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How to Be a Gentleman: A Contemporary Guide to Common Courtesy [Hardcover]

John Bridges , Bryan Curtis
3.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (67 customer reviews)


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Book Description

1998
Should you take a business call on your cellular phone during a dinner date? How do you act at a funeral? What is the best way to accept a compliment? When do you say, "I'm sorry"? John Bridges answers these questions and more in a book for men that combines Emily Post and Miss Manners without being snobbish, boring, or intimidating. This book is an indispensable guide for men of all ages who aspire to become gentlemen.


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About the Author

John Bridges, author of How to Be a Gentleman, is also the coauthor, with Bryan Curtis, of seven other volumes in the best-selling GentleManners series. He is a frequent guest on television and radio news programs, always championing gentlemanly behavior in modern society. Bridges has appeared on the Today Show, the Discovery Channel, and CBS Sunday Morning, and has been profiled in People magazine and the New York Times.

Bryan Curtis is an author and the president of Dance Floor Books. He is the author/coauthor and editor of more than 25 books, including My South, My Southern Food, Classic Wisdom for the Good Life, Classic Wisdom for the Professional Life, and the popular GentleManners series.


Product Details

  • Hardcover: 160 pages
  • Publisher: Thomas Nelson; First Edition edition (1998)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1558535969
  • ISBN-13: 978-1558535961
  • Product Dimensions: 8.2 x 4.8 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 9.1 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 3.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (67 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #669,073 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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135 of 160 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Truly a mixed bag.... February 2, 2001
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Format:Hardcover
This book has some real pros and some real cons. The *majority* of the advice given is practical, no nonsense etiquette. For this reason I would heartily recommend this publication to a gentleman looking to improve upon such areas in his life. There are other books however that he should supplement his learning, in my opinion.

Now, having said that, there are some glaring problems w/ this book.

I.) The suggestion that a man should NEVER turn down an invitation is nuts. The author gave the reader the out in the event of illness or death in the family. Come on, there are times, for whatever reason, that you have to respectfully decline.

2.) Drink beer from a CAN!?! How did that slip in there? First, at a truly formal occasion you simply don't suck down the suds. At any other occasion it is more than acceptable, but how hard is it to put it in a glass? Drinking beer from a can in your living room by yourself (or w/ your wife) after a long hard week, sure that's fine, but elsewhere drink from a glass.

3.) There is one point that states simply, "If a gentleman can afford to do so, he should have someone else clean his home." Why? There is a fine line between snobbery and etiquette and this crossed it. If it said if the man and his wife are to busy to keep a house clean, then that would make a lot of practical sense. Otherwise, it's a waste.

4.) The other gives the reader full liberty to not wear socks in many occasions, but says w/o question he must wear a undershirt. Though I live in the North and always wear the two aforementioned articles, I could see why a gentleman from Dixie would not want to wear an undershirt during the summer. Socks are a must, IMHO.

5.) The quib about always bringing condoms was both out of place and inappropriate in my opinion. Such sexual matters are both personal and vary depending on a gentleman's religious background. It didn't belong in this book.

Good day.

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21 of 22 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Etiquette for the Educated Man October 21, 1999
Format:Hardcover
This easy to read book makes manners a matter of preference. The educated man can make a decision to accept the authors guideline or not. I personally do not have much occasion to entertain large parties in my home - so I feel no need to have every piece of silverware known to man, but if I needed to help host a large party, I would be prepared. I like the chapter breakdown and the way subjects intertwine, allowing for fast referencing should the need occur. I consider myself a man pretty in tune with etiquette but this was a good shot in the arm. This book is great for those who might not know the basics or for one who might be very well mannered. This Christmas all my Brothers-in-Law and nephews are getting this book plus a stack of Thank you notes.
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25 of 27 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars A handy guide for the contemporary gentleman August 21, 2002
Format:Hardcover
This is the sort of book interesting only to those people serious about self-perfection. The book offers easy and handy tips for how to behave as a gentleman -- and far from the typical GQ/Maxim/Men's Health ideal of manhood, this book aims to help the reader achieve refinement and dignity. "A gentleman," as the author puts it, "is someone who makes others feel comfortable." "His goal is to make life easier, not just for himself but for his friends, his acquaintances, and the world at large." Nothing in here about how to flatten your abs in three weeks, succumb to the latest fashion trend or technological fad, or get 'her' into bed. But neither is this book simply moralistic. Rather than ethics, it is concerned with manners and maintaining a decent, honest, and caring public persona.

I think it's unfortunate statement on our contemporary society that such a book needs to be read; but it is encouraging that people may read it.

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5.0 out of 5 stars Reading Material
This book came in perfect condition. I was very happy with this purchase. It has been given as a gift.
Published 24 days ago by Hans Knight
3.0 out of 5 stars Should be cheaper.
The information in the book was good, but it was so short that I didn't feel I got my money's worth. It would be better priced at $5.00 or less for the shortness of the book. Read more
Published 28 days ago by J. Crawford
5.0 out of 5 stars An excellent resource
In this book, author John Bridges gives his advice on how to be a gentleman. For the most part, the book is built around a series of short homilies, each of which covers a subject... Read more
Published 1 month ago by Kurt A. Johnson
2.0 out of 5 stars Let down..
There are much better books out there about how to be chivalrous... I expected to be enlightened but much of it is just common sense.
Published 1 month ago by Mavirus
4.0 out of 5 stars good for starters and with room for improved material
My wife got me this book because I had seen a hardbound version of it in a men's clothing store but did not want to pay the large markup. Read more
Published 2 months ago by William Doerner
4.0 out of 5 stars Just what a young man needs -- despite himself
Well, the question is this. Are manners still in style? Personally, I think that they are and that every young man (junior high and older) needs to read this book. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Jo Ann Graham
4.0 out of 5 stars Great primer.
Book is a very useful resource in a condensed format. I gave copies to my sons, and one read it through right away. Read more
Published 3 months ago by Dwight D Frink
5.0 out of 5 stars GENTLEMAN
GREAT PRICE GREAT BOOK, IT'S ALWAYS GOOD TO HAVE GOOD ETIQUETTE BOOKS FOR VERY SPECIAL OUTINGS AND EVENTS YOU MAY ATTEND.
Published 4 months ago by A ANDERSON
2.0 out of 5 stars Offensive
I purchased this book as a general guideline to becoming a finer gentleman. There are a few things I read in this that is downright offensive and insulting. Read more
Published 4 months ago by TS
4.0 out of 5 stars Cute book
Nice coffee table book. Small design. The book is structured into starting paragraphs which are followed by bullet point tips.
Published 4 months ago by Brendan
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