A lovely, warm, and poignant true story that reads like compelling fiction, How to Love an American Man is Kristine Gasbarre’s unforgettable memoir recalling the valuable lessons on love she learned from her newly widowed grandmother—and how Grandma’s advice and memories enabled the author to find and fall for a man with an old-fashioned approach to romance. Fans of Elizabeth Gilbert’s Eat, Pray, Love, women readers drawn to tales of powerful female bonding, and anyone looking for a beautiful love story will be moved and, perhaps, profoundly inspired by How to Love an American Man.
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Gasbarre’s reflections should resonate with many readers…including those who enjoyed Elizabeth Gilbert’s Eat, Pray, Love (Booklist )
“A beautifully written, heartfelt gem. Disguised as a romance, it is actually a story of familial bonds, personal growth and faith.” (Lisa Oz, New York Times bestselling author and radio host )
“Gasbarre writes with style, grace and plenty of humor, maintaining a perfect balance. Hers is a genuine quest. Up close and personal, here is a bright light on the road to Love” (Alphie McCourt )
The author’s treatment of the central conflict that drives the book-the quintessentially modern female quandary of finding lasting love while staying true to personal ambitions-comes across with an integrity and veracity women readers will undoubtedly appreciate…Chick-lit-alicious.” (Kirkus Reviews )
Kristine Gasbarre is a modern-day Jane Austen ... with sparkling wit, this spunky heroine faces modern women’s search for love..That’s where her grandmother comes in, gently schooling her in the art of courtship and, ultimately, identity. A page-turner that leaves you guessing until the very end.” (Jean Twenge, Ph.D., author of Generation Me and co-author of The Narcissism Epidemic )
“How to Love an American Man is fresh, funny, and original. Kristine Gasbarre has written a love story without borders. Dive in and enjoy!” (Adriana TrigianiAdriana TrigianiAdriana TrigianiAdriana TrigianiAdriana TrigianiAdriana TrigianiAdriana Trigiani )
“A beautifully written, heartfelt gem. Disguised as a romance, it is actually a story of familial bonds, personal growth and faith.” (Lisa Oz, New York Times bestselling author and radio host )
“Gasbarre writes with style, grace and plenty of humor, maintaining a perfect balance. Hers is a genuine quest. Up close and personal, here is a bright light on the road to Love” (Alphie McCourt )
The author’s treatment of the central conflict that drives the book-the quintessentially modern female quandary of finding lasting love while staying true to personal ambitions-comes across with an integrity and veracity women readers will undoubtedly appreciate…Chick-lit-alicious.” (Kirkus Reviews )
Kristine Gasbarre is a modern-day Jane Austen ... with sparkling wit, this spunky heroine faces modern women’s search for love..That’s where her grandmother comes in, gently schooling her in the art of courtship and, ultimately, identity. A page-turner that leaves you guessing until the very end.” (Jean Twenge, Ph.D., author of Generation Me and co-author of The Narcissism Epidemic )
“How to Love an American Man is fresh, funny, and original. Kristine Gasbarre has written a love story without borders. Dive in and enjoy!” (Adriana TrigianiAdriana TrigianiAdriana TrigianiAdriana TrigianiAdriana TrigianiAdriana TrigianiAdriana Trigiani )
From the Back Cover
An endearing and unforgettable memoir of love, self-discovery, and enduring, old-fashioned values
Kristine Gasbarre made a New York career of dating driven, inaccessible men. When she realizes her love life will never result in happiness if she continues on the same path, she makes a big decision—relocating to Italy to discover her roots and find out what defines her adoring grandpa. But upon receiving the news of his sudden passing, she is lured away.
With nowhere left to go, Krissy returns to her small hometown for the first time in a decade to help care for her grandmother—a refined, private matriarch suf?fering from early dementia along with the loss of her husband. In her reluctant agreement to share the nearly lost love stories and transformative lessons from her rich sixty-year marriage, Krissy’s grandma becomes the one of?fering comfort as she coaches her granddaughter through the fear of loving. Grandma’s unapologetic femininity and secret giving spirit opens Krissy’s eyes about relationships, teaching her the single most important requisite for loving a man: first a woman has to learn the power of her own inner beauty.
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27 of 34 people found the following review helpful
By ltc
Format:Kindle Edition
I had to read this book for book club and I have to say it is definitely not worth your time. While the language itself was lovely, the overall message and theme was immature and not very well conceived. I kept hoping it would get better but it never did. It was way longer than it needed to be and repeated the same issue over and over again. You wanted to bang your head against the wall after she KEPT pointing out her heart ache, then in case you didn't get the memo she actually wrote something along the lines of "I had a broken heart." I found the allusions and references in the novel very sophomoric.
Also, the connection she was trying to make of her grandmother grieving over her grandfather's death comparable to her break up was unfathomable and self absorbed. There was no real crescendo or movement in the book- it was like one long magazine article from Cosmo. The best way I can describe the book is a glorified "what I did last summer" essay mixed with a self help book, written by someone without expertise.
Also, the connection she was trying to make of her grandmother grieving over her grandfather's death comparable to her break up was unfathomable and self absorbed. There was no real crescendo or movement in the book- it was like one long magazine article from Cosmo. The best way I can describe the book is a glorified "what I did last summer" essay mixed with a self help book, written by someone without expertise.
4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
By Dawn
Format:Paperback
One of the most enjoyable reads in a long time. Krissy Gasbarre takes pen and paper and makes you feel a part of her world. Refreshing insight into the mind of a member of the older generation and proof that love and respect still exist in families.
4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
By anna
Format:Paperback
I loved this book! A must read for all women especially. Not only is it filled with wonderful advice, it also has a great story. I couldn't wait to see how it ended. Trust me- you will love this book!
Most Recent Customer Reviews
3.0 out of 5 stars
Great book, but a little too long. A model for writers
As a writer I am always looking for good books to read and learn from. How to Love an American Man is a beautiful story about self discovery and unconditional love. Read more
Published 21 days ago by Piti
3.0 out of 5 stars
Just ok
I enjoyed the emphasis on the relationship between the grandparents and the author and her grandmother. Read more
Published 3 months ago by annefrosty2
2.0 out of 5 stars
Kept expecting it to get better
I had high hopes for this book but all in all, it fell flat. I kept thinking the story would pick up, but it never did.
Published 8 months ago by Jill C.
1.0 out of 5 stars
A serious case of MSD - Misleading Synopsis/Description.
Here's the problem I found with this book: the description/synopsis makes it sound AWESOME! And then you get into it, and you realize, it's not awesome. Read more
Published 8 months ago by Kris Irvin
5.0 out of 5 stars
Couldn't put it down
I bought this book after reading about it in the weekly flyer in the newspaper and seeing the author interviewed on tv. The book read like a novel, but was very thought provoking. Read more
Published 10 months ago by cjh
5.0 out of 5 stars
loved this book
I absolutely loved this book's honesty, attention to detail, and perspective. A real page-turner that's absolutely made by the author's unique POV and insights.
Published 12 months ago by Morgan M
5.0 out of 5 stars
love this book!
After reading 50 shades of grey, this book has been a light and refreshing take on love. The story just made me smile every single time I picked up the book.
Published 12 months ago by Pen Name
1.0 out of 5 stars
How to be an American doormat
I found this book to be, as other reviewers have stated, extremely sophomoric and self absorbed. I found myself repeatedly cringing when reading about the way this dreamy doctor... Read more
Published 14 months ago by BB
5.0 out of 5 stars
Great Read!
Started this book mid day yesterday and just finished. Great, refreshing read. Even had tears in my eyes at moments. Can't wait until her next book!
Published 15 months ago by wkdreader
2.0 out of 5 stars
The first chapter was awesome but...
After reading about how I should read this book I got the kindle preview and loved the first chapter--unfortunately, the first chapter was probably the best of the book. Read more
Published 15 months ago by HaveYourCake
