How to Get ANY MAN to do ANYTHING You Want is quite possibly the most evil (and most important) book ever written! It is the definitive guide to solving all of your problems with men, forever. This humorous and unfair guide to men shows you exactly how to get what you want - when you want it - without a lot of hassle, and makes you laugh all the way to happiness and personal enlightenment. Every woman should own a copy of this book (it fits nicely in your purse, and hides well under the bed). Nothing is left to chance. If you have a man in your life (or want to get a good one) this book shows you how to make him think of you as a goddess as you get him to stop fighting you for control, end arguments quickly and easily, and buy you that diamond tennis bracelet you have had your eye on. This book will make you more popular than you can imagine (well, with guys anyway), and transform a dull, boring relationship into a lively, fun one with lots of romance and affection for both of you.
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After counseling over 15,000 clients--mostly on relationships, I stopped counting and started thinking about the endless questions that were all too often the same problems all over the world. Men and women of all classes and financial conditions walk around in a delusion that they know what makes relationships work--and yet we have a divorce rate in the U.S. Alone that hovers consistently at around 50%. That is half of all "committed relationships" that have signed a contract binding themselves. Add to this the billions of failed relationships (the ones that never get to marriage) and we have proof that we are doing this dating thing all wrong.
The truth of what works is far simpler than buying this car, or working for this company, or making this much money. It comes down to finding the guy YOU WANT, the one who can make you all squishy inside, and accept your love and support in return. The man that makes you excited to be with him (in a relationship) and is loyal and interested in you as well. There is no "magic voodoo" involved in getting this. It comes down to starting with good ingredients and making the right recipe. Don't expect the guys who check you out every day to know the answers and to come up with the path to happiness on their own. Waiting for a prince is a sure-fire way to end up married to a frog. YOU NEED A PLAN. This book was written to get you from wherever you are now to where you want to be--and to get the men in your life to help you get there.
So, what does it take?
Every successful relationship has to have what I call the four C's. I have been yapping about this for two decades now, so if you have heard it before, just grin and bear it as I detail it out again: First, you must have chemistry. No chemistry and the best you will ever get are "friends," and more than likely boring ones you just don't feel any real connection to, no matter how logical it is that you should hang out together. Chemistry is addressed in the book so I will not belabor the point here. Next you need compatibility. This may sound easy enough, but it is too easy to overlook when intoxicated by someone's hotness (or just intoxicated). The early stages of relationships see one or both parties (or all three if you are into that kinky stuff!) on their best behavior, and allowing seeming minor inconveniences and miscues to pass by because of the emotional drug of "new love." Forgiveness is easy and everything is funny and cute and endearing. This is good--don't change it, but before you get completely entangled, emotionally or financially, you really need to know what you are getting into and with whom. In the book I have created a set of check-lists to keep yourself in control of your new relationship(s) and able to see what the men in your life really bring to the table.
Before you end up head over heels for a serial killer, abusive jerk, or deadbeat, these short lists will help you see right through the guys in your life and you will know which ones are best for you, and which ones need to be kept at arm's length. This method is so easy you won't believe it until you catch yourself moments before falling for the guy who will ruin your life. Then this book will be worth its weight in diamonds to you.
So we have basic chemistry (the glue that holds us together) and compatibility. We actually like each other. Well now what? We need to communicate. This is not at all as hard as it is made out to be. The trick is to establish early on the communication patterns you will have with ALL the guys in your life. This includes things like honesty (how much you give, and realistically how much you expect from the guy), and how much time you two spend together when you are not having sex. Communication is more than just the words you two pass back and forth. Also, will you put up with a guy who bosses you around? Maybe that is a requirement for you. Do you prefer a man who is in control and takes responsibility for the world around him or are you more independent and autonomous? These are simple things about yourself you can answer easily, but should know when being seduced by a man, or when you are pursuing someone. The patterns you establish in the first month of interaction will help you find out VERY QUICKLY what type of personality disorders you are dealing with, and whether these are acceptable to you or not.
Lastly we need compassion. Compassion, and its sister consideration are hailed as virtues that we all enjoy and respect, but in the real world they are given out to those prettier than us, wealthier than us, more powerful, or more popular. They are traded as favors so we can "get something" in return. In a successful relationship, competition has to take the bus home and compassion and consideration have to take its seat (competition naturally takes up two seats, three if you let it stretch out). Competition in a relationship eats it from the inside, and it is far too common. It is the one bad "C" of the bunch.
These are just the basic necessities of a healthy relationship and this book was designed to help you find them and GET THEM in your life. If you want to keep experiencing frustration with men while other women dance through life having their needs attended to then ignore this book. But if you would rather spend your time and energy focusing on what YOU WANT in life, chasing your passions, dreams, and bringing value to the world (and being hated by other women for "having it all") this is the book for you. You are helping the fight against breast cancer just by reading it--how easy is that? (see the front cover). But the point of this book is to infect your mind with techniques that work. These have been used for countless generations by women who have lived happy, fulfilled lives. It is my deepest hope that you find your personal happiness. To that end I wrote this book. Other than that, it really is up to you. Life is shorter than you think. If you do not decide what you want and get the men in your life to help you get it, you are on your own. Good luck!
After counseling over 15,000 clients--mostly on relationships, I stopped counting and started thinking about the endless questions that were all too often the same problems all over the world. Men and women of all classes and financial conditions walk around in a delusion that they know what makes relationships work--and yet we have a divorce rate in the U.S. Alone that hovers consistently at around 50%. That is half of all "committed relationships" that have signed a contract binding themselves. Add to this the billions of failed relationships (the ones that never get to marriage) and we have proof that we are doing this dating thing all wrong.
The truth of what works is far simpler than buying this car, or working for this company, or making this much money. It comes down to finding the guy YOU WANT, the one who can make you all squishy inside, and accept your love and support in return. The man that makes you excited to be with him (in a relationship) and is loyal and interested in you as well. There is no "magic voodoo" involved in getting this. It comes down to starting with good ingredients and making the right recipe. Don't expect the guys who check you out every day to know the answers and to come up with the path to happiness on their own. Waiting for a prince is a sure-fire way to end up married to a frog. YOU NEED A PLAN. This book was written to get you from wherever you are now to where you want to be--and to get the men in your life to help you get there.
So, what does it take?
Every successful relationship has to have what I call the four C's. I have been yapping about this for two decades now, so if you have heard it before, just grin and bear it as I detail it out again: First, you must have chemistry. No chemistry and the best you will ever get are "friends," and more than likely boring ones you just don't feel any real connection to, no matter how logical it is that you should hang out together. Chemistry is addressed in the book so I will not belabor the point here. Next you need compatibility. This may sound easy enough, but it is too easy to overlook when intoxicated by someone's hotness (or just intoxicated). The early stages of relationships see one or both parties (or all three if you are into that kinky stuff!) on their best behavior, and allowing seeming minor inconveniences and miscues to pass by because of the emotional drug of "new love." Forgiveness is easy and everything is funny and cute and endearing. This is good--don't change it, but before you get completely entangled, emotionally or financially, you really need to know what you are getting into and with whom. In the book I have created a set of check-lists to keep yourself in control of your new relationship(s) and able to see what the men in your life really bring to the table.
Before you end up head over heels for a serial killer, abusive jerk, or deadbeat, these short lists will help you see right through the guys in your life and you will know which ones are best for you, and which ones need to be kept at arm's length. This method is so easy you won't believe it until you catch yourself moments before falling for the guy who will ruin your life. Then this book will be worth its weight in diamonds to you.
So we have basic chemistry (the glue that holds us together) and compatibility. We actually like each other. Well now what? We need to communicate. This is not at all as hard as it is made out to be. The trick is to establish early on the communication patterns you will have with ALL the guys in your life. This includes things like honesty (how much you give, and realistically how much you expect from the guy), and how much time you two spend together when you are not having sex. Communication is more than just the words you two pass back and forth. Also, will you put up with a guy who bosses you around? Maybe that is a requirement for you. Do you prefer a man who is in control and takes responsibility for the world around him or are you more independent and autonomous? These are simple things about yourself you can answer easily, but should know when being seduced by a man, or when you are pursuing someone. The patterns you establish in the first month of interaction will help you find out VERY QUICKLY what type of personality disorders you are dealing with, and whether these are acceptable to you or not.
Lastly we need compassion. Compassion, and its sister consideration are hailed as virtues that we all enjoy and respect, but in the real world they are given out to those prettier than us, wealthier than us, more powerful, or more popular. They are traded as favors so we can "get something" in return. In a successful relationship, competition has to take the bus home and compassion and consideration have to take its seat (competition naturally takes up two seats, three if you let it stretch out). Competition in a relationship eats it from the inside, and it is far too common. It is the one bad "C" of the bunch.
These are just the basic necessities of a healthy relationship and this book was designed to help you find them and GET THEM in your life. If you want to keep experiencing frustration with men while other women dance through life having their needs attended to then ignore this book. But if you would rather spend your time and energy focusing on what YOU WANT in life, chasing your passions, dreams, and bringing value to the world (and being hated by other women for "having it all") this is the book for you. You are helping the fight against breast cancer just by reading it--how easy is that? (see the front cover). But the point of this book is to infect your mind with techniques that work. These have been used for countless generations by women who have lived happy, fulfilled lives. It is my deepest hope that you find your personal happiness. To that end I wrote this book. Other than that, it really is up to you. Life is shorter than you think. If you do not decide what you want and get the men in your life to help you get it, you are on your own. Good luck!
From the Back Cover
Change your life forever with this book!
Are you tired of other girls getting men to waste all of their money on THEM instead off men wasting all off their money on YOU?
Here are the facts:
Men will continue to spend MOST of their money on woman e-v-e-r-y d-a-y with or without your help! Why not help them invest in your happiness? Don't you deserve a little more fun in life? If you read and then practice what you learn in this book, you will be able to get men to do what YOU WANT, and that, in turn, will make them infinitely e-a-s-i-e-r to deal with on a daily basis--and they will love you for it!
This book was written specifically to help make your life easier and a lot more fun! Using your femininity as well as the most attractive parts of your personality to sway guys to your way of thinking is not only fun, it is your birthright. Why waste your life working hard and settling for less than you deserve? This fun to read book will get men to WANT to make your life easier, and make you more popular than you can possibly imagine. Go ahead and indulge yourself. You deserve something better from life. This book will help you get it--now.
Are you tired of other girls getting men to waste all of their money on THEM instead off men wasting all off their money on YOU?
Here are the facts:
Men will continue to spend MOST of their money on woman e-v-e-r-y d-a-y with or without your help! Why not help them invest in your happiness? Don't you deserve a little more fun in life? If you read and then practice what you learn in this book, you will be able to get men to do what YOU WANT, and that, in turn, will make them infinitely e-a-s-i-e-r to deal with on a daily basis--and they will love you for it!
This book was written specifically to help make your life easier and a lot more fun! Using your femininity as well as the most attractive parts of your personality to sway guys to your way of thinking is not only fun, it is your birthright. Why waste your life working hard and settling for less than you deserve? This fun to read book will get men to WANT to make your life easier, and make you more popular than you can possibly imagine. Go ahead and indulge yourself. You deserve something better from life. This book will help you get it--now.
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Dusty White (1963-???) is a professional psychic and astrologer with several books to his name. After starting out writing humorous dating advice books for men he wrote "How to Get ANY MAN to do ANYTHING You Want!" for women, and "Aphrodite's Book of Secrets," a step-by-step how-to course to help woman master the physics of metaphysics in their daily lives, which is currently being tested for effectiveness. His latest book is "The Easiest Way to Learn the Tarot--EVER!!" and completes his transition to metaphysics as the focal point of his books. All of the above titles were completed and published while he was living in squalor, and all have gained rave reviews, and one even become top-ten Amazon best-seller. He has since written his way out of poverty and is currently redesigning the Tarot from the inside out. The new deck should be unveiled sometime in 2011.
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I absolutely loved it!,
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What a traitor this author must be. Reading this I felt like I was in the guy's locker room alone with a turn coat. The language is a bit raw at times, but not obscene. It's like having an older brother warning you about stuff guys do, and showing you how they think and how to make them get all stupid over you. It was brutally honest. Of course I had to try everything out for myself, and to no surprise, these things worked. Guys for the most part are a lot easier than they let on. A wink and a smile can get you far without having to do anything you feel uncomfortable doing.
Some of what you read here may not sound like it can work, but I have had a lot of fun playing with the advice here, and as long as it works, I am happy to have hot guys doing nice things for me for a change.
33 of 37 people found the following review helpful:
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When my single daughter got this book she was so excited but I rolled my eyes thinking, "Whatever." But I have to admit that since she has read this book she has had more confidence and has seemed to come out of her shell. Lately I have seen her out on the porch talking to various guys in the neighborhood who now wave to her everytime they pass by. She said she really liked the section on "how to meet guys". All you have to do is smile, and these days that's all she seems to be doing - smiling. Its nice to see. She gives this book 5 stars. Who knows - maybe this book can help me get my husband to finish all those projects that need to be done around the house - hmmmm.
10 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
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Witty book that makes a great gift idea!,
By Gray Ghost (East Coast) - See all my reviews
This review is from: How to Get ANY MAN to do ANYTHING You Want!: How to find the ones you REALLY want. How to GET them. How to get them to buy you stuff!! (Paperback)
I will have to admit right off the bat that I'm not a big buyer of books on relationships or "getting a man," but this book is fun, witty, conversational - and informative all at the same time.
It is even serves as a sort of workbook, giving the reader places to figure out exactly what she wants - and, of course, doesn't want - in a man. In addition, the book has an appendix that includes a list of "must-own guy movies" and famous quotes for each one. (How handy is that, gals?) "How to Get a Man to do Anything you Want" would make the perfect gift for that hard-to-buy-for friend or co-worker on your list. Plus, everyone knows a woman who keeps ending up with losers. Do her a favor and buy this book!
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