How to Capture a Mistress (M/s Studies Books) [Paperback]

Karen Martin (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: February 11, 2007 | Series: M/s Studies Books

How to Capture a Mistress is a light-hearted, but aggressive approach, to mining that rare jewel, a Dominant Lady of quality, and figuring out what to do once you've found her. It will take time and dedication, but those special ladies are waiting to treasure, lead, play and discipline as necessary.

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About the Author

In her non-kink world, Karen Martin is a retired educator whose graduate degree is in speech pathology. That’s not as interesting as her kink resumé. In her kink life, Karen’s scene name is Brenna and she is a FemDom who has owned a male slave since the spring of 2002.

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Introduction Why did I write this book? I wrote this book out of frustration. Men who have incredible needs write to me offering service, financial domination, relocation to places I have no interest in visiting, and long-term relationships usually by the second e-mail exchange, not understanding that what they have to offer is not what I need or want. Their approach is similar to bulk mailing. Men write many, many women in hopes of finding their one true mate, a Dominant lady who will fulfill their fantasies. In writing this book, I believe a gentleman of quality will be able to pursue the dream of capturing a Dominant Lady and begin another chapter in the “Happily Ever After” of their kinky lives. The gentleman has to rethink how he is going to pursue her. Because this book was written for males who wish to form healthy relationships with FemDoms, the gender throughout the book will be male submissive, Female Dominant. Every male deserves a Mistress even if he hasn’t had much luck finding one. He just may be looking for the wrong things in the wrong places. He may not be looking at all, assuming she will find him. Or, he may be wounded from a perfect relationship that suddenly soured. None of this matters as of this reading because it is in the past, and all we have is now. It’s a journey, and a new day is upon us.

Product Details

• Paperback: 156 pages
• Publisher: Nazca Plains Corp; 1 edition (February 11, 2007)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1887895752
• ISBN-13: 978-1887895750
• Product Dimensions: 8.5 x 7.5 x 0.4 inches
• Shipping Weight: 11.4 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (8 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #711,100 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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20 of 20 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Rethinks the way you present yourself, December 30, 2006

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Bill Cunningham (New York) - See all my reviews

This review is from: How to Capture a Mistress (M/s Studies Books) (Paperback)

Power exchange is at the core of most BDSM (kinky) relationships. Many men seek relationships that can safely (without personal threat) transfer power from them to a woman. However, as Ms Martin points out, there is a vast difference from a Mistress and a Bitch. This book explores those differences while it also outlines steps a man can take to re-shape himself in ways that will be more appealing to a woman who is, in her own right, seeking a submissive man.

There is another advantage to this book: Ms Martin points out that people who fill out lists of kinky activities that may or may not interest them rather limit their playing field. I'll leave it to you to buy the book and read this section on your own, but I assuure you that despite extensive reading in this field, I have never before seen such a compelling reason to re-think the process of identifying common play areas with a potential play partner. Very creative and useful.

19 of 20 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars So-o-o Useful and Funny, February 3, 2007

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Kunda Lee Wicce (Texas) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: How to Capture a Mistress (M/s Studies Books) (Paperback)

This is my first review of a book. In thinking about how I would start, I found myself thinking about the author, that I would describe her as caring, intelligent, thoughtful! one of the sharpest tacks in the box, and funny! I recommend anyone looking for a mistress put themselves in her hands, throw themselves into the book, follow her instructions, do as this mistress says. It will help me (your future mistresses) notice you and see your attractive qualities! While I bought the book to learn what her advice was to men, I found myself engrossed, and learning how to be a more discerning person. She gives us all utter permission to be our better selves and have more satisfaction from it. What a fabulous book!

19 of 20 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars VERY EXCELLENT!, January 12, 2007

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D. D. Durbin "Red Headed Wiccan" (Round Rock, Tx) - See all my reviews
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This review is from: How to Capture a Mistress (M/s Studies Books) (Paperback)

Ms. Martin states that you don't have to be a complete spineless male to be a submissive just that you have to feel safe and have such a level of trust that is beyond "normal" comprehension. This book also explains that being a "submissive male" doesn't make you weak just a man that is "man enough" to let go and trust a woman on a level that on the Mistress/slave can udnerstand. I have been in the BDSM scene for over 10 years and never have I read such an excellent book since "Screw the Roses" by Molly Devon.