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How to Be a Woman [Paperback]

Caitlin Moran
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July 17, 2012

“Caitlin Moran is the profane, witty and wonky best friend I wish I had. She’s the feminist rock star we need right now.”
—Ayelet Waldman, author of Bad Mother

“Caitlin Moran is so fabulous, so funny, so freshly feminist. I don’t want to be like her—I want to be her.”
 —Peggy Orenstein, author of Cinderella Ate My Daughter

Caitlin Moran puts a new face on feminism, cutting to the heart of women’s issues today with her irreverent, transcendent, and hilarious How to Be a Woman. “Half memoir, half polemic, and entirely necessary,” (Elle UK), Moran’s debut was an instant runaway bestseller in England as well as an Amazon UK Top Ten book of the year; still riding high on bestseller lists months after publication, it is a bona fide cultural phenomenon. Now poised to take American womanhood by storm, here is a book that Vanity Fair calls “the U.K. version of Tina Fey’s Bossypants….You will laugh out loud, wince, and—in my case—feel proud to be the same gender as the author.”


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“There are lots of things to love about Caitlin Moran’s How to Be a Woman….A glorious, timely stand against sexism so ingrained we barely even notice it. It is, in the dour language [Moran] militates so brilliantly against, a book that needed to be written.” (New York Times )

“The UK’s answer to Tina Fey, Chelsea Handler, and Lena Dunham all rolled into one.” (Marie Claire )

“Moran’s frank wit is appealing.” (The New Yorker )

“It is bracing in this season of losing [Nora] Ephron to discover a younger feminist writer who scrimmages with the patriarchy and drop kicks zingers with comic flair….A must-read for anyone curious to find out just how very funny a self-proclaimed ‘strident feminist’ can be.” (Maureen Corrigan, NPR's Fresh Air )

“A fresh, funny take on modern feminism that shines a light on issues facing every woman, lovingly boiled down to the basics with insight and humor.” (Today Show )

“Scathingly funny….Moran makes us think about femininity and feminism, and whether you agree or not, she’s fascinating.” (People (3 ½ stars) )

“A hilarious neo-feminist manifesto….Moran reinvigorates women’s lib with her personal and political polemic.” (NPR.org )

“Caitlin Moran taught me more about being a woman than being a woman did. I’m pretty sure I had testicles before I read this book.” (Jenny Lawson, author of Let's Pretend This Never Happened: A Mostly True Memoir )

“There is a good reason for [its success]: it is pretty phenomenal….[Moran] wrote the book in just 5 months….Chances are you’ll read it in far less time than that, turning down the corners of extra-resonating pages to come back to later.” (Jenn Doll, The Atlantic Wire )

“With her drunk-on-gin-with-my-lady-friends honesty and humor, Moran, a Times of London columnist, snips the man out of manifesto, spinning her message of radically sensible female empowerment.” (Vanity Fair.com )

“Bravely and brilliantly weaves personal anecdotes and cutting insight into a book that is at once instructional, confessional, and a call for change….Moran shifts effortlessly between her own hilarious experiences and larger questions about women’s place in the modern world.” (Interview Magazine )

“As funny and careerist as Tina Fey’s Bossypants, as divulging as Ayelet Waldman’s Bad Mother and as earthy as Cheryl Strayed’s Wild.” (Holloway McCandless, Shelf Awareness )

“Ingeniously funny….In her brilliant, original voice, Moran successfully entertains and enlightens her audience with hard-won wisdom and wit….She doesn’t politicize feminism; she humanizes it.” (Publishers Weekly (starred review) )

“Caitlin Moran is so fabulous, so funny, so freshly feminist. I don’t want to be like her—I want to be her. But if I can’t, at least I can relish her book. You will, too.” (Peggy Orenstein, author of Cinderella Ate My Daughter )

“Her arguments are hilarious and spot on….This isn’t a self-help guide, and Moran’s not really telling you how to be a woman. Instead, she’s giving you permission to laugh: at ourselves, at her, and at anyone who think there’s only one way to be a woman.” (Shannon Carlin, Bust Magazine )

“How funny is Caitlin Moran’s neo-feminist manifesto and memoir, How to Be a Woman? Don’t read it with a full bladder….You could spend a whole book group session flagging favorite lines…..There’s some comfort in Moran’s book coming out so soon after Nora Ephron’s death.” (Heller McAlpin, Barnes & Noble Review )

“A spirited memoir/manifesto….With equal amounts snarky brio and righteous anger….That such an important topic is couched in ribald humor makes reading about Moran’s journey hilarious as well as provocative….Rapturously irreverent, this book should kick-start plenty of useful discussions.” (Kirkus Reviews (starred review) )

“Caitlin Moran is a feminist heroine for our times. I can’t wait to give this book to my daughters.” (Zoë Heller, author of The Believers )

“Caitlin Moran is the profane, witty and wonky best friend I wish I had. She’s the feminist rock star we need right now; How to Be a Woman is an hilarious delight.” (Ayelet Waldman, author of Bad Mother )

From the Back Cover

Though they have the vote and the Pill and haven't been burned as witches since 1727, life isn't exactly a stroll down the catwalk for modern women. They are beset by uncertainties and questions: Why are they supposed to get Brazilians? Why do bras hurt? Why the incessant talk about babies? And do men secretly hate them?

Caitlin Moran interweaves provocative observations on women's lives with laugh-out-loud funny scenes from her own, from the riot of adolescence to her development as a writer, wife, and mother. With rapier wit, Moran slices right to the truth—whether it's about the workplace, strip clubs, love, fat, abortion, popular entertainment, or children—to jump-start a new conversation about feminism. With humor, insight, and verve, How To Be a Woman lays bare the reasons why female rights and empowerment are essential issues not only for women today but also for society itself.


Product Details

  • Paperback: 320 pages
  • Publisher: Harper Perennial; Original edition (July 17, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 9780062124296
  • ISBN-13: 978-0062124296
  • ASIN: 0062124293
  • Product Dimensions: 8.9 x 5.9 x 1 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (325 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #2,306 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Caitlin Moran had literally no friends in 1990, and so had plenty of time to write her first novel, The Chronicles of Narmo, at the age of fifteen. At sixteen she joined music weekly, Melody Maker, and at eighteen hosted the pop show Naked City. Following this precocious start she then put in eighteen solid years as a columnist on the Times--both as a television critic and also in the most-read part of the paper, the satirical celebrity column "Celebrity Watch"--winning the British Press Awards' Columnist of The Year award in 2010 and Critic and Interviewer of the Year in 2011. The eldest of eight children, Caitlin read lots of books about feminism--mainly in an attempt to be able to prove to her brother, Eddie, that she was scientifically better than him. Caitlin isn't really her name. She was christened 'Catherine.' But she saw 'Caitlin' in a Jilly Cooper novel when she was thirteen and thought it looked exciting. That's why she pronounces it incorrectly: 'Catlin.' It causes trouble for everyone.

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Very funny and insightful. Sarah  |  61 reviewers made a similar statement
I also felt that she rambled on a bit too much. Angela Robertson  |  11 reviewers made a similar statement
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71 of 76 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Buy it now March 31, 2012
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I read this book and laughed a lot while doing so.

Then I had to face the acid test. I handed it to my wife - the professional nay-sayer, the woman who thinks that puns are not funny - and told her to open it at random and start reading. I expected to have it back within seconds with a dismissive remark, but instead she started reading it, chuckling occasionally, and when she turned the page she put her fingers under the next page, the quicker to read it. I asked her what the chuckles were for, but she didn't answer and kept on reading. Then she laughed so hard she nearly fell off the floor. She looked at me and said, "She's good."

I said "I've finished it, you can read it," but she insisted that I write my review first. That makes sense, considering that she has a bunch of friends that she passes on books to that she thinks are important (books, that is). So here it is.

And the only thing I can say I said in the review title - Buy it. It's the funniest book I've read this year, and probably the last year as well. Billed as a "feminist" book, by American standards it is not academic enough and way too funny, yet it addresses some of the major issues woman have like what to name your sexual parts, your pubic hair and so on. There's also a great deal of stuff on how women are sucked up into the vortex of buying clothes and high heels, having Brazilian waxes, and plenty more. The book is a vague memoir of life since she was thirteen, living in close-to-poverty, yet she managed to win a national newspaper essay competition and get on the staff of the prestigious Melody Maker Brit-pop rag in just the next three years. She also started her career as a national newspaper columnist (most of which was spent in the London Times) and hosted some TV shows.

You might expect this to be the story of some bimbo blonde dolly, or a Kardashian sister. But Caitlin at 35 is in many ways obviously still Caitlin at 13, and she manages to be extremely funny. At thirteen, and able to borrow adult library books, she "has struck filth gold," by reading Jilly Cooper's "Riders," a semi pornographic novel from the 1980s - naturally you can get it from Amazon US Riders. Then she grows pubic hair and shaves it off after her mother draws the whole family's attention to it in the living room.

Eventually she moves the hundred and thirty miles to London, marries and has a couple of children, the birth of which she describes in excruciating but hilarious detail. In her capacity as pop music critic she interviews Lady Gaga in a revealing yet drunken way.

And gradually she becomes aware of the role of women in society. As she says, "The patriarchy must be knackered by now. It's been 100,000 years without even a tea break: men have been ruling the world. They have been balls to the wall." She wants "some sort of flextime" where women ruled the world half of the time, while the men can "really sort out the shed, once and for all." She makes it clear she doesn't hate men, and her variety of feminism is more warm and funny than burning your (underwired and painful) bra.

Where is the American Caitlin Moran? The cover hints at Tina Fey, but although I haven't seen much of Tina Fey I doubt she's an equivalent of Caitlin Moran.

So you should buy this book. Yes, that means you - Woman, Man, and what Flickr calls "Other." Just be sure to take your ass with you when you laugh it off. And you will.
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90 of 109 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars More For The Younger 20's and 30's Crowd May 17, 2012
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"How to Be a Woman" by Caitlin Moran had its ups and downs for me. It started out as a winner in my mind but seemed to get stuck on certain topics for much to long. Other topics didn't really hold much of an interest for me either.

Now, to be fair, I think I'm older than the target audience. While reading it I often thought of how I would have enjoyed the book more when I was younger. Some of the issues that must be very pressing to young women today just made me shake my head as I began to reminisce about the good old days when shaving our legs and arm pits was good enough for the men in our lives. No wonder so many younger women aren't happier. They are spending all of their free time worrying about body hair and all of their free time getting rid of it.

Marriage, kids, work, inter-office romance....I've seen it all. A case of the middle aged been there done that. But, it's all new to the younger women. They need to know these things and need to think about them.

I do like Caitlin's definition of what it takes to decide if you are a feminist or not. It made a lot of sense and was so much easier to understand than the speeches we had to listen to and Phil Donahue Shows we had to watch in the 70's. Back when we were first trying to figure out what a feminist was, could we be one, and if we were could we still keep our boyfriends. The younger women will love this book. The post menopausal space age boomers probably won't.
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28 of 32 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Finally! A fun, hopeful, feminist book! July 2, 2012
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I AM A STRIDENT FEMINIST! There, I said it, as the author instructed. But it's true, and I have been, for as long as I can remember knowing what that even meant. And I have to say, this is the first "feminist book" that actually made me feel hopeful and happy and glad to be a woman. Others (such as "Crazy Salad Plus Nine" by the wonderful Nora Ephron) just made me angry - because so little has changed for women. We're still - 30+ years after she wrote it - marginalized and "different".

"How to Be a Woman" explains this 'difference' in a no-nonsense and hilarious way. For example, in the chapter titled "I Encounter Some Sexism!", the author says, "We are, physically, the weaker sex. We're not as good at hefting stones, killing mammoths, and rowing boats. In addition, sex often had the added complication of getting us pregnant and leaving us feeling 'too fat' to lead an army into India."

The author honestly and unflinchingly looks at many topics that plaque women:
~what happens when puberty hits (the periods! the hair growth!)
~the 'thin' vs 'fat' issue (and how the term "fat" is used as a curse and a slur)
~sexism (in the workplace and out)
~falling in love, getting married, and having kids (why you should, and why you shouldn't)
~abortion
~the "maintenance" we have to do on ourselves (waxes, etc.)
~and getting older

And it's all presented in an uplifting, positive, honest, and hilarious way. I did NOT want this book to end. And I want to give copies to everyone important in my life.

A few notes - as other reviewers have stated, there is all kinds of crude language as well as mentions of drug and alcohol use, none of which bothered me personally, but... this is, obviously, not for everyone... and unfortunately many of the people who need this book the MOST may not read it because of this. (For instance, I would love to give copies for my niece {13} and goddaughter {10}, but I'm sure their moms would be none too happy with me if I did - because of the language.)

Also, calling this the "British version of Tina Fey's 'Bossypants'" is a disservice to both books. The only similarities are that they are both by women, and both authors are funny, and both of them talk about their childhoods and careers. Otherwise, they are entirely different. Mind you, I thoroughly enjoyed "Bossypants", but it does not have nearly the heft of depth of "How to be a Woman". It's kinda like comparing cotton candy with a milky way.

And finally, although the US publishers tried to "Americanize" the book, there were still a few things I didn't quite "get" and had to look up. (Now, this may have changed in the final version; I read an uncorrected proof.) A little more explanation could have been helpful.

I highly highly highly recommend this book - and would give it 1,000 stars if amazon would let me.
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3.0 out of 5 stars I enjoyed her interview more
I purchased this book after listening to an interview with Moran on the radio. Her biting British humor was charming via that medium. Read more
Published 2 days ago by patti redmond
3.0 out of 5 stars At least it's another feminist "voice" even though it's annoying..
Moran can be entertaining, but for me didn't offer enough substance. Mixed in with some memoir, she shares her opinions on things like: the word c*nt, pubic hair, women in music,... Read more
Published 3 days ago by Lauren
1.0 out of 5 stars Juvenile humor at its worst.
I gagged my way through the first half of this book and then decided not to waste a minute more of my life reading it. The reason I bought it was due to a book group I belong to. Read more
Published 5 days ago by vrexy
3.0 out of 5 stars Overdose?
I followed Caitlin Moran's columns in The Times for years. Not every week, I confess. I loved them. The humour, the irreverence, the freshness; and the mastery of the language, the... Read more
Published 7 days ago by Menocchio
5.0 out of 5 stars fabulous!
This book is super hilarious...Spot on feminist commentary. I would highly recommend this book for a fun read or even for a course in Women's Studies!
Published 8 days ago by Janelle Briggs
1.0 out of 5 stars Definitely not my cup of tea
Wow! I really disliked this book. Proclaimed to be a hilarious view of being a feminist in today's world I didn't laugh once. I didn't even chuckle. Read more
Published 9 days ago by Linda A. Slott
5.0 out of 5 stars Entertaining
It was entertaining, not preachy but a fabulous reminder that women need to press forward in our quest for equality. Absolutely not a man bashing book.
Published 11 days ago by Ray's mom
1.0 out of 5 stars A crass disappointment
This is a book chosen as a monthly read by my book club. I do not like the book at all. A lot of over the top description and crassness in the writing. Read more
Published 13 days ago by Susan E.
4.0 out of 5 stars Caitlin Moran is my new hero
Funny honest enlightening hand on your heart feminism. A great book for all women and a must read for all men.
Published 16 days ago by Kristiane Turner
3.0 out of 5 stars Put the book down ... and never got back to it.
The writing is pretty good, and the author raises some thought-provoking ideas. But bottom line, I put this book down and never came back to it. Read more
Published 17 days ago by Julia
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