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How Can I Help? [Paperback]

Ram Dass , Paul Gorman
4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (24 customer reviews)

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Book Description

March 12, 1985
Not a day goes by without our being called upon to help one another--at home, at work, on the street, on the phone. . . . We do what we can. Yet so much comes up to complicate this natural response: "Will I have what it takes?" "How much is enough?" "How can I deal with suffering?" "And what really helps, anyway?"

In this practical helper's companion, the authors explore a path through these confusions, and provide support and inspiration fo us in our efforts as members of the helping professions, as volunteers, as community activists, or simply as friends and family trying to meet each other's needs. Here too are deeply moving personal accounts: A housewife brings zoo animals to lift the spirits of nursing home residents; a nun tends the wounded on the first night of the Nicaraguan revolution; a police officer talks a desperate father out of leaping from a roof with his child; a nurse allows an infant to spend its last moments of life in her arms rather than on a hospital machine. From many such stories and the authors' reflections, we can find strength, clarity, and wisdom for those times when we are called on to care for one another. How Can I Help? reminds us just how much we have to give and how doing so can lead to some of the most joyous moments of our lives.

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"A treasury of compassion, made all the more valuable by its many examples of how individuals can interact for the better with people and, indeed, the world around them." --Norman Cousins, author of Anantomy of an Illness

"How Can I Help? deserves a special place on that shelf reserved for truly practical wisdom." --Harold Kushner, author of When Bad Things Happen to Good People

"How Can I Help? is a gentle, tender, spiritual book." --Karl Menninger, M.D., F.A.P.A

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Not a day goes by without our being called upon to help one another--at home, at work, on the street, on the phone. . . . We do what we can. Yet so much comes up to complicate this natural response: "Will I have what it takes?" "How much is enough?" "How can I deal with suffering?" "And what really helps, anyway?"

In this practical helper's companion, the authors explore a path through these confusions, and provide support and inspiration fo us in our efforts as members of the helping professions, as volunteers, as community activists, or simply as friends and family trying to meet each other's needs. Here too are deeply moving personal accounts: A housewife brings zoo animals to lift the spirits of nursing home residents; a nun tends the wounded on the first night of the Nicaraguan revolution; a police officer talks a desperate father out of leaping from a roof with his child; a nurse allows an infant to spend its last moments of life in her arms rather than on a hospital machine. From many such stories and the authors' reflections, we can find strength, clarity, and wisdom for those times when we are called on to care for one another. How Can I Help? reminds us just how much we have to give and how doing so can lead to some of the most joyous moments of our lives.


Product Details

  • Paperback: 272 pages
  • Publisher: Knopf (March 12, 1985)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0394729471
  • ISBN-13: 978-0394729473
  • Product Dimensions: 5 x 0.8 x 7.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.4 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (24 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #47,966 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Ram Dass, one of America's most beloved spiritual figures, has made his mark on the world giving teachings and promoting loving service, harmonious business practices, and conscious care for the dying. His spirit has been a guiding light for four generations, carrying millions along on the journey, helping free them from their bonds as he has worked his way through his own. He makes his home in Maui.

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57 of 57 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A Powerful Book for Developing Compassion January 5, 2000
Format:Paperback
As a professor I've used this book for 10 years for an intro class for counseling. I believe that it has had a powerful influence (through the true stories in the book) turning out compassionate and caring counselors. It is a GREAT book. We are not taught compassion, or how to help others. We see little examples of how to care or be helpful in the media (many examples there or how to do violence though!). This book provides true stories of the nature of compassion and helping.

I recommend it highly for anyone who wants to help others. I think it is an essential book for anyone who wants to help others

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46 of 50 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Every helping professional should read this book July 12, 2002
Format:Paperback
I am a social worker and an author. I have recently become involved with writing about medical as well as human rights issues. (My book BEHIND THE BURQA, which is to be published in October by John Wiley, is the memoir of two women who escaped the brutality of Afghanistan and the suffering they endured in the US.) Through my work, I have come into contact with people, such as the two subjects of my book, who have endured excruciating circumstances. HOW CAN I HELP sits on my night table so that I can read it after I've come home from interviewing someone in pain. It addresses all the issues that come up when people try to help each other, whether as "helping professionals" or simply as friends or family who are reaching out--guilt, burnout, fear, sense of helplessness--the myriad emotions that afflict those who want to make a difference in the lives of others. HOW CAN I HELP is psychologically astute, spiritually enlightening and written with great gentleness, compassion and occasional moments of humor. I feel the authors have become my mentors and friends. They accompany me to detention centers when I interview imprisoned asylum-seekers who have fled horrific tortures. They're with me when I visit people in the hospital. Their wisdom and guidance inspire me and inform my ability to remain intimately involved with people who have undergone horrible suffering. This book should be required reading in medical schools, psychology and social work programs, and any other context in which people are being trained to work with others in need.
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17 of 18 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Comforting and Revelational December 8, 2001
By A Customer
Format:Paperback
This book is filled with insights. These insights are hidden gems of wisdom revealing our personalities desire to seek and find what we all have in common. This unity is driven by our need and desire to find peace in the midst of life's most difficult moments. As our heart goes out to those in need, our acts of service contain our soul's longing to connect with a fellow soul. Once our soul is awakened in service, a path opens and leads us into a sacred human relationship infused by the power of peace. Thanks, Ram Dass, for your guidance into the realm of spirit through the words written in this book.

I also recommend: What the Dying Teach Us: Lessons on Living by Samuel Oliver

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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing
Extremely helpful to those living service every day of their lives. Lays out powerful practices to mindfully be service and connect to people on an intimate level
Published 24 days ago by Samuel
3.0 out of 5 stars Interesting perspective
This book was required reading for a course I'm taking. There are some very interesting and thought-provoking things in it, but on the whole it's very new-age and not really the... Read more
Published 1 month ago by Clare
5.0 out of 5 stars Poignant and Wise
A wonderful read for anyone who has the urge to be a "helpful being". Such wisdom expressed in this book and I look forward to referring to it often.
Published 2 months ago by Tim Lambertson
3.0 out of 5 stars Good for quotes and stories
This wasn't a true favorite of mine for my intro class but it got many great points across and was very informative on why self care is important in the human service field and how... Read more
Published 5 months ago by Amber N. Hoffmeister
1.0 out of 5 stars ***HIGHLIGHT LIMIT ON THIS KINDLE BOOK***
Please be advised that the publisher has limited the number of highlights you may make on this Kindle book. Read more
Published 12 months ago by SRM
5.0 out of 5 stars Great insight into real helping
This is a great book for personal growth of people in any helping profession, or even in general. It's format was slightly unexpected and sometimes I had to think hard to... Read more
Published 15 months ago by Dev Ashish
3.0 out of 5 stars Useful but superficial.
Ram Dass has produced a spirituality industry that caters to the lowest common denominator. I am highly suspicious of the simple path to spiritual enlightenment and practice. Read more
Published 18 months ago by Rocci Hildum
5.0 out of 5 stars A wonderful overview of the issues one faces in service
Clearly written, each pages resonates with wisdom. The obstacles one faces in serving are clearly addressed, and turned in to tools to learn about ourselves. Read more
Published 22 months ago by SteveNY
5.0 out of 5 stars A Revelation
There are few books that can change your life. I believe that at certain points in our emotional development, influences cause us to head off in different directions. Read more
Published on May 6, 2011 by Jim GS
5.0 out of 5 stars What's really important...
This is really a great book. My copy is a mess because I've thumbed through it for so many years. People in the "helping professions" (and I'm counting myself here - a psych nurse... Read more
Published on November 21, 2010 by Susi
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