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How Tough Could It Be?: The Trials and Errors of a Sportswriter Turned Stay-at-Home Dad [Paperback]

Austin Murphy (Author)
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May 3, 2004
A father takes a break from every guy's dream gig-covering football (and the odd swimsuit shoot) for Sports Illustrated-to give it a go as Mr. Mom, in this hilarious and heartfelt book

After nineteen years as a writer for Sports Illustrated, Austin Murphy should have had it made. Instead, he'd had it-with measuring his life by hotel rooms and Heisman stories, with members of his church assuming that his wife, Laura, was a single mother. With each missed birthday and recital, he became more convinced that he was missing out on his kids' lives.
So he decided to trade in his current job for a new one: Laura's. Once an ambitous young journalist, Laura's career had slowed when she went on the mommy track. Now, with a "wife" of her own, she would be able to write full time, while he could be present for more Kodak moments.
Alas, the man charged with preparing three nutritious meals a day had never mastered his own outdoor grill. Sublimely ignorant of everything from grocery shopping to housecleaning to the need to trim his children's nails more than, say, semi-annually, Murphy embarked on his journey much as Shackleton took on the Antarctic: spectacularly ill-equipped to survive it. Between the lice checks, the spring break trip to Las Vegas, and the chairmanship of the Lower Brookside Elementary Variety Show, there were bound to be casualties.
Lively, poignant, and laugh-out-loud funny, How Tough Could It Be? is the story of one man's decision to reorder his life around things that really matter and of his adventures (and misadventures) along the way.


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Murphy (The Sweet Season) has been a Sports Illustrated staffer since 1984, covering everything from football and swimsuits to the Tour de France and the Olympics. Unfortunately, while globe-hopping and meeting deadlines, he was missing key events in the lives of his young children. A six-month sabbatical enabled him to explore a new, unfamiliar lifestyle as a Marin County Mr. Mom, while his wife "flung herself into her long-neglected writing career." Murphy soon found himself donning oven mitts, picking up dry cleaning, buying toothpaste and tampons, housecleaning, slicing onions (and fingers), carpooling to the elementary school and folding laundry. Despite pointers from his wife, meals remained a challenge: "There is homework enforcement and, if I'm on the ball, the preparing of tomorrow's lunches while cooking tonight's dinner." Skilled at capturing human interest details, Murphy writes in a fluid, anecdotal manner, displaying a sensitivity and homey humor that will be equally appreciated by men and women. Female readers will smile with satisfaction as Murphy attempts anger management while confronting "unpaid work to which there is no end." Asked how "the Experiment" is going, he compares it "to entering the ring with the unseen adversary. I never know where the next blow will come from." At the end of the six months, Murphy realizes he's "now equipped to be a bigger help for the remainder of our days together.... If I am not, like Thomas, a 'very useful engine,' I am at least a more useful engine than I was."
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Murphy, a senior writer for Sports Illustrated, has a way-cool gig, covering all the major sports, but he decided to take a six-month sabbatical as a stay-at-home dad while his wife pursued her career, also as a writer. The result is hardly a surprise: Murphy learns that domestic engineering is a tough job and that mixing love with discipline is even tougher. There are the usual comic set pieces involving off-to-school chaos and terrible dinners, but somehow Murphy keeps it fresh with self-deprecating humor, a genuine desire to connect with his kids on a higher plane than middle-aged playmate, and a crisp style that incorporates some of the absurdist sensibilities of Dave Barry. Despite Murphy's Sports Illustrated connection, the target audience here is the off-the-sports-page crowd. Don't be surprised if Murphy turns up on The View singing the praises of enlightened parenthood. Wes Lukowsky
Copyright © American Library Association. All rights reserved

Product Details

  • Paperback: 256 pages
  • Publisher: Henry Holt and Co.; First Edition edition (May 3, 2004)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0805074805
  • ISBN-13: 978-0805074802
  • Product Dimensions: 9.3 x 6.5 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 1.1 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (13 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,803,157 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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7 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars I guess it IS tough!, May 3, 2004
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This review is from: How Tough Could It Be?: The Trials and Errors of a Sportswriter Turned Stay-at-Home Dad (Paperback)
I zipped through this book in just two days because I just had to see if he figured it out! He did and all I could think was, my husband must read this book!

I laughed throughout the whole book, his perceptions on stay-at-home parenthood and his easy writing style made for a great read.

As a stay-at-home mom, I appreciated knowing that there was at least one other person in the world who couldn't quite fall in love with house-cleaning and laundry, even though they're high on our "job description" list.

Now I want to read his Sports Illustrated articles..if I can find time between the laundry and the dinner-making!

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5.0 out of 5 stars This book improved my marriage!, August 16, 2005
This review is from: How Tough Could It Be?: The Trials and Errors of a Sportswriter Turned Stay-at-Home Dad (Paperback)
I LOVED this book and have given it to many as a baby gift or just because gift. It really helped me see that I was over achieving in the household and my husband was underachieving. After we both read this book, we had a heart to heart that was much lighter and productive than the vent session I'd rehearsed for weeks prior. It really helped me lighten up and helped my husband see he needed to step up to the plate. Highly recommend.
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars much funnier than I expected, May 18, 2004
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This sounded pretty predictable and I expected sitcom humor, maybe a few laughs but familiar ones. But Murphy (whose work you may know from SI) is much better than that. He's wry without being too sarcastic, and he's never mean-spirited. He's a likeable narrator and this is a surprisingly sharp and funny book. A great father's day gift.
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