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Homesick & Happy - How Time Away from Parents Can Help a Child Grow

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  • About the Author - Michael Thompson, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist, lecturer, consultant, and former seventh-grade teacher. He conducts workshops across the United States and internationally on social cruelty, children's friendships, and boys' development. With Dan Kindlon, Ph.D., he co-authored the New York Times bestseller Raising Cain: Protecting the Emotional Life of Boys, which was adapted into an acclaimed documentary shown on PBS. With Teresa H. Barker he co-authored The Pressured Chi
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Homesick & Happy - How Time Away from Parents Can Help a Child Grow by Michael Thompson is a must read for today's parents. In an age when it's the rare child who walks to school on his own, the thought of sending your "little ones" off to sleep-away camp can be overwhelming-for you and for them. But parents' first instinct-to shelter their offspring above all else-is actually depriving kids of the major developmental milestones that occur through letting them go-and watching them come back transformed. In Homesick and Happy, renowned child psychologist Michael Thompson, PhD, shares a strong argument for, and a vital guide to, this brief loosening of ties. A great champion of summer camp, he explains how camp ushers your children into a thrilling world offering an environment that most of us at home cannot: an electronics-free zone, a multigenerational community, meaningful daily rituals like group meals and cabin clean-up, and a place where time simply slows down. In the buggy woods, icy swims, campfire sing-alongs, and daring adventures, children have emotionally significant and character-building experiences; they often grow in ways that surprise even themselves; they make lifelong memories and cherished friends. Thompson shows how children who are away from their parents can be both homesick and happy, scared and successful, anxious and exuberant. When kids go to camp-for a week, a month, or the whole summer-they can experience some of the greatest maturation of their lives, and return more independent, strong, and healthy.Author - Michael Thompson.Binding - paper.Pages - 304.Publisher - Random House.Year - 2012.ISBN - 9780345524928.

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As for this book, well the title sounds like it would be a good book, that's why I chose it.
Debbie Olson
Just like anything else, camp can be a great experience or a horrible one, depending on the kid and the camp.
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Michael Thompson is a school counselor and an author of eight parenting books about childhood development.
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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful By kacunnin TOP 500 REVIEWERVINE VOICE on June 12, 2012
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Michael Thompson's HOMESICK AND HAPPY is at once a tribute to sleepover camps and a plea to parents to give their kids the opportunity to experience time away from home. The book is a collection of interviews Thompson conducted with children, parents, and camp counselors, along with his own insight into the benefits of the camp experience for almost every child.

Part of Thompson's message here is that children today are having fewer and fewer opportunities to be on their own, away from well-meaning parents. That means they are having a harder time developing the self-confidence and independence that is so important as they grow up. Too often, Thompson says, parents are doing too much for their children, in the name of "good parenting." We want our children to be happy and confident, to be safe, to have friends, to do well in school, and to be independent people. But these are the very things parents cannot do for their children. Summer sleepover camp, says Thompson, can help children develop these things on their own.

The book provides a number of detailed stories about children who have attended a wide variety of camps, including a long section on homesickness. This is probably the scariest thing about camp, not only for the children who will be suffering from it (almost all children do, Thompson says), but also for the parents who have to receive those horrible letters ("Mom, I HATE it here! Come get me!"). Thompson sees homesickness as a very painful but necessary part of the process of separation - by mastering homesickness, children learn what they're truly capable of. This is the beginning to real independence and confidence.
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Author Michael Thompson, has produced another solid book (he is the author of Raising Cain), this one designed to encourage parents to allow their kids - both boys and girls- to live away from their parents, at camp or in other ways for part of the summer. Raising Cain focused on the emotional needs of boys. This time around, Thompson covers a wider scope, describing how all children need to learn how to be independent. This may be best accomplished away from parents - for a few weeks or even a couple of months each summer - at an overnight camp.

The material in Homesick and Happy might be very difficult for parents to accept, especially when the world can seem more dangerous or scary than ever. Newspaper headlines focus on the worst case situations and yes, they can be gruesome and horrifying. As a result, the instinctive reaction may be to hover, to remain ever more vigilant and to stay close to one's child at all times.

But sooner or later, children mature and will have to navigate life when parents aren't around. Homesick and Happy provides guidelines on how to let children do exactly this by starting with trips away from home. Thompson provides helpful tips on alleviating anxieties - for both children AND parents (often, it is rougher on the parents than the kids).

Thompson describes how children are spending summers focused on academics instead of taking a break from school. Perhaps this is because parents worry about how to keep their kids competitive and believe that studying for hours daily - even in the summer - helps their children stay on top.

But what about opportunities for imaginative play and creativity? What about being part of a community that doesn't include parents...just for awhile?
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful By L. Jonsson VINE VOICE on September 7, 2012
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When I received this book, I expected information on homesickness (as the title indicates.) I expected the history of when homesickness was first recognized in children being away from home, treatments for homesickness, and examples given of children who had overcome homesickness. Instead, I got a book that emphasized the positives of being at summer camp, and examples of children and parents who are happy with the summer camps they selected.

Michael Thompson Ph.D has an impressive resume, which is also why I got the book. He co-authored Raising Cain, on the perils and pleasures of raising boys, as well as Mom, they're teasing me, which is about bullying in schools and at home. With these two excellent books alone-and Thompson has co-authored more than that-I expected more than what this book had to offer. At first, the author describes himself at send away summer camp, and other experiences he and other people he knows has not being watched by their parents for extended periods of time. Thompson then goes into the various benefits of summer away camp, such as increasing their self-esteem, making friends, eating new foods, and keeping them away from electronic devices for extended periods of time. Then he goes into examples of 8 different camps he has researched, and interviews and gives feedback from children and parents who have been to these camps.

Again, the book simply was not what I expected. I expected more on the phenomenon of homelessness, which can manifest itself in many different ways-by being at school, by being at a friends house, by going away to college, etc. There is a mention of the above items, but Thompson does not go into detail.
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