See all my reviews

This review is from: From High Heels to Bunny Slippers: Surviving the Transition from Career to Home (Capital Lifestyles) (Paperback)

If you're OK with feeling guilty about anyone besides you or your spouse caring for your children before they go off to college then this book is for you.
I recently left work to stay at home with my 1 year old baby. I had hoped this book would help me with perspective on leaving my career and finding fulfillment and balance in staying home. Instead this book was full of ridiculous biased views. The author cites several examples of parents who left their children with caregivers/daycares/babysitters only to find their children were raped, abused, or belittled. This book details very specific and disturbing examples which are extrapolated to all caregivers. Other extreme views in this book: pets are bad; buy second-hand clothes to save money; don't think about going back to work until your kids are well into teen years or you are selfish and destroying their future; get your man to help with chores by using sex -- Quote p. 109: "So how do we get our man to help? Sex, of course." Not helpful at all. FYI - the author, Christine Conners, has also written a book called "Lipsmackin' Vegetarian Backpackin'." Uh, OK. Wish I knew this before I bought the book.

8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars This book set me free............THANK YOU!!, May 23, 2006

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Kim T "Queen Bee" (Savannah, Georgia) - See all my reviews

This review is from: From High Heels to Bunny Slippers: Surviving the Transition from Career to Home (Capital Lifestyles) (Paperback)

As a stay-home mom of 4 boys and former professional (speech-language pathologist), I have often felt lost, alone, bored and guilty for being so ungrateful.........a rather vicious, unrelenting cycle of self-abuse!! Reading this book has set me free so I can better stop this dysfunctional cycle and move forward with acceptance and knowledge that others feel this way too. This freedom propels me into a higher level of appreciation of myself, my family, and the decision to stay home, which continues to be the right decision for OUR family. It provides insight, but also ideas as to how to nurture myself,which ultimately benefits my marriage and family. Thank you, Christine, for being so brave in discussing this issue, researching it, and taking time to write the book.

10 of 11 people found the following review helpful:

1.0 out of 5 stars Not nearly enough on the transition to staying at home!, March 19, 2008

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pleureur. - See all my reviews

This review is from: From High Heels to Bunny Slippers: Surviving the Transition from Career to Home (Capital Lifestyles) (Paperback)

This book purports to be about the transition from career woman to stay-at-home mother, but what it's really about is justifying the author's lifestyle choices.

Although I don't use strangers as babysitters or daycare, I found her discussion of daycare to be very biased. She mainly uses scare tactics, such as tales of children being abandoned or nearly molested by the babysitter, and controversial comparisons of violence and intelligence between children in daycare and those who stay with their mothers. She also is opposed to having other relatives care for one's child, which I found strange.

While she claims that women should embrace their nature of taking care of children, breastfeeding is depicted negatively in at least one example (where she is at the doctor and her milk comes down, leaving her wet with what's described as sour milk), and she suggests that breastfeeding women keep formula on hand. Her stories of her own post-partum weight retention and untidiness could have been expressed more clearly and in a way that suggested some solutions.

I also found her rants about "discipline" to be totally out of place. She insists that she is a psychologist who knows her stuff and therefore is qualified to inform you that if you don't use her behaviorism-based "discipline" plan, you will be in a world of trouble. She shares a story about ignoring her screaming 18-month old strapped in a shopping cart, until he "learned" that that would not get him any attention. (Let's all hope we don't shop at the same stores as the author.) The bottom line is, it's sad that a book on mothers misses the point and becomes a book about her approach to parenting. And her view is made very clear -- put up the reward chart, trot out the punishments, embrace behaviorism in its entirety, or woe to you! The instructions to readers to "reward" our husbands with sex, and that every woman needs to hire a maid, are also out of place, particularly because of the way she suggests them.

I found this book to be disturbingly off-topic and disappointing.