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How to Date an Exotic Dancer: For Men Who Prefer Extraordinary Women

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The best thing about this "book" is its cover. Actually, it's not a book but a pamphlet. At $9.95 and just 64 pages, that's 15.5 cents per page! For that price, she should have thrown in some pictures of herself during her dancing days. She should have also hired a proofreader to fix some spelling errors and paragraph breaks in the middle of sentences.

It does give some good tips, but most are quite obvious. I could have shortened the book down to 3 lines:
Cater to the stripper's vanity.
Don't stink.
Don't have a beer belly.
Sorry guys, but if you look like 95% of the guys who go to strip clubs, you apparently don't stand a chance at dating one of the girls.

If Selena writes a real book on the behind-the-scenes stripper world, I might read it. (I found the most interesting part was the glossary of strip club lingo.) But for those actually looking to date a stripper, save your money.

Careful when you read reviews. Note that all 5 star reviews fell within a week of each other. Wonder who wrote them...

And two stars is a gift. I've know lots of exotic dancers and I learned on my own how to get to know them and what they oftne like in a guy, though this varies a great deal. As someone said most of this is pretty obvious without having to think too much.
I've read other books over the years and some of them are a lot better than this book, but none of them really live up to their billing. If you want to be able to date a dancer, you better know how to interest a fmeale in general and create the attraction. Afterall they meet dozens of guys each week and you can bet everyone of them wants to be with her, and she can have her pick. Nowhere in this book do you learn what it is to turn here head.

You look at the cover, get all exicted, spend a lot of money, then feel like you have been ripped off.

Ms Valentine has written tips that actually make sense. She writes in a down-to-earth language that is easy to follow, mixing in humor throughout the book for a suprisingly enjoyable read in a "how-to" book. Her style talks to you as a friend would, instead of the language a psychiatrist would use. Her tips are clear on what to expect and what to avoid. Just reading the book has given me a new-found sense of confidence to find the woman I want, and to know what to avoid in looking for her.

If you want to know what it's "really" like to date a dancer, this book is for you. The book covers what to do and what not to do and helps keep you out of trouble. Selena tells it like it is and lets you know what you're in for and what to expect. A great value for this very unique and specialized knowledge.

Selena Valentines new book; How To Date An Exotic Dancer; For Men Who Prefer Extraordinary Women is a straightforward guide that provides insight into the life of a dancer and an inside tour of the entire exotic dance scene. From the private rooms of the gentlemen's clubs to the personal experiences of the dancers, Selena Valentine offers an in depth and sometimes humorous view of a world that not everyone has a chance to see. She explains where to find your dream dancer, which one is right for you, and what to do once you have found her; from the mysterious art of approaching a dancer all the way to the final move, and the 20 biggest mistakes; like asking if her breasts are real.



This book appeals not only to seasoned customers of the gentlemen's clubs but to the novice, as well as any woman who has ever wondered what it is like to be an exotic dancer.



I can't wait for her next book!

This book was great! I've seen a lot of dancers perform and the only thing you can tell from your seat is that they are sexy and work really hard up there. It's nice to red what goes through their heads. Selena gives us a new perspective in this well researched book. Many of the tips are common sense, (at least for those who HAVE common sense), but there are a fair number of lightening bolt moments where you slap your forehead and say....Of Course!

Dancers are a breed apart, and aren't we glad they are such special and sensual women?! I highly recommend this book, it's a must have for the single man!

The book should be titled how to get losers to date a girl with no self esteem and a head full of rocks.

This book was loads of fun to read. Short and to the point without a lot of filler like some others. Selena Valentine tells what it's like to be a dancer and her checklist would be good for men to follow whether they are dating a librarian or an underwear model. Now if she'd only write one for women who want to date a male dancer! Hear that Selena??