How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved (Paperback)

~ M.A. Sandra L. Brown (Author) "Dangerous men exist in all of our lives..." (more)
Key Phrases: Mythical Assumption, Ted Bundy, Danger of Dating More Dangerous Men (more...)

Editorial Reviews

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"Sandra's topic really hit home with our viewers! She presents valuable information in an easy-to-understand, straight-forward manner." -- Jennifer Austin, Producer, Northwest Afternoon, KOMO-TV / ABC Seattle, WA

"Very interesting information and she knows her topic well. Thanks!" -- Kerri Williamson, Producer, AM Northwest, KATU-TV / ABC Portland, OR

"Well worth a read for every woman, single or not." -- Orlando Sentinel

"…chock full of practical advice…These valuable tips could save women and their children a lot of un-needed hurt and anxiety." -- Marci Wise, Producer, Daytime, WFLA-TV / NBC Tampa-St. Petersburg

"…fascinating and fabulous!" -- Melissa Jones, Producer, Good Morning Texas, WFAA-TV / ABC Dallas-Ft. Worth, Texas

[Sandra's]work has done wonders in the lives of our clients...Our staff could not be more pleased by the results. -- Renee L. Rose, Domestic Violence Advocate, Salvation Army Domestic Violence Program

Product Description

What is a dangerous man? Most women would answer: one who is physically violent. But abusive behavior is often more insidious. Men who want mothers, not partners, who prey on lonely, passive women, who are mentally ill, addicted, or emotionally unavailable, or who won't go away when asked to leave all fall into this dangerous category. In this book women are encouraged to take responsibility for their own safety, are shown how to choose men wisely, and learn how not to make the same mistake twice. Thirteen chapters cover all the red flags of a dangerous man, offer stories of women's successes and failures dealing with each type, and provide safe ways to get out of a hazardous relationship. Armed with this valuable information, women have the tools they need to cultivate positive and healthy relationships with men.

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Product Details

• Paperback: 262 pages
• Publisher: Hunter House (April 15, 2005)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0897934474
• ISBN-13: 978-0897934473
• Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.1 x 0.7 inches
• Shipping Weight: 12.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
• Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (54 customer reviews)
• Amazon.com Sales Rank: #31,636 in Books (See Bestsellers in Books)

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55 of 56 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Very no-nonsense book, a must read, June 30, 2005

By	Stephanie Manley (Houston, TX) - See all my reviews (TOP 500 REVIEWER)    (REAL NAME)

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This a fantastic book. This book is written is a no-nonsense style. Sandra Brown is factual, and plain spoken when it comes to dealing with dangerous men. Dangerous men look just like normal men, but they will only drag you emotionally and mentally downward. She describes plainly the different types of abuse, and how they make you feel. She also discusses what can be a chronic problem like depression, compared to a psychopath, who will prey upon you.
I like that she goes through your personal red flags, we all have them, but we often fail to recognize them. We fail to recognize red flags due to the way we were brought up. Often we have been taught how to be dsyfunctional in order to keep peace within the family unit.
Sandra Brown does an excellent job of describing what red flag are, how to recognize yours, and how to learn not to ignore them. She then guides you through recogizing what works for you personally, and what does not. She teaches about boundaries, and how you can develop some of your own.
This book is plainly written, and may seem a little harsh at times. If you have been in a relationship with a dangerous man, or are wondering if the man you are involved with is dangerous, this is definately worth the read. This book will aide you in determining which man you have, or what the next should be. I highly recommend this book!

18 of 19 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Incredibly helpful!, September 27, 2005

By	R. S. Evans "The Rockin' Rev" (Clearwater, FL, USA) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

As a pastor of a growing church I come into regular contact with women of all ages who have been struggling through one dysfunctional relationship after the other. In the past I would offer the best advice and encouragement that I could think of, but now with Sandra Brown's insightful new book I have the tools to help these ladies make wise choices. This book isn't just for the woman who can't seem to find 'Mr. Right'; this book is also for anyone who cares enough about these women to help them see and understand themselves and those they are drawn too! I now look forward to a possible sequel?? Maybe: 'How to Spot a Healthy Man?'

16 of 17 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Saved My Life, June 2, 2005

By	K. Warriner (San Diego Calif) - See all my reviews (REAL NAME)

I was having trouble with my off and on boyfriend of 7 years when this book was reccomended to me. I knew he had some of the Red Flags, but I didn't realize how dangerous he really was until I seriously tried to leave him. I felt that Sandra really knew what I was going through and feeling when I read the other womens stories. Every time I said, yes but, she had an answer for me. I am now out of the relationship, am getting help with the law, and not listening to his lies and issues.If I had not read the book when I did, I may be here today to tell my story. I still have a long way to go, but I feel there is hope for me .
We all have to look to our past, to why we attract the men we do and her book makes you look at dating in a very selective light..Kudos!!