How to Make a Man Fall in Love with You: The Fail-Proof, Fool-Proof Method (Mass Market Paperback)

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"It's about time  women began applying as much savvy to their personal  lives as they do in their careers. Tracy Cabot's  book outlines intelligent and workable  strategies."--Ruth Halcomb, author of Woman Making  It -- Review --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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"It's about time  women began applying as much savvy to their personal  lives as they do in their careers. Tracy Cabot's  book outlines intelligent and workable  strategies."--Ruth Halcomb, author of Woman Making  It --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

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Product Details

• Mass Market Paperback: 256 pages
• Publisher: Dell (January 1, 1987)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0440145368
• ISBN-13: 978-0440145363
• Product Dimensions: 6.8 x 4.1 x 0.8 inches
• Shipping Weight: 4.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 3.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (40 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #21,725 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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188 of 226 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Very Interesting, But Does It Work For Most Women?, January 8, 2003

By	Steve Nakamoto "The Friendly Voice of the... (Huntington Beach, California USA) - See all my reviews

As a former trainer in NLP for 7 years I've always been impressed with how effective these techniques are for creating internal change (habits, behaviors, disciplines, overcoming fears, sales, etc.)

But the ability to create change in other people (like getting a man to fall in love with you) is something that I believe from my experience in the field almost no one can achieve on their own with NLP.

I wrote my fishy relationship/self-help book because I saw how different the real works as opposed to the NLP-seminar-John Gray-Tony Robbins models. That experience came from dating in Southern California and going on a lot of cruises and Club Med vacations.

What I found is that people who try to use NLP techniques come across as being weird. It also has a strange way of messing with the natural karma of love. For whatever reason, when you try to get someone else to fall in love with you through an organized skill set like this, it has a way of ruining the magic for yourself.

What is important to know from Tracy's book are the general concepts of sensory acuity and anchoring. Sensory acuity comes in handy when you recognize when you get an instant negative reaction (like bad breath, body odor, unappealing voice, talk too fast, talk too loud, talk too slow, talk too much). These things cause a person to be out of rapport. Which means an unconscious bad first impression.

Anchoring has to do with creating stirring memories or special moments. This book is about the mechanics of creating those moments which is all right, but the average person needs to feel it come naturally from within.

If a woman really wants to know how to get a man to fall in love, she must first maximize her own feminine allure (Being a Woman by Dr. Toni Grant) and then make her contacts and develop relationships. Dr. Cabot's work will help you with identifying technical mistakes, but not some much about having more to give (variety, intensity, heart), cleansing the spirit, and understanding and appreciating a love partner.

As an author, NLP trainer, and semi-relationship expert, I think that this book addresses the 20% of mechanics when it's done right (a very difficult task without years of training and integration...not just in a simple reading of a book!) But what most people really need is the 80% of how loving relationships work from within on the emotional-spiritual world.

My advice here is to enjoy this book and become more aware of instant triggers, but don't get carried away and become a weirdo!

Weirdness spooks men away quickly!

Remember that love is far more spiritual than mechanical.

164 of 199 people found the following review helpful:

1.0 out of 5 stars bad, bad advice..., April 16, 2004

By	Natalie Caudill (Dallas) - See all my reviews

I read this book and "landed" my ex-husband by doing the "mirroring" technique.The result was I pretended to be someone I wasn't and compromised far too much for an abusive, scary man. I'm no psychiatrist but you shouldn't have to "make" or "trick" someone into loving you...it nullifies the entire point of finding love to begin with. Love yourself first and find someone kind, thoughtful, considerate who loves you for yourself. You don't need this crap-ola book. It nearly ruined my life.

18 of 19 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A good read., July 30, 2009

By	Kelly Lambert - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

There are several techniques in this book that women can use in order to attract the man of their dreams. It's all about using feminine qualities to get the man you want. Many of the things the author uses can be translated into real life. Overall, it's a good read. I read it along with How To Be Wanted: Use the Law of Attraction to Date the Man You Most Desire and Live the Life You Deserveand thought both were very good.