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How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure: Totally Explicit Techniques Every Woman Wants Her Man to Know Hardcover – January 11, 2000


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Product Details

  • Hardcover: 240 pages
  • Publisher: Harmony; 1 edition (January 11, 2000)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0767904524
  • ISBN-13: 978-0767904520
  • Product Dimensions: 8.5 x 5.8 x 0.8 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 11.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (85 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #89,594 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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"Women are like golf courses," writes sex educator Lou Paget. "Even though you may have played a course a hundred times, chances are your approach shot rarely lands in the same place on the green." How to Give Her Absolute Pleasure was written for men who want to please women. Much of the book focuses on foreplay (Paget comments that we need to rename it) designed to "excite both her mind and her body." The author offers a variety of strategies for romancing and relaxing a woman and making her feel comfortable. If you don't, she claims, "nothing you can do can rev her engine". Then she describes ways of "kissing her, touching her, and teasing her." Paget includes "a topographical guide" of a woman's body, starting with the sensual areas of the head and face and moving down. She describes ways to massage, caress, lick, kiss, and otherwise excite all these regions. She also discusses lubricants ("slippery, slidy, marvelous stuff"), condoms, manual stimulation, "the art of tongue," sex toys, and a variety of positions (clearly illustrated) for everything you might do. The book is in no way formulaic--in fact, Paget continually stresses that some women love having a particular body part touched in a certain way, while others can't stand it. Whether you're a novice or consider yourself sexually sophisticated, you'll learn plenty from Paget. --Joan Price

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Paget's How To Be a Great Lover (LJ 1/99) was a unique and useful sex manual for women about men. Now this "sexpert" is back to tell men how to arouse women-stressing the best and most versatile uses of hands and mouth. Having spent the last seven years giving sexuality seminars and working as an AIDS volunteer, she quite appropriately places sager sex advice upfront, in Chapter 2. Her discussion of intercourse positions is complete and concise, and she includes a good chapter on sex toys. Her organized approach, good illustrations, and judicious use of metaphors (women are like hockey, with shooting and scoring) should appeal to men. Heartily recommended for public libraries.
Martha Cornog, Philadelphia
Copyright 2000 Reed Business Information, Inc.

More About the Author

Combining fifteen years of sexuality research with her experience as a sex educator, Lou Paget is the author of the acclaimed sex guide for women How to be a Great Lover, and is the instructor and founder of the nationally recognized and wildly popular Sexuality Seminars. Lou has appeared in Cosmopolitan, Marie Claire, and Redbook. She lives in Los Angeles, California.

Customer Reviews

Men, if you love your woman, get this book.
Photopro
The techniques are well explained and illustrated, the tone of writing is on a personal basis making the information easy to accept and apply.
Rick Wine
I think they could dedicate at least one evening to reading this book and learning how to warm up their partners.
"sandrajab"

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732 of 768 people found the following review helpful By A Customer on March 3, 2003
Format: Hardcover
I just got married on New Year's Eve, and my mother-in-law (who is totally cool) gave me a big stack of sex-instruction books as a wedding present. This was one of them among the pile, which also included "5 Minutes to Orgasm Every Time," "Satisfaction" by Kim Kattral, "The Bedside Kama Sutra" by Linda Sonntag, "9 Free Secrets of New Sensual Power" by Clint Arthur, and "Secrets of Sensual Lovemaking" by Tom Leonardi. I took the whole lot with me to Hawaii on our honeymoon, studied them thoroughly, and from my bride's reaction to the things I put into good use during our ten days in the tropics, I got an "A" on the final exam.
So here's what I learned, and a few bits of advice I have for anyone who is searching this category in earnest for some self-help in the area of mastering the skills of making love and making a woman scream with sexual ecstasy. #)1 There really is a lot of information available on how to be a MUCH better lover. One would think that sex is just sex, and that all these books are just a bunch of hype, but it's just not true. There's thousands of years of education and study in this field, and it can make a dramatic difference. To get a little personal, my wife and I were by no means virgins when we got married -- in fact, we'd been having what we both considered to be GREAT sex together for almost three years of dating and being engaged. But after I read these books and put the lessons into action, UNBELIEVABLE FIREWORKS went off for her and me both. So picking the right book out of this bunch can be a worthy investment of your time and efforts
2) There is a big difference between these books. Some are written by women, others by men, some are just about how to give HER pleasure, others are about the COUPLE getting pleasure.
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67 of 69 people found the following review helpful By Oscar Travsmarts on January 25, 2000
Format: Hardcover
Women are mysterious, or at least I always thought they were, but a soft, romantic light is shed on this mystery of feminine sexuality by Lou Paget's engaging, readable book. She covers everything from foot massage to massage of, well, more intimate body parts. But the proof will be with your partner, and mine says, "every woman should give this book to her lover." But smart men will buy it for themselves and just surprise her with all they know about what REALLY turns her on.
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230 of 253 people found the following review helpful By Rick Wine on January 24, 2000
Format: Hardcover
An excellent book, created out of experience from Lou Paget's seminars and workshops. The techniques are well explained and illustrated, the tone of writing is on a personal basis making the information easy to accept and apply. Of at least equal importance to the great variety and explanation of "how to" techniques, is the early discussion of setting the mood, consideration of caring approach , and simple "partner considerations" that do so much to pave the way to opening the mind for rewarding and exciting new fulfillment in sexual relationships. I sure recommend getting the first of Lou Paget's book, "How to be a Great Lover" to go with this (gift it to your partner!), they make a GREAT compliment to each other and makes a great mutual gift for the lady and gentleman in the relationship. From mood setting before the foreplay to the ultimate "breathtaking" inimacy and beyond, this is very worth reading and USING! We will continue to enjoy these books for a LONG time! Thanks Lou and Tara!
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30 of 31 people found the following review helpful By A Customer on July 31, 2003
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I bought this book a while back and never read it. Recently, I began reading it and trying the different suggestions on my girlfriend as I came across them in the book. This started driving her really wild. I knew a lot of the things covered in this book but never considered the various possible approaches to doing these things, e.g., building anticipation in a female. There are so many ways to do this. I told my girlfriend about the book and she plans on buying three for her brother-in-laws! This is a thorough, entertaining, and enlightening book that can assist about any man in correcting common misconceptions about sexuality and making the woman in his life happier.
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40 of 43 people found the following review helpful By M. Thomsen on August 11, 2005
Format: Hardcover
This book has lots of good advice, and is definitely helpful. However, if you're looking for something specific with detailed explanations, keep looking. Most of the advice is simply advice such as "ask her what she wants," "get her comfortable," and "be safe." Specific techniques are rarely explained, and when they are the wording is confused and hard to follow (though occasionally the diagrams help).
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27 of 28 people found the following review helpful By Bobby Nickells on September 28, 2001
Format: Hardcover
Women can really be difficult to figure out when it comes to satisfying her. Well this book explains in detail on what your average woman likes. I don't think any other book comes close to this one. I have a copy of Women, Sex and Dating, For The Single Man and this too is one of the best, because it explains in detail on what she likes in the bedroom, but Paget's book is the best of them all.
Paget gives great advice on how to give a woman mutilple orgasms and how to put her in the mood. That was my biggest problem, how to put her in the mood. Much of this advice also comes from other women on what they like. How can you go wrong? If you want to know all about women and sex, without having to ask, read this.
Other books to read are Lesbian Sex Secrets, Women, Sex And Dating For The Single Man, The Art Of Kissing & I'm Not In The Mood; What Every Woman Should Know About Improving Her Low Libido (The BEST book to read if you are with a woman with no sexual desire).
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