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Hooking Up: Sex, Dating, and Relationships on Campus [Paperback]

Kathleen A. Bogle
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January 1, 2008 0814799698 978-0814799697

Listen to her NPR Interview

The Sociology of "Hooking Up": Author Interview on Inside Higher Ed

Newsweek: Campus Sexperts

Hookup culture creates unfamiliar environment - to parents, at least

Hooking Up: What Educators Need to Know - An op-ed on CHE by the author

It happens every weekend: In a haze of hormones and alcohol, groups of male and female college students meet at a frat party, a bar, or hanging out in a dorm room, and then hook up for an evening of sex first, questions later. As casually as the sexual encounter begins, so it often ends with no strings attached; after all, it was "just a hook up." While a hook up might mean anything from kissing to oral sex to going all the way, the lack of commitment is paramount.

Hooking Up is an intimate look at how and why college students get together, what hooking up means to them, and why it has replaced dating on college campuses. In surprisingly frank interviews, students reveal the circumstances that have led to the rise of the booty call and the death of dinner-and-a-movie. Whether it is an expression of postfeminist independence or a form of youthful rebellion, hooking up has become the only game in town on many campuses.

In Hooking Up, Kathleen A. Bogle argues that college life itself promotes casual relationships among students on campus. The book sheds light on everything from the differences in what young men and women want from a hook up to why freshmen girls are more likely to hook up than their upper-class sisters and the effects this period has on the sexual and romantic relationships of both men and women after college. Importantly, she shows us that the standards for young men and women are not as different as they used to be, as women talk about "friends with benefits" and "one and done" hook ups.

Breaking through many misconceptions about casual sex on college campuses, Hooking Up is the first book to understand the new sexual culture on its own terms, with vivid real-life stories of young men and women as they navigate the newest sexual revolution.


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Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly

Hooking-up is the term du jour, connoting a wide range of consensual sexual activities, with no pretense of starting a relationship, between young, mostly college-age students. This study by Bogle, an assistant professor of sociology and criminal justice at LaSalle University—based on 76 interviews with mostly white college students and recent graduates from 2001 to 2006—gives a wide range of voices and opinions on hooking-up culture. While there are few surprises (women are still, for the most part, subjected to a punishing sexual double standard)—Bogle is a smart interviewer and gets her subjects to reveal intimate and often embarrassing details without being moralizing. She interrogates her subjects about alcohol use, the relationship of gay and lesbian students to hook-up culture, and opting out of hook-up culture. Bogle's work is important because it offers a complex portrait of young people grappling the best way they know how with the sexual realities of a rapidly changing world. Although limited in scope, this evenhanded, sympathetic book on a topic that has received far too much sensational and shoddy coverage is an important addition to the contemporary literature on youth and sexuality. (Feb.)
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"Remarkable because while it avoids the alarmist tone of the dominant discourse it does not turn a blind eye to the gendered inequality and sexual double standards that characterize hook-up culture, nor does it ignore the individual-level effects those structured inequalities have on women, men and the relationships they form during and after college."
-Sexuality & Culture,

“Bogle is a smart interviewer and gets her subjects to reveal intimate and often embarrassing details without being moralizing. This evenhanded, sympathetic book on a topic that has received far too much sensational and shoddy coverage is an important addition to the contemporary literature on youth and sexuality.”

-Publishers Weekly,

“Bogle’s prose engages the reader, and her positive rapport with her interviewees provides confidences typically reserved for best friends. A useful resource for college students who want to know what hooking up means to their classmates, Bogle's book is also relevant for parents trying to figure out why their darn kids are running around the bases backward.”

-The Philadelphia Inquirer,

Hooking Up is a welcome, empirical addition that informs all readers of the collegiate state of affairs—sexual and otherwise. It will be of particular interest to scholars in the fields of gender, sexuality, family, relationships, and higher education.”

-Rachel Kalish,Gender & Society

“This work is an excellent reflection on the continuing double standards for men and women and the consideration of gender norms in our ‘post-feminist’ culture will be appreciated by gender studies scholars as well as by researchers and practitioners interested in late adolescent and emerging adult sexuality. Hooking Up also serves as a valuable reference for those who seek to understand (and decode) the sexual terminology and encounters of youth and young adults.”

-Journal of Youth and Adolescence,

Product Details

  • Paperback: 225 pages
  • Publisher: NYU Press (January 1, 2008)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0814799698
  • ISBN-13: 978-0814799697
  • Product Dimensions: 6 x 0.5 x 8.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 10.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (14 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #80,057 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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26 of 30 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A great read!! February 11, 2008
By KAD
Format:Paperback
This book just validated my entire college experience! The interviews Bogle did with college men and women show the true disparity between the sexes when it comes to hooking up. I was always the girl "hoping it would lead to something" and always seemed to find the guy who was thinking the opposite. Bottom line, I laughed out loud at many of the interviews and how they tied in with my experiences, and those of my girlfriends, on campus. Also, now that I am a parent, I would strongly recommend this book to parents of first-time college students so they have a clue as to what's going on on campus and how to talk to their son or daughter about it.
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14 of 19 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Very Impressive February 15, 2008
By wfb916
Format:Paperback
I just finished reading Hooking Up. What impressed me the most is that the author let the people she interviewed tell their stories so that it was the college students and twenty-something's themselves who reveal what hooking up is and how it affects them. I really appreciated that author was not judgmental and I bet that is why everyone who was interviewed seemed so forthcoming.

I would highly recommend this book to anyone who is interested in learning more about what it's like to be a single man or woman today - including college students, young adults and their parents. I think women especially will find it eye opening.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Great Read May 18, 2013
By M C
Format:Paperback|Amazon Verified Purchase
I had to read this for a course and it was quite interesting! It is good to be a good discerner of research and this work was well done!
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2.0 out of 5 stars More of a Published Study than a Book
This was interesting, but the author seemed to write like more a student giving a report than a respectable author telling of their experiences and insight. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Levi
5.0 out of 5 stars Good Book
My doughter use thi book in the colleges and she think is great and help the students to learn the class.
Published 5 months ago by chol perez
5.0 out of 5 stars More Than Just The Basics :)
As the author of Jealousy - How To Deal With Your College Boyfriend (Conquer Relationship Jealousy) I know a thing or two about dating and relationships on a college campus. Read more
Published 7 months ago by Jen Colati
4.0 out of 5 stars Go into college relationships... with open eyes...
As a disclaimer, my college experience generally did not reflect this kind of culture. However, I will say this for the book: it is the kind of thing helicopter parents are afraid... Read more
Published 9 months ago by Jin-roh
5.0 out of 5 stars good book
wish it where cheaper...but its interesting stuff we all know.. gurls are slu+s...guys are dou(he bags you know what elese can i say
Published 15 months ago by Jandro Torres
1.0 out of 5 stars Not Bad for a Beginning..pretty awful for a Reference
I wrote a paper on this topic for Human Sexuality class in 2003. I got an A. :)
I found this book to be a boring and inaccurate account. Read more
Published on July 30, 2009 by T. Stilwell
5.0 out of 5 stars A great read.
Even though I am no longer attending college, I ran across this book and thought it sounded interesting. Read more
Published on July 6, 2009 by Nicola Lightfoot
5.0 out of 5 stars Highly recommended, especially for parents and teachers.
Dear Sir,
I am very happy with this book.Information is very good and to the point.
It is a very good idea for parents with growing-up teeners to have and read this... Read more
Published on June 21, 2009 by Marcial Ignacio
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Published on December 21, 2008 by David Kruschke
5.0 out of 5 stars A GREAT READ!!!
EVERY college student should this book, even if you are not a part of the hook-up culture. This book is very, very interesting and honest. Read more
Published on November 19, 2008 by Amanda Keegan
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