How to Be Her Best Lover Ever [Paperback]

John Alexander (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: July 5, 2005

sex guide, sex manual, how to be her best lover ever, Sex, Relationships, Sexuality

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About the Author

John Alexander is a sexologist who has developed extensive expertise from both a wide range of research and from a large amount of personal experience. He's thoroughly tested and developed his methods over the past two and a half decades, making countless women happy. In "How to Be Her Best Lover Ever," he reveals his sexual secrets for the first time ever. John has sworn under oath that his methods when applied correctly are always successful.

Product Details

• Paperback: 136 pages
• Publisher: LULU (July 5, 2005)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1411637739
• ISBN-13: 978-1411637733
• Product Dimensions: 8.8 x 6 x 0.6 inches
• Shipping Weight: 7.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (12 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #575,765 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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36 of 37 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars This book worked for us!, August 1, 2005

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Linda Stevens - See all my reviews

This review is from: How to Be Her Best Lover Ever (Paperback)

I got this book for my boyfriend recently after seeing it advertised elsewhere online. For this to be an impartial review, I'll provide what I liked and what I disliked about it. First, what I disliked about it:
- The length. This book, though packed with information, left my boyfriend and me hungry for more.
- The price. "How to Be Her Best Lover Ever" isn't exactly cheap.

Now, those are two very big dislikes, but as you see, I gave it 5 stars. That's because of what I liked about this book:
- The Mindset Method and techniques that it taught my boyfriend. Sex with him now is AMAZING.
- My boyfriend's sex drive has gone through the roof.
- He has become great at oral sex.
- I enjoy performing oral sex on him now, thanks to the male taste-improvement tips (to put it delicately) that this book is filled with.

I'm a voracious reader of "how to" books, and there have only been a few guides that have truly had a profoundly positive effect on me. And this book is one of them. It's an obscure book by an author who's not well-known, but it's truly one of the best kept secrets out there, and definitely more than worth the price.

20 of 21 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Highly Recommended, September 21, 2005

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Bruce Peters (Buffalo, NY USA) - See all my reviews

This review is from: How to Be Her Best Lover Ever (Paperback)

I bought this book after getting John's dating book "How to Become an Alpha Male," and I've got to say that I was extremely impressed. What makes a book good, in my opinion, is when it's not just a bunch of repackaged material that you can find in other books. John breaks a lot of new ground in this book.

First and foremost, his Mindset Method is absolutely groundbreaking. Every other sex book has you memorizing gobs of material about how to manipulate the woman's mind, but this is the first book that explains that the key to good sex for your woman is to have YOUR OWN mind straight. The only other book I've ever found that touches on this concept is "How to Make Love All Night" by Barbara Keesling. But "How to Be Her Best Lover Ever" addresses it explicitly--and expands on it, thoroughly explaining it in simple, easy to understand language. Once you get your mind right, it makes your woman have the best sex of her life with you.

And then the chapter on boosting your testosterone through your diet and living habits was pure gold. I've seen tips here and there on how to boost "the miracle hormone" as John calls it, but this book has a massive, complete compilation of how exactly to boost your testosterone naturally, and thus have a higher sex drive.

Another chapter which -- believe me -- was worth way more than the cost of this book were the sections on "How to Receive Oral" and "How to Get Her to Swallow." I know Amazon's a PG-rated site, so I'll just say this: I am a very happy man right now.

The marketing for this book claims that the chief benefit you'll derive from it will be increased amounts of sex from your wife or girlfriend. I can verify firsthand that this is definitely true.

Though this book is slim -- only 140 pages -- I found it to be jam-packed with so much information that it's worth more than any 10 other sex books put together.

18 of 21 people found the following review helpful:

1.0 out of 5 stars A glorified pamphlet., October 2, 2007

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r (New Orleans, LA) - See all my reviews

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This review is from: How to Be Her Best Lover Ever (Paperback)

Okay, I rarely give 1-star reviews, but I'd give this one zero stars if I could. I've read a handful of books in this genre, mainly because I believe you can never know everything about anything.

I've read Alexander's other book, "How to Become an Alpha Male." That one is actually a pretty good book. Still a bit overpriced, but a good book. In that book, he kinda reiterates what several other books have to say on the subject, but trims some of the fat off and makes it easier to understand.

It would appear that he tried to take the same approach with this book, but it ends up being a tiny pamphlet that only the lamest dork in the universe could possibly glean any new information from. It's got absolutely nothing new in it. It tells you how to kiss, have sex, what to eat, etc.

I read it in about 30 minutes (yeah, it might be "136" pages but the font is giant and there's a ton of whitespace). The bottom line is, this book is worth a few bucks--if you found it in dumpster, I'd say you got a good deal--not the outrageous $39.98 he's asking for it. I think the other reviews have got to be fake or something, too. This is ridiculous. Please, save your money, buy a real book on the subject. This one is a glorified pamphlet.