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Product Details

  • Paperback: 114 pages
  • Publisher: CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform (February 15, 2011)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1448673127
  • ISBN-13: 978-1448673124
  • Product Dimensions: 6.7 x 0.3 x 9.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.2 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (34 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #911,453 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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From the Author


PAINFUL TRUTH

Today's typical guy will never CHOOSE the woman he REALLY wants.

Why? 

It's simple: most guys don't realize that you can LEARN about attraction, flirting, and sexual intimacy! 

Pain may be ahead for you if you choose to rethink your attitudes and beliefs about women, dating, attraction and relationships because changing your attitudes and behaviors is hard to do! 

We rarely allow ourselves to question our own beliefs, but that's EXACTLY what you have to do if you REALLY want to understand what makes women choose one guy over another... and it's NOT what you think.

This is not a journey for the weak. Questioning what you take for granted and trying new things outside of your comfort zones just might be the hardest thing you can do, but I believe this capacity to change is what truly makes a man GREAT!

And if you're brave enough to buy a book like this, then you're already on a journey that most men will never take.

On this journey, you will no doubt encounter some surprises, like:
  • Nice guys without personal boundaries DO finish last; 
  • Putting her on a pedestal will NOT get you the girl; 
  • Tension IS necessary for attraction; 
  • Dating is not all about her expectations; your expectations should count MORE to you; 
  • Seduction is a FUN game of tug-of-war; 
  • Body language and tone of voice constitute 93% of communication; what you actually say accounts for the other 7%; 
  • Your self-esteem and life passions are tantamount to getting the girl; 
  • A woman may reject or resist you BUT can still WANT you − you just have to know when to keep pursuing and when to move on.
If you want a new life with new women, then you must think and try new things. This book is all about you rewriting your beliefs and attitudes and adopting new behaviors. If you want to succeed with women, and learn some new life lessons along the way, read on!

ABOUT ME

I don't describe myself as a pickup artist because I'm just an average guy but I do respect their insights and the artistry of meeting women. I've spent the last 10 years exploring women, dating, sex, concepts around attraction and rapport, and I've experienced the typical pains and triumphs of meeting beautiful women.

I think we guys spend too much time challenging each other, and butting heads, instead of helping each other. This book is my way of helping other men who are seeking new dating secrets, insights, and success strategies.

We guys need to stop fighting over women, and start sharing our dating mindsets. Because we all benefit when we share with each other, and women benefit by meeting more men who "finally get it."

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More About the Author

Robert Belland is a Multimedia Specialist and Entrepreneur who currently resides in Edmonton, Canada.

He currently spends half his time running and managing his successful NewMedia company BOBAIR MEDIA Inc. while also trying to help his fellow man with the mysteries and frustrations of women and dating.

He was encouraged to write his first book IGNORE and SCORE from the many readers of his weekly Dating Advice blog: FullofHateAndReadyToDate.com

Customer Reviews

Easy to read, lots of good info.
Dean
Just like learning social skills necessary at work for success, this book explains how do to the same thing when trying to meet women.
M. Butler
This book will definitely help your dating life and your confidence in most social situations.
WakingLifer

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This is truly an excellent book. I just got out of a long-term relationship and was literally shooting myself in the foot when trying to meet girls. Despite being a good guy with good intentions, I kept letting myself get in the way of my dating life. My buddy actually bought this book for me and told me I needed to check it out. At first I was hesitent because I didn't want to change who I am to get lucky with women... but that is not what this book is about at all. Since reading and applying this book to my life, I am more confident, have more success with women, and am happier with who I am. Excellent work!

Despite the misleading title, this book is NOT about manipulating women. It about understanding not only the dynamics of dating, but also about understanding ourselves. What he really means by "ignore" is not to ignore the girl, but to ignore the things in ourselves that are stopping men from being unsuccessful with women - things like insecurities, fears, and low self-esteem. He makes it clear how these will hinder any relationship we want to have. Understanding ourselves is the first step. He also explains the dynamics of dating and attraction. Just like learning social skills necessary at work for success, this book explains how do to the same thing when trying to meet women. So many guys, especially good guys, get in the way of actually meeting women. This book teaches how to be yourself and still have success with women.

What this book ISN'T is how to manipulate and trick girls into getting into bed with you. If that's what you're looking for, then this book isn't for you. If you want to learn to improve yourself, enjoy dating more, and feel more confident about yourself and with women, then this is a great place to start.
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9 of 10 people found the following review helpful By Nash on February 24, 2013
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This book is one of the examples of someone taking an idea that can be vocalized in one-two paragraphs and making a book from it. There is a ton of books written on the subject. One thing the author does not take into consideration is the initial attraction factor: not-so-good-looking guys stand no chance in a gorgeous women even listening for a single word that comes out of their mouths. In my opinion this book targets guys who have their charm, who were in many relationships but now the time has come for them to beef up the game and stakes and diversify your portfolio of women conquered. As I said, this book is not for all guys.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful By Mr. Jack Hammond on July 30, 2014
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Robby the author of this book is a legend! I enjoyed reading every page. I bought this on iPhone and got to say it made me feel a bit better after a break up already. This book as I read in previous review is about learning your self it's a 5 star from me and it has links and email advice. I was bit worried about emailing and rob lays the law down but when u act weak u need to be strong in the mind body and soul to ever stop drowning in your sorrows and his email advice really helps. End of the day men an woman are different but that's the reason life and relationships are so fun even when they go sour. My advice to people would be chill and be happy with yourself because we all had ups and downs. Try stay up forget the down. Cheers Jack.
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17 of 25 people found the following review helpful By Mike Masters on February 27, 2011
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My name is Mike Masters and I am the author of multiple books on relationships for both men and women. I sell a ton of books on amazon and I am so happy to see Robert Belland finally doing the same with his excellent material.

I have read 90% of the PUA material out there, including a lot of the tripe online for "$99 bucks today only!" if you didn't know already it, this garbage is simply regurgitated concepts from the old masters. Whom I might add, are really not all that impressive anymore. I thought 15 years after the rise of D your D that someone new MUST rise from the ashes of the burnt out PUA mess and teach us something exceptional. Didn't happen, not for a hell of a long time. Until...

Rob is the newly evolved PUA, not a guy that thieves a woman's ego in order to get the fleeting prize of a night with her. Rob is a decent guy, the guy who most guys wish they could become. Rob has mastered how to get the girl and comfortably face himself in the mirror. How is this possible? because Rob understands that you CAN be a moral, honest guy and still get laid like Wilt Chamberlain.

I am a relationship expert, and I am extremely good at what I do, with that said, Rob's book, INS actually taught me something. So much so, that I seriously read the book twice... strait... It has been so long that someone taught me something new I was riveted. Not only did he teach me but he made me wish I wrote his book! I hate Rob for making this better than I could have done. I hate him for really really really getting it.

Obviously I don't hate Rob but I think you get the point that this book truly is rare, INS will put together in an extremely clear way, what you are doing wrong, what you need to be doing and how to do it.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful By Ethan on May 19, 2014
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This book is the greatest, I was a bit doubtful it could help me when I started but I read it cover to cover and it has really helped me! Thanks, Robert Belland
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