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  • Paperback: 234 pages
  • Publisher: Love Your Life Publishing (January 15, 2014)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1934509736
  • ISBN-13: 978-1934509739
  • Product Dimensions: 6 x 0.5 x 9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 12.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (5 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,061,968 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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From the Author

Hello Beloveds!

What if you could open up fully to love, live your purpose and share your gifts completely in and through a partnership with your SoulMate? Wouldn't a little struggle for clarity be worth it? Wouldn't some temporary (I promise!) discomfort be worth it in order to manifest the love of your life? I hope so! I hope this is why you were drawn to this book.

Aren't you tired of "trying to find" love? What if you could clear all your internal barriers and just BE love? Of course, you'd become incredibly alluring, especially to your SoulMate.

When you live as a fountain of abundant love, instead of an empty well waiting to be filled by a lover, you will attract your SoulMate. When you have clarity and commit to manifesting your heart's desire, you will be drawn to those who light you up on every level... and they will be drawn to you. You won't waste time looking for a needle in a haystack. The needle will find you. When you quickly and effortlessly (well, almost) identify and permanently remove your fears, doubts, past hurts and attachments to old loves, a transformation takes place. You become the person your SoulMate finds irresistibly scrumptious. When you allow for love, become truly self-nurturing and then surrender to the perfection of divine timing, all anxiety and despair (so unattractive anyway) melt away. You live a life of fulfillment, equanimity, gratitude and purpose. That is what puts you on a trajectory - in fact, a collision course - with your SoulMate.

This book gives you simple tools and techniques to easily and quickly uncover and remove all the internal barriers that stand between you and your SoulMate. I feel so happy for you because I know without a doubt that this works. I know from experience that you can and will manifest any dream your heart desires.

I am excited about the transformational journey ahead. I am awed at the beautiful synergy the two of you will create. I am grateful for the powerful love you will share with each other and the gifts that your collaboration will bring to the world. Thank you in advance!

I want to share with you why I've decided to become the Elite SoulMate Coach. I've heard that if you have a big enough "Why?" you will stay motivated. I'm going to try to put it into words as best I can, though I hardly feel adequate to the task. I feel called to do this. This work blends together so many of my values and talents.

What I intend to manifest for and with my clients is a SoulMate, not just someone to date, but someone your soul needs to evolve. Let me be clear. I am not a matchmaker or a dating service. I am a SoulMate coach and a facilitator.

I have always been keenly interested in spirituality, and this is the most spiritual work I can think of... helping people to be more loving and to evolve spiritually in and through their most intimate relationship. That alone makes my toes curl with delight!

This vocation calls upon me to continue to evolve and become more loving and open-hearted, and to practice what I teach. Integrity is a strong value of mine. It also calls upon me to be transparent, therefore vulnerable, and not hold myself up as knowing the outcome. I am just a facilitator of what I think of as a spiritual process that asks people to trust in a higher power - that of Love.

When I was growing up we sang a song in church called "God is Love." It took a while for the reality of this message to sink in. Now I believe this and do my best to love this. Love is how God manifests in the world. I always pray to do God's will. I believe this is what He is asking of me now.

More important, I am entering the "leave a legacy" time of life. I can think of nothing more satisfying than helping other people manifest their SoulMates too! When, not "if," that happens, I know I will die happy.

About the Author

Dr. Annette Vaillancourt is an award-winning psychotherapist and the Elite SoulMate Coach. An accomplished writer and engaging speaker, Annette brings warmth, humor, and years of spiritual study to her work. A master manifestor, Annette lives and loves abundantly in Saint Louis, MO, where she is working on her Black Belt in Shotokan Karate.

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About Annette Vaillancourt, Ph.D.
Elite SoulMate Coach and Transformational Author

Annette Vaillancourt, Ph.D., has one enviable superpower: She is a master manifestor. Her passion is pushing the envelope of consciousness beyond the limits of ego. To do so, she is committed to "practical mysticism" - attending to and enacting the messages from Spirit in everyday life.

A social introvert and recovering shy person, Annette has accomplished every goal she set for herself, including:

* Manifesting $70,000 in unexpected money
* A 70-pound weight loss
* A Brown Belt in Shotokan karate
* Doubling her income during the recent recession
* Curing herself of plantar fasciitis
* Selling two homes herself to the first buyer who walked in the door

It makes sense then, that she would share her love of manifesting to help others accomplish similar goals using the secrets she has learned.

After 24+ years as a couple's counselor, she turned her attention from trying to resurrect broken marriages to helping spiritually minded singles manifest their SoulMates. Her work is inspired by the poet Rumi's line: "Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it." She blames Kenny Loggins for sparking her interest in transformative love and conscious relationship as a spiritual path.

Her clients are spiritual singles and cultural creatives who are drawn to personal growth and spiritual practices and want to use their relationships to evolve, serve, and manifest more love in the world.

Annette holds a Ph.D. in counseling psychology from Southern Illinois University, an M.A. in counseling psychology from Ball State University and a B.S. in psychology from Central Michigan University. She has presented at over 300 workshops to groups ranging from local school teachers to Fortune 500 companies. She wrote a monthly newspaper column for five years, hosted a bi-monthly Blog Talk Radio show, and organized St. Louis Spiritual Singles, St. Louis Holistic Share and the Saint Louis EFT - Emotional Freedom Technique MeetUp groups.

Annette currently lives and loves abundantly in the St. Louis metro area. She enjoys playing the fiddle/violin, dancing, occasional modeling and has earned a Brown Belt in Shotokan karate.

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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful By Gloria Arenson on February 7, 2014
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This book is upbeat, fast paced and inspirational. Dr. Vaillancourt shows you how to use EFT tapping, a simple yet amazingly effective acupressure method that is spreading all over the world, to clear any fears underlying blocking beliefs that can push love away and replace them with self-love and a positive life view. Her specific examples of how to use the EFT method make this a very useful book.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By Kathleen Gage on February 13, 2014
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Curious to know what Dr. Vaillencourt's insights into find one's SoulMate is I was anxious to read, How to Manifest Your SoulMate with EFT. Not only does she give great case studies throughout the book, I found it to be a wonderful resource for both couples and singles alike.

As someone who has been in a 25 year relationship and believing I am with my SoulMate this book affirmed for me I definitely am.

If you're wondering what it means to have a SoulMate, how to find yours and how to have a deep, meaningful and timeless relationship, this book is for you.

A must-read for anyone who wants more meaning in your relationship now or in the future.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful By Laith on February 9, 2014
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The cutting edge spirituality and compassion of Thich Nhat Hanh, and the postmodern physics of Deepak Chopra unite in sacred quantum harmony in the form of this groundbreaking work. Your SoulMate is always there and has always been there. Like the mighty Ganesh, Annette’s EFT instructions will remove the deep-seated obstacles that occlude the spirit from manifesting your Vajra Consort, your transcendental partner on the path of Life, Interbeing, and Awakening. Annette has indeed channeled a body of awe-inspiring primordial wisdom from a higher, divine source.
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3 of 4 people found the following review helpful By Carol B. on January 21, 2014
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Where was this book when I needed it?? But its not too late! This book is a salve of healing for all hurting and lonely souls.
It is written for the understanding of the masses, not the few. When read with open mind and searching heart you WILL find your Peace of soul which will be seen by all around you. This peace will attract others of like mind and heart, I have NO doubt!!!
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EFT, also known as Emotional Freedom Techniques are a type of 'Meridian Tapping' combining the ancient art of Chinese accupressure with modern psychology.
Almost magically, and certainly alchemically, Annette Vaillancourt Ph.D. leads us into a mystical transformative and manifestative knowing, that we already possess that which we seek. (while offering gainful insight into loving oneself)
Through guided meditation and actual practical working application of the fresh and innovative techniques taught in the book, we learn to remove the blocks and barriers keeping us from manifesting our Soulmates and the lives we are meant to be living! (turning lead to gold)
'How to Manifest Your Soulmate with EFT: Relationship as a Spiritual Path' is a unique and life changing arsenal of tools with quick acting affect. Not many programs offer immediate results but those are easily discovered within these pages. Though your Soulmate may not appear today, you will see and feel the differences that tapping blesses into your spirit, and will rest assured the love of your life is already a part of you!!
This book is fitting for anyone hoping and wishing for that special someone ..... all those waiting ..... wanting to believe!
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