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How to Resolve Conflicts

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This turned out to be a pamphlet...only a few pages. Probably half of which are devoted to the actual subject of the book which is conflict resolution. I think the main idea is a very important one which everyone should be aware of and consider when involved in any kind of conflict. Even if one doesn't go around asking some of the hokey questions suggested, just realizing the "third party" is a good possiblity, one can then respond accordingly....and maybe refrain from reacting until the situation is better understood, thereby saving, possibly, a relationship or partnership, etc... If you've ever had someone blow up at you for what appears to be no reason, there's a good chance that person has been misled by something or someone along the way. By understanding the "third party" idea, you can avoid that kind of thing, and avoid reacting to what appear to be irrational accusations. I would have liked more information and/or examples. This is just, basically, an idea layed out there in a few pages.

I have been married for about 5 years. About 2 years ago my husband and I began having a lot of difficulties. It was to the point that I was ready for a divorce. This was the most awful thing I could have ever imagined since I had been with this person since I was 14 and he was my very best friend. When I got my hands on this book I realized where my problems were stemming from and I was able to handle it. It became very easy and with-in no time my husband and I were happy again. I can honestly say that without the data in this book I would not be with my husband today.

We know that individuals fight. Groups can fight. Nations can fight.

Most people get wrapped up in trying to figure out "what went wrong" when often it is very simple - there is a 3rd party making things go wrong.

Like the gunmaker that supplies guns to both sides - the French AND the English - there are people who feel they will benefit if two other people or groups are at odds.

Anyone who has watched a soap opera for a few weeks can see how this can play out between individuals. It is very clear on the soaps.

In real life it might be harder to spot the person who has an investment in the disagreements of others. This book provides data about how unresolved conflicts come about - and better yet, it provides the SOLUTION to these problems.

My husband and I were having some trouble, and we used the process in this booklet - it worked! We both discovered that a "friend" was not very friendly, in fact. She was creating upset in both of us - and creating conflict.

Once we spotted this, using the tools in this book, the disagreements ended!

This is an amazing tool!

I got a lot from this booklet. It's not very large, but the concepts presented are astounding - it's like someone pulled the smokescreen off the REASON for problems between people, and boiled it down to a few unshakable truths.

If you have ever lost a friend or a relationship and didn't quite know what went wrong, I think you will find this booklet very, very interesting!

It also gives a step-by-step handling for recovering troubled relationships, and I tried this out and I can attest it actually does work.

This is a must read because it affects most everyone! Who hasn't had arguments with friends, co-workers and loved ones and yet even today, those past conflicts still remain a mystery.

At first reading of L. Ron Hubbard's How to Resove Conflicts, I couldn't believe it, but then I began to search out my past when conflicts did occur and sure enough it seemed true, what he said.

Then the next conflict I had, I appled the techniques in this booklet and varoom!!!!!! It resolved the conflict and we became friends once again.

Harry Wong

This very easy to read booklet, is jam-packed with vital information on dealing with people and groups. It is small, but powerful, and has provided me with a valuable tool that I use any time a 'conflict' arises now. I don't look at who I am arguing with, I step back and look for the common party to all of us, and it works every time - I discover that there is a 'third-party' trying to stand back and create a show for them to watch. It can save friendships, a marriage, a business relationship, and allows you to remain at cause in relationships and conflicts.

For the price of a coffee, this book is a tool you should have on hand, and refer to often.

I would highly recommend it, especially if you have ever lost a friend, or experienced a conflict that to this day you still can't figure out what happened.

I've read lots of women's magazines and self-help books but nothing like the stuff in here. It's really great and it helped me a lot.