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I Married My Mother-In-Law [Hardcover]

Ilena SIlverman (Author)
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January 5, 2006
In the tradition of The Bitch in the House, a provocative anthology of original essays about one of life's most complicated relationships.

In-laws are the family members you inherit when you choose your spouse. They're the unavoidable human baggage attached to the person you love. It's a relationship that can be traumatic, harrowing, maddening, and hilarious-sometimes all at once.

In I Married My Mother-in-law and Other Tales of In-laws We Can't Live With-and Can't Live Without, Ilena Silverman brings together seventeen writers who plumb their individual in-law experiences for extraordinary and unexpected wisdom about this uninvited and intense relationship. We hear from a variety of writers, including Michael Chabon, who writes movingly about what he learned from his ex-wife's father; Kathryn Harrison, whose relationship with her father-in-law was more rewarding and less complicated than the one she had with her own father; Martha McPhee, who explores the role that money plays in the in-law dynamic; Susan Straight, who recounts her experience as the first white woman who married into her husband's African-American family; and Ayelet Waldman, who ponders the competition between wives and mothers for the attention of their husbands/sons.

By turns blunt and poignant, horrifying and touching, these essays are small mirrors that reflect some of the myriad aspects of this bewildering and complex relationship. Remarkable for both the quality of its prose and the scope of its emotional insight, I Married My Mother-in-law is an unforgettable anthology about an inescapable family relationship.

Contributors:

Matt Bai
Amy Bloom
Michael Chabon
Ta-Nehisi Coates
Anthony Giardina
Jonathan Goldstein
Colin Harrison
Kathryn Harrison
Barbara Jones
Tom Junod
Karen Karbo
Martha McPhee
Peter Richmond
Dani Shapiro
Darcey Steinke
Susan Straight
Ayelet Waldman


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In spite of its funny title and occasional humor, this anthology of in-law stories is quite serious. For every gleeful in-law basher (e.g., Ayelet Waldman, acknowledging what a bad mother-in-law she intends to be; and Amy Bloom, cheerfully explaining why she hates her partner's parents), there's a strong representation of in-law lovers. There's Martha McPhee, who wishes hers hadn't died before she'd known them; Peter Richmond, who came to know his wife better by knowing her mother; and Barbara Jones, who realized her tyrannical father-in-law regretted his poor parenting and was actually a devoted grandfather. For many, having in-laws from another culture—Jewish, Japanese, African-American—is unexpectedly rewarding. In-laws often don't respect boundaries, but sometimes they're beloved precisely because they're emotional and overinvolved—people can be attracted to the parents they never had. Indeed, some in-laws become dear in spite of the trouble they cause, as in Colin Harrison's luminous account of caring for wife Kathryn's grandmother. While there's a lot of death in this collection—people seem to experience in-laws mostly in their passing—there's wit, wisdom and great writing, too. (Jan.)
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About the Author

Ilena Silverman is a story editor at The New York Times Magazine. She worked previously at GQ and Harper's magazines and is the co-editor of What Counts: The Complete Harper's Index.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 320 pages
  • Publisher: Riverhead Hardcover; First Edition edition (January 5, 2006)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1594489092
  • ISBN-13: 978-1594489099
  • Product Dimensions: 8.1 x 5.1 x 1.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 14.1 ounces
  • Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,622,621 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

 

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7 of 9 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Even if you don't have in-laws...BUY THIS BOOK!, January 6, 2006
This review is from: I Married My Mother-In-Law (Hardcover)
I picked up this anthology yesterday and I was unable to stop until Tom Junod's last sentence. Those final words "...of becoming something like her son" read a little smeary because I was crying, for the tenth or eleventh time, not even stopping to wipe the tears away. I can't begin to tell you how captivating, moving, illuminating--all those blurb words that seem so inadequate-this book was. I felt as if I had been invited to a dinner party where the host suggested a parlor game that at first seems frivolous, but as each guest tells their story, grows increasingly poignant, serious and epic. Brilliant, absolutely brilliant.
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3 of 4 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Great stories- ignore stupid title- this is great writing, March 9, 2006
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What a terrific compilation. Great writing, great stories. Moving, touching, teaching stories. Thank you to these authors who shared their lives, their thoughts and feelings.

Only thing I didn't like is the title. Can't believe they couldn't come up with a better one to capture the essence of this book, these people's stories.

Love or hate your in-laws, doesn't matter- this book is for you.
It might make you call up your mother-in-law! :)
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I don't remember my mother-in-law's exact words to me the day I met her for the first time on the beach, nearly a quarter of a century ago. Read the first page
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