How She Really Does It: Secrets of Successful Stay-at-Work Moms [Paperback]

Wendy Sachs (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: March 7, 2006

Yes, some women are opting out of their careers, taking an "off-ramp," and heading home to raise their babies. But millions of us cannot afford to make that choice. And millions more choose to work because we love our careers. So how are women holding on to financially necessary or stimulating and rewarding careers and still being engaged mothers? Wendy Sachs, journalist and mother of two, set out to find what's really happening at the intersection of motherhood and work today. Based on her in-depth interviews with mothers from diverse backgrounds, How She Really Does It explores the creative and courageous ways in which stay-at- work moms are making it happen. Here are the moms next door-as well as lawyers, doctors, entrepreneurs, fashion designers, journalists, and television personalities-who are navigating the everyday work/home conflicts, and, yes, dealing with the guilt. Through it all, they are empowered career women and caring, present mothers. A modern working woman's survival guide, How She Really Does It will give you hope that even if you can't have it all, you can have at least some of it all of the time.

Editorial Reviews

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"[Sachs] generously covers the secrets of stay-at-work moms, canning the guilt." -- Nashville Parent, May 2006

"[Sachs] generously covers the secrets of stay-at-work moms, canning the guilt." -- Parent World, May 2006

About the Author

Wendy Sachs is a freelance television producer. Previously, she was an associate producer at Dateline NBC. Her stories have earned an Emmy and an Amnesty International USA Media Spotlight award. Married and the mother of two, Sachs lives in New Jersey.

Product Details

• Paperback: 224 pages
• Publisher: Da Capo Press (March 7, 2006)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0738210625
• ISBN-13: 978-0738210629
• Product Dimensions: 8.9 x 6 x 0.6 inches
• Shipping Weight: 9.6 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 3.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (9 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #565,532 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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17 of 18 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars perfect for the professional working mom, October 29, 2007

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This review is from: How She Really Does It: Secrets of Successful Stay-at-Work Moms (Paperback)

What I loved about this book is that she clearly expressed so many feelings that I have had over the last 3 years of being a professional, working mom. She covers all the aspects of my life; kids, husband, work! And, while there are some tips on how to effectively organize time, etc. this book is really just about helping me feel like I'm not alone. I was so happy to read that other women have experienced all the exact same feelings and frustrations as myself.

This book is really targeted towards professional women who work. She does not have a lot of empathy or understanding for stay at home mom's (she believes it's hypocritical to get a high level degree and then decide not to work anymore), so if this would offend you, don't read this book. For me, it was perfect because I tend to agree, but it's not something all moms agree on. Also, the research presented is strongly supportive of working and does not present research to support mom's staying at home. In that sense it is one-sided. However, for a mom who does work a lot and wants to feel validated it's wonderful.

10 of 11 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars not a how-to manual, June 25, 2007

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rapp woman (California) - See all my reviews

This review is from: How She Really Does It: Secrets of Successful Stay-at-Work Moms (Paperback)

At first, I was frustrated when reading this book because I thought it would give me tips on "how to really do it." But I am glad I kept reading because although the book does not offer hints on how to organize yourself or your house, it does tell you how different women approach their roles as mother and worker/professional. The inspirational stories in this book really helped me to see how choosing your mindset can make balancing family and work life easier.

8 of 9 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Thank you Wendy Sachs - Much Less Guilt Now!, January 31, 2007

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Working Mom of One (Black Diamond, WA) - See all my reviews

This review is from: How She Really Does It: Secrets of Successful Stay-at-Work Moms (Paperback)

I highly recommend this book to any working OR stay at home mom. It has been such a refreshing read. Since I rarely get time to read it was a blessing that I saw the author on a morning news program and heard about her book. It has really lightened my mental load and made me realize that I am not the only working mom that struggles with the daily grind as well as the often self-induced guilt. Enjoy!