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How to Avoid the Divorce from Hell: And Dance Together at Your Daughter's Wedding

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I'm a judge who has heard divorce and child custody cases for the past five years. A divorce attorney recently shared a copy of this book with me, as she has already been doing with her clients. I must say that it is an excellent book, full of practical suggestions for getting through a divorce while doing the minimum possible damage to your children. Chapter 11 is entitled "Courts and Judges." I wish everyone could read that before they come to court. It makes real for the parties how limited the court's ability will be to really do justice in your case, and why courts should be the very last resort, used only after you've genuinely tried to resolve matters on your own. Judges can never understand your family - they can only get a snapshot-type presentation. Sue Talia uses her 20 years of experience to make these limitations clear. She also provides tips for choosing good attorneys, evaluating settlements, keeping things in perspective, etc. It's a very good book, well worth the price.

As a divorce attorney with over 35 years at the bar, I've seen a lot of books written for people thinking about divorce - mostly focused on how to crush your spouse or select the meanest lawyer you can find. This book is different - the focus is on reducing the combat while maintaining a relationship despite the stress of divorce. I give this book to my clients at the first visit, and many have passed it along to their friends. I heartily recommend "How to Avoid the Divorce from Hell..." It may not save your marriage, but it can help you (and your spouse) survive the divorce with your sanity intact.

Brad Short
Short & Borth, Attorneys
Overland Park, Kansas

Divorce is one of the worst things you can personally experience, and Sue Talia's book never minces words or sugar-coats what to expect. Her strategy for navigating the self- and other-imposed obstacles that arise in any divorce will be a constant touchstone for both the man and woman who are parting ways. I particularly appreciated the insight into the court system and how the ever-expanding docket causes unforeseen problems for the couple. Also, knowing what to expect from the various attorneys involved will save thousands in "on the job" learning for all involved. Her writing style and deep knowledge of the system from all angles makes this book a "must-read" for anyone about to begin the divorce process.