Impotence Solutions for the Married Man [Hardcover]

Donald L. McCarty (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: August 2000

Since the advent of the sexual revolution in the 1960s and 1970s, sex is no longer a subject of taboo. Just about every television show and song on the radio is filled with sexual innuendo and suggestive remarks. Times have changed so significantly in the last fifty years that even topics such as homosexuality and STD’s are discussed over dinner. However, some topics still cause people to blush, one of the most prominent being impotence. In Impotence and Prostate Solutions by Donald L. McCarty, impotence is examined from a recovering patient’s perspective in hopes that men who suffer from it may know that they are not alone in their plight.

McCarty is a prostate cancer survivor who remembers how difficult it was to ask the right questions and find easy-to-understand literature concerning impotency and prostate problems. Thus, he is releasing a book which covers all aspects of impotency from what it is and why it occurs to what can be done about it. He cites the importance of proper prostate treatment so prostate problems will not lead to erectile dysfunction. Each chapter is devoted to a specific problem, or stage, of impotency. For instance, one chapter deals with the several degrees of impotence that range from absolute impotence, which is being unable to achieve or maintain an erection, to priapism where the erection will not subside. Women, especially wives of men with erectile dysfunction, will find this book extremely useful as well, as it helps explain not only how to deal with their spouses’ physical problems, but also how to help their men cope mentally and emotionally.

Impotence and Prostate Solutions is a must-read for men and women who are involved with prostate or impotency problems. McCarty’s relaxed and reassuring tone assures the reader that impotency does not mean the end of one’s sex life or marriage. He emphasizes the importance of couples working together and realizing that intimacy can still be achieved. McCarty’s personal experiences and vast research make this a legitimate and interesting read, and hopefully one that will lead to a more fulfilling life.

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About the Author

Donald L. McCarty has had a variety of jobs from service in the U.S. Navy to a Designer, Design Engineer, and Human Factors Engineer for major companies, including NASA, Ford, and Vickers, and heading his own law office. Putting his brilliant mind to use after being treated for prostate cancer, McCarty received a patent and has patents pending for several medical therapeutic devices for the treatment of impotence. When not working, he enjoys flying and horseback riding. He currently resides in San Diego, California with his wife, Beverly.

Product Details

• Hardcover: 158 pages
• Publisher: Pentland Press (NC); 1 edition (August 2000)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 1571972145
• ISBN-13: 978-1571972149
• Product Dimensions: 8.8 x 5.7 x 0.8 inches
• Shipping Weight: 13.4 ounces
• Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (2 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #4,180,866 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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4 of 5 people found the following review helpful:

5.0 out of 5 stars Knowledge Is Power, September 26, 2000

By A Customer

This review is from: Impotence Solutions for the Married Man (Hardcover)

Impotence & Prostate Solutions, by Donald L. McCarty,J.D., was very informative, and the information found in it is just what my marriage needed.

My husband has been impotent for some time, and it was not a good thing for my husbands ego. In fact, it was very difficult for him to accept impotence, after his prostate surgery. It put a strain on our otherwise good marriage.

It wasn't until he read this book that he realized that other men have suffered what he has been going through, and have acquired new ways to satisfy their wives sexually. Impotent men worry that their wives will not be able to be sexually satisfied and that they might look elsewhere. This book is just what my husband needed. It answered many questions that he had, and made him realize that there is hope, and that we can have sexual intimacy again. Using the techniques outlined in the book my husband has been able to develop his self-esteem once again, with the knowledge that he can fulfill my sexual desires. In fact, he is enjoying the sexual techniques that the book outlines, and said that he is enjoying sex once more. The techniques that the book suggests that the wife do to enhance her husbands sexual arousal are some things that my husband really enjoys. And I have discovered that I enjoy doing those things for him and to him, and wish I would have tried them earlier in our marriage.

The information that the author gives, as a cancer survivor, concerning the care of the prostate and the questions to ask the doctor, as well as the different options available for treatment are some that would have helped my husband in a very tramatic and difficult time. I could have used the information too to have more knowledge in being a part of the decision making process.

This book is a must read for every man and woman. Information is given that can help men to better understand the prostate and its functions, and possibly assist them in avoiding prostate problems with better care. I'm happy to say that we have developed a better understanding of the importance of taking time during love-making. We used to rush right through the act. Now, we take more time with our love-making, and explore each other, as suggested in the book. This enhances my sexual feelings and I have been able to have numerous orgasms, something I was not able to achieve prior to reading this book. For this, I am thankful to the author who has taken the time to share with others his experiences in how he changed his attitude about his impotence and used new avenues to bring sexual excitement to his wife, and discovered in the process that it was very sexually stimulating to him too.

The chapter on sexual techniques should be read by everyone who desires a deep sexual intimacy with their partner. It never hurts to fine-tune ones sexual skills, and to learn and try new things. In fact, it is just down right exhilarating and a real boost to ones sexual heights. Read the book, try the techniques, and you will discover, as we did, that love-making can bring hours of joy, and keep you falling more inlove everyday. Good Luck!

1 of 1 people found the following review helpful:

4.0 out of 5 stars Great, May 31, 2006

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Bob Thomson - See all my reviews

This review is from: Impotence Solutions for the Married Man (Hardcover)

This book helps men accept their situation and gives advice about how to please their women in other ways. It is a useful book for the both parts because it teaches how to handle a man with impotence issues without hurting his self esteem. Man with impotence problems tend to be more sensible at some remarks and need to accept that impotence is a common illness among many men around the world. If you want to help your man and solve his problem about impotence I recommend this book "Natural Penis Enlargement: New Methods of Avoiding and Curing Impotence, Premature Ejaculation, and Erectile Dysfunction Safely and Inexpensively. New ... No Pumps, No Pills and No Gadgets! Vol. 2" by Platinum Millennium, a book which will probably make him very happy and giving him hope again.