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I'll be Home Soon: How to Prevent and Treat Separation Anxiety. [Kindle Edition]

Patricia B. McConnell Ph.D.
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Book Description

This booklet explains the difference between dogs who truly have separation anxiety and those that merely misbehave. Written by Patricia McConnell, it describes a dog behavior modification program for the prevention and treatment of both problems. A treasure chest of ideas for keeping your dog happy in your absence, this booklet can help prevent and treat both minor and severe dog problems related to dogs being " home alone." Clear and understandable, this easy to read booklet is written for anyone who wants to leave the house knowing that their dog is happy and their house is safe.

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"This little booklet saved both my life and the life of my Weimaraner, Misty. Misty's separation anxiety was so serious that she went through a glass window, badly lacerating herself in the process." --Sharon Stern and Misty the Weimaraner

About the Author

Patricia McConnell, Ph.D., CAAB is an Ethologist and Certified Applied Animal Behaviorist who has consulted with cat and dog lovers for over twenty years. She combines a thorough understanding of the science of behavior with years of practical, applied experience. Her nationally syndicated radio show, Calling All Pets, played in over 110 cities for fourteen years. She is the behavior columnist for The Bark magazine ( the New Yorker of Dog Magazines ) and a Consulting Editor for the Journal of Comparative Psychology. She is Adjunct Associate Professor in Zoology at the University of Wisconsin-Madison, teaching "The Biology and Philosophy of Human/Animal Relationships." Dr. McConnell is a much sought after speaker and seminar presenter, speaking to training organizations, veterinary conferences, academic meetings and animal shelters around the world about dog and cat behavior, and on science-based and humane solutions to serious behavioral problems. She is the author of ten books on training and behavioral problems, as well as the critically acclaimed books The Other End of the Leash: Why We Do What We Do Around Dogs, For the Love of a Dog: Understanding Emotion in You and Your Best Friend and Tales of Two Species.

Product Details

  • File Size: 640 KB
  • Print Length: 38 pages
  • Publisher: McConnell Publishing, Ltd.; 1st edition (June 1, 2000)
  • Sold by: Amazon Digital Services, Inc.
  • Language: English
  • ASIN: B001CSLJR2
  • Text-to-Speech: Enabled
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  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #29,921 Paid in Kindle Store (See Top 100 Paid in Kindle Store)
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93 of 93 people found the following review helpful
My new puppy didn't have a full-blown case of SA. But she barked incessantly everytime I left her alone in the house, which needless to say drove the neighbors nuts. By following the techniques in this book, I was able to replace the habit of barking with the habit of chewing on a specific treat - a kong filled with peanut butter in her case - so that now she actually looks forward to my leaving the house. It wasn't a change that happened over night. It took about a month to train her, but it was well worth it. The advice in this book is incredible, but it does require patience, especially if your dog is already displaying behavioral problems (such as chewing on things in the house or barking).
I think this book is helpful for anyone who has guilty feelings when leaving their dog alone. Whether your dog has behavoiral problems or not, this book can give you advice on how to turn your daily departure from the house into a positive experience.
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69 of 70 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Useful only for certain populations March 6, 2009
Format:Paperback|Verified Purchase
It pains me to give anything by Patricia McConnell less than 5 stars. However, after adopting my beagle mix, who turned out to have strong separation anxiety, this little volume was not immediately useful for my situation.

Key to this program is the ability to leave your dog with someone (or leave someone with your dog :) while working in the tiniest increments imaginable to desensitize (and perhaps counter-condition) your dog to your absence. Both leaving my dog with human company and counter-conditioning her (given her fear was so extreme she would not think of eating) did not work out for me. Thanks to the Web, I was able to find advice better suited to my circumstance. When I had no choice but to leave her for longer periods, I used one location. When I was actively working with her, I used a different location. I also implemented an "independence" program of rewarding any voluntary efforts on my dog's part to be somewhere other than glued to me.

Later, when with the help of medication her frantic state lessened, I did actually include most of the suggestions in this book in our program. After 6 months, we were able to wean off the meds. She still doesn't enjoy seeing me go, and she is still confined to limit her powers of destruction (I give her acceptable outlets for her "need to shred") but together we have survived one of the hardest trials in doggiedom.

I do agree that the level of detail in this book is exceptional, as is the section on deciding whether your dog has SA, or other issues. But you may still need to shop around for additional advice to fit your needs.
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52 of 52 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Effective! Intentionally short. March 13, 2006
Patricia McConnell knows how little time many of us have which is why she makes this series of books only 30 or so pages long. She is direct and to the point to solve your training problem without lots of fluff and cute little dog stories. When we have a dog training issue very few of us have time to read a novel on how to solve it. I for one want to cut to the chase and start solving the problem right away. The methods used in this book are clear and easy to apply and they work. My dog has stopped destructive chewing when I'm away and is clearly much happier. Thank you Ms. McConnell (oh and Daisy my APBT thanks you too) A few reviewers gave these books a low rating because they are short. Amazon clearly indicates how many pages this book has and it's priced accordingly.
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37 of 40 people found the following review helpful
This is a good start if your dog has mild Separation Anxiety. This gives you the first few things that you can try and gives you a good understanding about Separation Anxiety. If you try everything in this book and it does not help your situation, try the book "The Dog That Loved Too Much" and see your vet.
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19 of 19 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Finally helped with separation anxiety in my shelter pup December 31, 2011
By aciras
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I adopted a pit-mix from a shelter who had a SEVERE case of separation anxiety. All pitties love people (despite popular ignorance), but my girl literally could NOT be without people. Didn't matter who it was, she just couldn't be alone (even with another dog present). I was at my witts end after mutiple classes, training sessions, and very unhappy neighbors. This book finally turned the corner with helping me understand what was going on. I bought it at 3:00am one night in a panic off Amazon (with overnight shipping). It was easy to read and very helpful. It taught me what true separation anxiety was, and what it was not. I had a case of true separation anxiety. I would highly recommend this book. Below are my personal best tips below on separation anxiety and how we overcame it together (I now have the best, sweetest doggie ever!). These are in the book as well. BUY IT - it will help you, and you need the full background and ALL tips to understand what will work best for your dog (this is just what turned the corner for us).

1. Make your comings and goings uneventful and routine. Commit to practicing leaving the house for intervals of 5, 10, 30, 60 SECONDS (yes, that's right, seconds) until you are working up to 2 hours successfully. The research is right - if you can get up to 2 hours successfully alone, you are on your way.
2. Give your pup extra special treats when you are leaving the house. Frozen kong stuffed with salmon treats and banana, and a hollowed out bone filled with wet dog food and frozen worked well for us. She only gets this when I leave the house and we finally have the reaction the research said to look for - "they will be happy for you to leave because they know they are getting their special treat". This only works for food motivated dogs however.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Very Helpful
A great pamphlet chock full of good information. Easy to read and understand with easy to implement tips to help you and your dog.
Published 4 days ago by Jamhead70
5.0 out of 5 stars Very informative book
I own a number of Dr. McConnell's books because they are written informatively but easy for the layman to understand. And always with humor as well.
Published 15 days ago by B. Howering
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book
Patricia McConnel out does herself again! Very informative in understanding our role in what we believe is separation anxiety in our dogs and how we can change patterns in creating... Read more
Published 1 month ago by Robin
5.0 out of 5 stars Great advice
A friend of mine who is vet requested I read this book when I was at my wits end. I rescued a three year old lab who suffers from severe separation anxiety. Read more
Published 1 month ago by bernadette aguero
5.0 out of 5 stars Great book for Dog Trainers!
As a dog trainer I love to have these in case I come across a situation where these smaller books are relevant. Read more
Published 1 month ago by Cadie Hamilton
5.0 out of 5 stars One of the best
This author is well-respected and this book shows you why-- she deftly describes how to help your pet overcome their fear of separation and heal your relationship with them. Read more
Published 1 month ago by indygirl1991
5.0 out of 5 stars Glad I read this book
I learned my dog does not have separation anxiety. Now we're working on helping him not chew up our stuff.
Published 2 months ago by NanaDew
5.0 out of 5 stars separation anxiety
I bought this book because we adopted an older dog that marks in the house when we are not home. I found it very helpful to read about things I can do to help him feel more... Read more
Published 2 months ago by Amazon Customer
4.0 out of 5 stars good/ book
A lot of good information. I have an Aussie who can not be alone. I'm following the steps in the book, but haven't progressed very far yet
Published 3 months ago by Becky Smith
5.0 out of 5 stars Good stuff
Patricia always hits the mark with her writing about animal behavior and how we humans can learn to interact with them in a way that enhances each one's life.
Published 3 months ago by begentle
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Patricia McConnell, Ph.D., is an Adjunct Assistant Professor of Zoology at the University of Wisconsin-Madison and an expert applied animal behaviorist. Her company, Dog's Best Friend, Ltd., specializes in family dog-training and treating aggression in dogs, and she is an immensely popular speaker around the country. She is the co-host of Calling All Pets, an animal behavior advice show syndicated to a hundred public radio stations, and works daily with four dogs (three border collies and a Great Pyrenees) on her sheep farm outside of Madison. Her Web site is

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