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How to Argue: Powerfully, Persuasively, Positively [Kindle Edition]

Jonathan Herring
4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (63 customer reviews)

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The ability to persuade, influence and convince is a vital skill for success in work and life. However, most of us have little idea how to argue well. Indeed, arguing is still seen by many as something to be avoided at all costs, and mostly it's done poorly, or not at all. Yet it's possibly the most powerful and yet most neglected asset you could have. Discover the art of arguing powerfully, persuasively and positively and you'll have a head start every time you want to:
  • Get your point across effectively
  • Persuade other people to your way of thinking
  • Keep your cool in a heated situation
  • Win people over
  • Get what you want
  • Tackle a difficult person or topic
  • Be convincing and articulate
  • Have great confidence when you speak
In How to Argue, leading lawyer Jonathan Herring reveals the secrets and subtleties of making your case and winning hearts and minds. At home or at work, you'll be well equipped to make everything you say have the desired effect, every time.


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The ability to persuade, influence and convince is a vital skill for success in work and life.  However, most of us have little idea how to argue well. Indeed, arguing is still seen by many as something to be avoided at all costs, and mostly it’s done really badly – or not at all. Yet it’s possibly the most powerful and yet most neglected asset you could have.

 

Discover the art of arguing powerfully, persuasively and positively and you’ll have a head start every time you want to:

 

  • Put your point across effectively
  • Persuade other people to your way of thinking
  • Keep your cool in a heated situation
  • Win people over
  • Get what you want
  • Tackle a difficult person or topic
  • Be convincing and articulate
  • Have great confidence when you speak

 

In How to Argue, leading lawyer, husband and father Jonathan Herring reveals the secrets and subtleties of making your case and winning hearts and minds. At home or at work, you’ll be well equipped to make everything you say have the desired effect, every time.

About the Author

Jonathan Herring understands the components of a good argument. He is a lawyer and eminent legal academic (at Exeter College of Oxford) and has written over twenty books, including best-selling textbooks on criminal law, family law, and medical law and ethics.

Product Details

  • File Size: 256 KB
  • Print Length: 225 pages
  • Page Numbers Source ISBN: 0132980932
  • Simultaneous Device Usage: Up to 5 simultaneous devices, per publisher limits
  • Publisher: FT Press; 1 edition (April 23, 2012)
  • Sold by: Amazon Digital Services, Inc.
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B007VONPJQ
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
  • X-Ray: Enabled
  • Lending: Not Enabled
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #79,700 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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The book seems to be very well written with a lot of helpful advice. D. Mckinzie  |  17 reviewers made a similar statement
I will keep this book on my shelf for a long time. Clint Walker  |  6 reviewers made a similar statement
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66 of 68 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Not Bad for the Beginner May 31, 2012
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I've been teaching college argumentation for over twenty years, so with great interest I read How to Argue by Jonathan Herring. The book is divided into two parts, Part 1. The Ten Golden Rules of Argument (Be Prepared, When to Argue, when to walk away; What you say and how you say it; Listen and listen again; Excel at responding to arguments; Watch out for crafty tricks; Develop the skills for arguing in public; Be able to argue in writing; Be great at resolving deadlock; Maintain relationships) and Part 2. Situations where arguments commonly arise.

The format of the book is curious. I can't tell if it's written for the general reader, the high school student, the college freshman, or all of the above. With medium font print and large font headings (Be prepared, What do you want? Framing an Argument, Facts, etc. )and subheadings, the format reminds me of a self-help book. As a result, How to Argue seems more like a dumbed-down primer, perhaps a form of "Arguing for Dummies."

Some people may enjoy this format. I do not. The material seems outdated and remedial. This book has a stale quality about it, like an old textbook you might find written in the 1960s or 1970s. There are no current examples or study of contemporary essays.

However, the book has its virtues. It's easy to read, has clear examples, and makes the beginner feel comfortable in a potentially overwhelming topic: argumentation. It's also based on a very sound, moral premise, as stated in the introduction: We argue, not to "win," but to further our understanding.

Just don't expect this book to be full of nuance and rhetorical complexity. It's for the remedial student of argumentation.

Final Thoughts

My initial score was 3 stars, but I thought that was unfair since I expected a more advanced treatment of argumentation when in fact the author's intent seems very well to address a beginning audience, so 4 stars seems more appropriate.
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28 of 28 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Improve Your Discourse, Achieve Your Goal May 29, 2012
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I used to teach argumentation theory in my freshman comp classes, and I could see the curtains lowering behind my students' eyes. I thought, all this about coalescent design, Toulmin models, and case construction is so interesting to me, surely my students must share my excitement! Only when I saw them putting my lectures into play did I realize that advanced theory mattered little to anyone not ready for the brass tacks of legitimate argument.

Jonathan Herring, prolific British law professor and ethicist, steps into that gap with a good, brief, spirited introduction to the process of testing ideas through argument. His guide does not provide clues on how to win a quarrel or best somebody in a brannigan. Rather, he demonstrates the best way to speak well, pitch your premise, bolster it in a persuasive manner, and defend it against routine attacks. I wish I'd had this book in my teaching days.

Herring's guide has many advantages. First, it's slim. Readers could slip this book in a briefcase, purse, or outside pocket of a backpack for easy consultation. This jibes with its straightforward organization, so readers can find what they need. Herring divides his book into two parts: ten "golden rules" of productive argumentation, and ten situation-specific approaches to customizing argument. Together, they form a good introduction to primarily verbal debate.

To begin, Herring asks readers to know whether they really want to have the argument at hand. Are you prepared, in command of the facts? Is this the right venue to have this argument? Will this argument do more harm than good for the relationship? Is this argument even worth having? Surely we all share, at least somewhat, the experience of winning the battle and losing the war when we encultured resentments, made ourselves look ignorant, or lost a job.

Herring also recognizes that not all arguments are the same. I appreciate his discussion of how to argue when the participants have unequal power. We cannot approach an argument with our kids, who are essentially powerless, the same way we approach an argument with a spouse, who should be roughly equal, or a boss, who has extreme power over us. We must customize our approach depending on the distribution of power.

If you often find yourself going in circles when trying to sort out differences, or make little headway getting others to take your needs seriously, you need this brief entrée to simple argument. Herring makes short work of a complex subject, in a way that doesn't bog down in extraneous detail or terminology. Hopefully, if a few people in key places follow his advice, we'll see an improved level of discourse in our time.
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23 of 23 people found the following review helpful
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First of all I am one of those people who does not relish confrontations. However, a confrontation is sometimes necessary to progress for one and all involved.Even though I understand this it has never been easy for me to approach situations, because I did not want people to feel I was attacking them in a personal way. As a manager of 8 employess , I of course face situations from time to time. This book has helped me learn how to approach needed changes in a positve way so that I do not come across as the big bad boss. Suggestions on how to change how I think about the situations,have helped me face more areas that needed change or tweaking with a positive for all involved attitude instead of fear of being misunderstood. My employees have responded more favorably, and love the fact that they feel included and part of the decisions. I love happy employees!

Of course there is always at least on person that loves to argue and push your buttons just because they love the win of beating you at an argument. I might add these arguments usually have no point other than boosting the ego of the person who just needs to feel superior because they won. Well, here is where "How to Argue" really took some stress out of my life. It teaches technique on how to deal with this kind of person as well. It is less fun to push buttons if the arguement it lost, proved to be wrong, or proven to be pointless.

This book could be made into a class course for college first year, and would benifit all groups of people, we all have to deal with these type of unpleasant issues. "How to Argue" teaches how to pick your fights, when to just leave it alone, how to assure people that their concerns are important to you and that you are listening and taking their viewpoint as legitiment and important, then how to discuss instead of argue. It also teaches how to be ready to support yourself with facts and important information in case you need to plead your case for something. A great resource book that is now in the resource section of my home library to be refered to again and again depending on what situation I need some hints and solutions on how to deal with.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Easy Reading
This book is more ofa refresher course than a primer. What it has to offer is rather standard for this type of book. Read more
Published 2 days ago by Longfellow
3.0 out of 5 stars interesting enough...
Good, not great. Quick and easy read. Some points are obvious and oversimplified but overall this is an insightful book.
Published 7 days ago by thezman22
5.0 out of 5 stars Achieve your goals
I found this book invaluable. So often we are trying to get our point across this books helps you with direct techniques in how to get your point across. Read more
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5.0 out of 5 stars was a good read
i read much of it the had a crash and have not had time to re download it all done
Published 12 days ago by Arthur D. Matz
3.0 out of 5 stars Not Very Advanced and Boring
This book will probably work for a beginner. It simply didn't grab my attention and is really a boring book. This book just didn't work for me. Read more
Published 24 days ago by Book Fanatic
3.0 out of 5 stars Great points
This book contained many useful points but nothing really innovating in my eyes. However, it was nice to read something that effectively organized and demonstrated those points... Read more
Published 25 days ago by Kyle Schmidt
5.0 out of 5 stars Bought for my daughter
Very good book. I hope my daughter can learn a little better the ways of arguing effectively. She needs it.
Published 1 month ago by Linda J Bodrero
5.0 out of 5 stars IF you want to argue read this
Powerful
Persuasive
Instructive
If you want to argue well ...
or understand how others do
read this little book
now.
Published 1 month ago by Paige Turner
5.0 out of 5 stars "BE A WINNER"
LOVE IT!! have recommended it to several people already. wish i had it many years ago. should be required reading in college prep schools and for anyone involved in negotiating.
Published 1 month ago by FRANCIS E. MAZZA
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