How To Please A Woman In & Out Of Bed [Paperback]

Daylle Deanna Schwartz (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: April 1, 2000

How to Please a Woman in and out of Bed, 2nd Edition is back and better than ever. In this even more revealing, sexier new edition, men get deeper inside the minds of today's women - learning all the female turn-ons and turn-offs through catchy sidebars and fun quotes. Guys uncover the truth about: What women really think about penis size; The sometimes elusive female orgasm; What women want before, during, and after sex; What to say - and not to say - to get a lover in the mood

--This text refers to an alternate Paperback edition.

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About the Author

Daylle Deanna Schwartz is a relationship counsellor. She teaches classes to men and women on how to have better relationships, and has appeared on Oprah and Montel Williams. --This text refers to an alternate Paperback edition.

Product Details

• Paperback: 256 pages
• Publisher: Adams Media Corp; 1 edition (April 1, 2000)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1580622852
• ISBN-13: 978-1580622851
• Product Dimensions: 8.5 x 5.5 x 0.7 inches
• Shipping Weight: 6.4 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (9 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,771,903 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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47 of 49 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars I feel more confident now!, March 17, 2000

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David Dean (Chicago, IL) - See all my reviews

This review is from: How To Please A Woman In & Out Of Bed (Paperback)

My sister gave me this book and I balked. Felt funny reading it. But Daylle makes sense. I felt like she was writing it to me. I knew a lot of what she writes about but it was the way she said it that made it click. I recognized myself in many parts, especially the chapter on emotions. I didn't like what I read but know it's true. Daylle's goal is to help men understand why women need things from us that we hate giving. I've always resented when a woman pushed for compliments or expressions of feelings. First the first time I really understand how much upbringing is responsible. She's right. Neither sex asked to be how they are. I've begun to see my current woman differently and am slowly doing some of what I learned. The emphasis on creating connections was a great lesson. I am seeing that what Daylle calls "the little things" can go far. They take little effort and make her happier and more agreeable. I've already tried some of the suggestions for better sex and they work. I have a much more responsive partner already, and she seems to be wanting it more. Daylle doesn't emphasize crazy positions or anything unusual. She did help me understand better how a woman's body operates and how much I can do to make my partner want me more. This book is definitely worth the read! Whatever tips you can use will make your life with women better.

44 of 48 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars A must read!, August 24, 2000

By A Customer

This review is from: How To Please A Woman In & Out Of Bed (Paperback)

If I'd had this book a few years ago, I'd still be married to the woman I love. When I read Daylle's practical words, I saw all the things I did wrong flash before me in neon lights. Back then I was so busy trying to avoid dealing with problems that I ignored the simple things that could have kept my marriage solid. I see all the things my wife complained about in a new light. Now I understand what she needed. She talked and talked and I heard it in another language. Now I get it. I thought my wife was asking for too much. Had I read this book sooner, I could have pleased her without so much work. I wish I'd had the connection ideas cause that was what she was asking for when I made fun of her for wanting too much attention. If I'd understood her body then, I could have kept her much happier in bed. Instead I was one of those guys Daylle refers to who just mush around and hope for the best. I thought satisfying her was impossible so I didn't bother to try other ways. I've tried some of the in bed techniques on the woman I'm seeing and I felt like a more confident lover. She really responded. This book explains how many women think and how we often interpret women incorrectly. I hope that someday I'll meet a woman like my wife that I'll want to use everything I've learned on. This book can definitely make a difference in how you see and handle women. Should be required reading before you get too involved.

19 of 21 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars What Ms Schwartz can and can not help you with., October 25, 2001

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Steve Cameron (Alma, MI United States) - See all my reviews

This review is from: How To Please A Woman In & Out Of Bed (Paperback)

Though Daylle is ill qualified to instruct anyone in matters of enduring love, she is an undisputed expert in matters of lust. If your relationship is lacking in the `vitamins and minerals' of a healthy lifelong relationship, look elsewhere. But if you're in a solid marriage and want to help your wife learn how to enjoy `dessert' (before someone else does), look no further. The heart of what Ms. Schwartz shares in this book is two-fold and true to the title she gave it. She does a masterful job of showing men how women wish to be treated non-sexually and then goes where few have gone in spelling out the nuts and bolts of how to help your women enjoy her sexuality in the same way you do. What's the difference? You've been orgasmic since puberty and your wife want's to start soon. Wise is the man who not only learns what Daylle is teaching in this book, but learns it in the order that she teaches it.