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How to Marry a Mensch: The Love Coach's Guide to Finding Your Mate

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Here's a well-designed and useful dating/relationship book that deserves real attention. At first glance, you might think that it's just a book for Jewish singles and this is not the case. For those of you who aren't familiar, Mensch means decent, responsible person and can be found in some dictionaries. In fact, of late, there have been pop cultural references suggesting that it's cool or an achievement to be a mensch. Oprah was recently referred to as a mensch, for example. Mensch also isn't just a man....a woman can be a mensch as well. Additionally, some women might feel that a mensch is dull because they think of a "nice" guy......but in this book.....there is no better marriage material than a mensch.

For most men, this book will raise their awareness about finding a female mensch as well as what it takes to be one in the first place. The principle here is that it takes one to know one and also that love is something that you attract by first being deserving of it.

Many people might take this book lightly and skim through it without doing the valuable, well-chosen exercises. But, the more time that people take to complete these relationship and personal development exercises and give them real thought, the more likely it will pay off for them. People who actually put thought into these exercises will gain clarity over the choices they've made in their lives....romantic and otherwise. The book is very much a how-to, interactive read.

As the Answer Man for [...], I'm always on the lookout for books to recommend for women in their search for lasting, fulfilling love. I liked the parts in the book that highlighted: 1) act like you want to get married instead of just thinking about it, 2) approach everyday socializing more strategically, and 3) creating the initial impression as a "babe" more so than a "bud."

In summary, this book is written in a light-hearted manner, but still packs a punch in terms of empowering marriage-minded singles to do a serious reality check of their socializing strategies and tactics. This includes assessing not just the activities they pursue, but to be conscious of their attitude when they are meeting new people. Stories of others who met their mensches are shared in this book with great candor, and there is a lot to be learned from these experiences, as well as the author's. The WORDS OF WISDOM feature of the book will make the reader both smile and think and ideally, walk away believing that love is more than possible for them as well.

This is a book that you'll enjoy reading the first time as well as a valuable reference to keep handy on your journey to love.

Being a self confessed "relationship book junkie" i found this book to be not only refreshing but a powerful statement about love. Most relationship books detail the hows and whys in a painful and almost tedious demonstration of what men want and how you can twist your self into becomming this creature unlike any other. Robin Gorman-Newman creates a world of joy, insight, truely helpful suggestions without taking away the fun of meeting new people for the sake of actual 'fun'. Bravo! BUY THIS BOOK!

This is the type of book that once you start reading, it's hard to put down. It's informative, entertaining, interesting and extremely well done. This makes great conversation! Every mother should buy one for their daughter!!!

Reviewed by Catherine Phelps for Reader Views (12/06)

Robin Gorman Newman, a.k.a. The Love Coach, details through her personal success how single women can find and marry a mensch. She offers stories and hints through her writings as well as seminars, radio and television appearances, website and private coaching on recognition and permanent partnership with your best mate.

A mensch is a decent, responsible person even your mother would love. By reading and putting into practice some of the ideas found in the book, "How to Marry a Mensch," you will greatly increase your chances of finding your mate for a happy life together. By using a variety of personal stories from her own and other women's lives, perky tips, proven techniques and unique approaches to socializing and dating, the author directs you to maximize your time for a positive outcome.

This book is intended for the single, woman reader of any age. Whether currently in a relationship or alone, the traits of a mensch are expanded upon and you are encouraged to not settle for anyone less than a man who is supportive of you, and a positive influence in your life. No negative, discouraging relationships are allowed!

If marriage is your goal, you will learn how to maximize your chances of meeting a mensch, how to seduce him and get him to marry you. Offering a variety of exercises, checklists and quizzes as you read will make your journey to find lasting love one of self discovery and joy.

Written with a whimsical theme, this book is comical at times, yet addresses a serious life goal. With humor and enjoyment, Ms. Newman directs you to consider all options on your search as one may be likely to meet their future husband in the most unlikely place.
A decent, responsible person even your mother would love! "How to Marry a Mensch" will provide you with the knowledge, tools and savvy to meet your mate! Written with a variety of tools to convey tips, techniques and checklists, all bases are covered in your fantasy trip to find your mensch, your future husband. Once you find him, your world will never be the same!

Received book free of charge.

This is a great book that I wish was around when I was still single. I spent so many years reading relationship books that were more about healing and self-examination, when really what most single women need are tips on how to look for a mensch (regardless of your ethnic or religious background!) Robin's practical tips and real-life anecdotes let the reader know that there's nothing wrong with HER because she's single- she just needs a little guidance on how to meet her mate! What a gift!

I really enjoyed this book. Being single is sometimes overwhelming and Robin offered real honest advice at steps I can take to help myself.
I totally reccommend this book for others in my situation. It was also a fun book to read.

There are so many books on relationships out there, and you know what to expect. I bought this book for a friend and she found it to be a fun yet mature manual for her launch back into the dating scene. Not surprising, since the writing is really good and incredibly smart. I'd recommend it.

This book is great in that it covers all aspects.
It has case studies- those real life stories that you can relate to, it has exercises so that you take an active part in your finding your mate process, it has boxed advice and it's chapters are quick bite sized reads to be able to digest all the information. The voice of the author is friendly, but authoritative...this book is a must read for anyone who still hasn't found the man of their dreams, and truly believes in happily ever after.

This is a fun, uplifting book about dating and relationships. Robin's warm, witty writing style, combined with her use of anecdotes and personal experience, give the reader a real insight into what makes relationships work and how to make your relationship work for you. It's a must-read for anyone trying to navigate the tricky, often harrowing world of dating and relationships.

Robin's insightful information helped me evaluate and guide my relationship to the next level. Now, I'm married to a wonderful, thoughtful man and we're thinking about starting a family.
Susan