No one is born with perfect communication skills. This practical guide offers a rare balance of wisdom and humor; unlike more complicated and theoretical books on assertion, communication, and conflict resolution, the principles are easy to apply, and are useful for all ages. Discover the ways in which experiences from the past, such as hurt, anger, and bitterness affect how you communicate today. Incorporate three simple words into your life—honest, direct, respectful—and change the way you communicate.
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“Dennis Adams has captured the essence of management and interpersonal relationships…”
Jack Horn, CEO/Executive Director, Partnership HealthPlan of California
“…Honest, Direct, and Respectful terminology has led to new levels of trust within our team and to improved satisfaction for our customers.”
Greg Christian, Operations Support Leader, Kaiser Permanente
“Dennis Adams’ approach to communication style is promising, personal and productive… It is a map for improved interpersonal skills that go beyond simple communication.”
Robert L. Docter, Ph.D., California State University, Northridge
“…Honest, Direct, Respectful is a ‘must have’ for any business leader.”
John Guyer, President & CEO, Nexsys
Jack Horn, CEO/Executive Director, Partnership HealthPlan of California
“…Honest, Direct, and Respectful terminology has led to new levels of trust within our team and to improved satisfaction for our customers.”
Greg Christian, Operations Support Leader, Kaiser Permanente
“Dennis Adams’ approach to communication style is promising, personal and productive… It is a map for improved interpersonal skills that go beyond simple communication.”
Robert L. Docter, Ph.D., California State University, Northridge
“…Honest, Direct, Respectful is a ‘must have’ for any business leader.”
John Guyer, President & CEO, Nexsys
About the Author
Dennis D. Adams is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, and is an ombudsman for a major health organization. He is a highly sought-after seminar and workshop speaker. He holds a degree in Communication/Theology from Biola University and earned a Master’s Degree, with honors, in Counseling Psychology from Saint Mary’s College in Moraga, California.
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This review is from: Honest, Direct, Respectful: Three Simple Words that will Change your Life (Hardcover)
Reviewed by Regan Windsor for Reader Views (6/07)
Is your communication style effective? Do you communicate in a way that is Honest Direct and Respectful? "Honest Direct Respectful: Three Simple Words That Will Change Your Life" is a small book that packs a big punch. Providing an analysis of the passive - reactive communication continuum, Dennis D. Adams guides the reader through an analysis of their communication style and the implications that their style may have on the many facets of their life. The book begins with a description of both passive (quiet and reticent/ unresponsive) and reactive (loud and aggressive or demanding and "in your face") and provides examples of how people on the passive and reactive sides of the continuum think. It then follows with a short quiz to test where on the continuum your communication style lies. Adams then provides examples from his own experience, and the experience of others, to further define passive versus reactive communicators. If you see yourself in both the passive and reactive styles it's possible you're a TOP - Ticked-Off Passive. This occurs when people are passive so long, they are now angry at the world and react in a reactive way, but then feel bad about it (a reaction true reactive types do not experience). The most effective communication style exists in the middle of the continuum, where communication is not confrontational, and it is not avoidance. It is truthful and it is executed in an Honest Direct Respectful manner. "Honest Direct Respectful" provides a simple and effective model for successful communication. The ability to communicate effectively has vast implications on your success both personally and professionally. I would highly recommend this resource book for everyone; even those that are not extreme passive or reactive communicators will find value in the suggestions in this book. Received book free of charge.
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This review is from: Honest, Direct, Respectful: Three Simple Words that will Change your Life (Hardcover)
The principles in this book could solve most of the problems we face in business and relationships. Read it, apply it, and marvel at the results. It's amazing how effective our communication can be when it's honest, direct and respectful.
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This little book is a quick read and helpful for communicating clearly. The best part was the survey that helps you identify your personal style of communicating. Awareness first. The premise of the author's message is right on, but for those of us who struggle, more examples and scenarios would have been helpful.
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