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How To Attract Women: The Secrets Of What Women Want [Kindle Edition]

Carlos Xuma
4.1 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (30 customer reviews)

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Book Description

FINALLY - A Simple Method That Shows You... How To Confidently Talk With Any Woman That Catches Your Eye.

Gain magnetic attraction with hot, quality women... And get inside secrets to hidden "attraction triggers" in a woman's mind... so you have the unfair advantage in meeting and dating women.

Do you see attractive women you want to meet and talk to, but you lose your nerve and never approach her? Are you tired of going out to bars and clubs to meet women and end up drinking alone? Do you get nervous and shy with women, and chicken out when you try to meet women?

Would you like to get a girlfriend - but you don't know what steps to take to make it happen?

Are you tired of being the Nice Guy - while some other Bad Boy walks away with the women you want?

FINALLY - Discover the secrets of what women want in this exclusive book from Carlos Xuma. Carlos reveals how to attract women and create the kind of sexual interest that will get you success with women that you only dreamed about before.

Imagine how your friends will envy you when you discover:

- How women decide whether you're a man they can trust and let down their guard with - and how to make her feel like she's known you for years...

- How to overcome the fear and paralysis of "approach anxiety." Men everywhere feel this, and the shame of not being able to overcome it. Imagine being able to walk up and talk to ANY woman - anywhere you go with no fear and no rejection...

- What women really want in a man - the exact qualities she's looking for, and how you can demonstrate them so she chooses you above all other guys...

- How to escalate with women from the first kiss to physical intimacy, with no fear of being "shut down..."

Stop falling into the "friends ONLY" bucket with women. There's nothing more frustrating than taking a woman out and having her tell you she "just wants to be friends." Find out how you can turn your female 'friend' into something much more sexual...

His strategies and techniques for building bulletproof confidence with women, as well as getting guys the women they want, have made thousands of guys into overnight successes in dating and "seduction." Since 2002, he's been on ABC & CBS television, not to mention Playboy and Maxim radio, and many other magazines and radio appearances.

Carlos Xuma - renowned dating and "pickup artist" guru - guides you step-by-step, no matter what your age, your income, or your looks. Carlos teaches you the Art of Alpha Attraction with women that most men will never discover.

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  • Print Length: 93 pages
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  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B0078XDUEK
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14 of 16 people found the following review helpful
Format:Kindle Edition
Somehow this came up when I was looking for something to take out of the Kindle Lending Library this month - I usually don't go for short e-books, but I figured that with such a suggestive cover and an author named Carlos Xuma I couldn't possibly go wrong! A lot of the advice in here is pretty standard and will be familiar to anyone who's ever typed "how to meet girls" into a search engine (and, let's face it, that's a lot of us!) - though there is certainly some value in reviewing some of that advice in one place. Just to give a little taste of the types of things Carlos suggests, he encourages "Alpha Males" (yes, seriously, Alpha Males!) to try making small talk with service workers when shopping or eating out just to get comfortable with flirting and joining a gym. Not earth-shattering guidance, but perhaps useful to hear again for those of us who are really shy. He has a suggested timeline for how quickly one should advance to touching and sex that strikes me as quite aggressive, but, then again, I've been stuck in the beta-male friends zone repeatedly over the last few years. Oh, yeah, and one more thing - beware that a sales pitch for Carlos' Alpha Male Lifestyle system and accompanying e-books and coaching services is woven into this book. While I don't see myself shelling out any cash to Mr. Xuma to seek "Alpha," there were a few reasonable-sounding ideas in here that I'll try to incorporate into my search for someone to make life a bit less lonely; it definitely wasn't a waste of this month's Kindle freebie. Good luck to everyone else out there still searching!
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars Pretty Cheaply put together May 29, 2013
Format:Kindle Edition|Verified Purchase
If you have investigated the study of attraction at all this book has some of the main points covered. I didn't find anything new here or explained in any better style that can be found browsing online.
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4 of 5 people found the following review helpful
1.0 out of 5 stars too theoretical and passive September 19, 2013
Format:Kindle Edition
too theoretical and passive, besides, Xuma is a decently good looking guy and I made a point to myself to learn only from guys who are average looking or below average looking. Think about it, good looking guys are at an advantage. It's not the end all, but it is an advantage. Just like money. Don't believe the American crap stating that 'money and looks don't matter', because if you believe that, you are delusional. Money don't matter, yeah, if you are still 16 years old and you didn't grow up yet. I suggest you to check out Bang by Roosh V instead.

Xuma is good but not about how to bang. He's really good in his other programs like 'secrets of the alpha men'. So don't make the mistake to think that you have nothing to learn from him just because THIS book on HIS game might not be aggressive enough, because you'd make a bad mistake. His best products are about how to be a man in general. And they are REALLY good. The first book I read from him was 'the black dating book' and I still like it. It's more aggressive than this book here.
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4 of 5 people found the following review helpful
2.0 out of 5 stars Boring February 11, 2013
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I just bought it and read about 40%.
It is a nice recap of what the game is about. If you've never heard of such a thing before, you would most likely learn a bit of useful stuff. Otherwise...
Well, it is only three bucks, and in 10 minutes you can figure out yourself if it's useful or not.
Read Mark Manson's Models to see what a great book on this topic is like.
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars SMS December 13, 2013
By sms
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Interesting read. More philosophical and psychological than what I had hoped for. I'm going to try and use the advice he sets out, even though I feel some of it to be a bit convoluted.
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3.0 out of 5 stars round and round June 1, 2014
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Not on point for beginners are useful. but remember this is a introduction for the more complex program have fun
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3.0 out of 5 stars good but not very comprehensive April 3, 2014
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A lot of great ideas and guide line bit the material is still very not organized as a whole in my opinion.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Well written February 23, 2014
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Well written and well organized, I recommend this book anyone who wants to improve his game and want to understand women.
I would have given this boob 5 stars but it should have reviewed before publishing because a whole section was repeated which I believe a mistake.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
3.0 out of 5 stars Decent book
The author makes some good points in this book. I especially liked his ideas about having the right frame of mind and getting rid of limiting beliefs. Read more
Published 4 months ago by Bob Cobb
4.0 out of 5 stars law of attraction
it gives some go advice an tries to instill honesty for men in the romance game. Women should read it too, challenging their knowledge of men.
Published 17 months ago by Amazon Customer
4.0 out of 5 stars It is good for the money
Definitive you have to buy other books about how to speak in public and to strangers and also how to be funny too, he gave advise of how to approach women but you need more tools... Read more
Published 17 months ago by M. Moreira
5.0 out of 5 stars My Husband Seduced Me With This And I LOVE It
To all guys out there - (from a woman): You need to hear what Carlos Xuma has for you...

I'm a loving, inquisitive, very sensual wife - and I think the dating and... Read more
Published 19 months ago by Luv Lotus
5.0 out of 5 stars Meeting the Right Girl is Easier Than You Think
When I read Funny Pick Up Lines: Hilarious Ways to Boost Your Dating Skills I thought that I had read the only decent book about ways for a man to get a woman. Read more
Published 20 months ago by Sam
5.0 out of 5 stars Good for the most part.
The book was good. It is much better than some other books I have read on the same subject. The author presents some concrete theories and a solid foundation. Read more
Published 20 months ago by Rollin Moore
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More About the Author

Carlos Xuma is a dating and attraction adviser, as well as a black belt martial arts instructor and motivational life counselor. He's the author of The Girlfriend Training Program, Secrets of the Alpha Man, the Bad Boy Formula, and many more.  

Carlos' programs show you exactly how to attract women - quickly and easily. By understanding the successful traits of an attractive and masculine man, you will attract more women, achieve more success with your career and financial goals, and live a more rewarding life. 

His approach is called R.E.A.L. Game™, a system he's been teaching for the last 10 years with his programs and seminars, and he shows you how to use your authentic personality to attract the opposite sex, and make enhance your entire LIFESTYLE - to see and feel the Big Picture of attraction and success in social dynamics.

Live The Alpha Lifestyle - Unleash your masculine confidence to meet any woman, create lasting attraction, and get everything you deserve as a man...

Carlos Xuma has appeared on/in:

Playboy Magazine & Playboy Radio
CBS & ABC television
FHM Magazine
Neil Strauss' Stylelife
Maxim Magazine & Maxim Radio
David DeAngelo's Dating Gurus
The Allen Handelman "Rock Talk" Radio Show
WorldTalk Radio
Summum Magazine

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