A single, childless, 40-something friend, who spends much time with her married sister with four children, made this observation recently: When we were kids, we couldn't wait to grow up. Adults got dressed up and went out to dinner and parties, they smoked and drank and stayed up late. It was like the movies. Now kids look at their parents and they never want to grow up. Who would choose to spend all their time tending to every expressed, implied, or anticipated need of a bunch of kids?
In a word, today's culture is very different from that of mid- to- late twentieth century, where children fit into the lives of their adults rather than the other way around. Catholicism, too, has changed. Nuns used to run the Catholic schools, some would say the parishes, and no one thought about homeschooling. Weekly confession and family rosary time were marks of a "religious" family.
All this is a way of introducing the prescription for developing and nurturing a devout family in today's world. In Homegrown Faith, Heidi Bratton provides an easy-to-follow resource with reflections, discussion questions, activities, prayers, examples, scripture quotations, lists, journal starters, and more laid out in 52 chapters organized around the liturgical seasons.
Each chapter ends with suggestions for growing spiritually this week, such as:
* Recall a time when you missed "an important detail in parenting." How did it happen, how to avoid doing it again?
* In what ways do you see motherhood as an act of courage and hope?
* Produce a drawing or paragraph about yourself engaged in the work of a parent missionary.
The author, who has written more than twenty books, contributes articles and blog posts to several outlets focused on Catholic families.