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In the Meantime: The Practice of Proactive Waiting [Kindle Edition]

Rob Brendle
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Book Description

You’re young? Check.
You’ve felt God’s tap on the shoulder, like he’s got something for you to do with your life? Right.
But you’re not exactly sure what it is, or how to get there? Exactly.
If that’s you, then here’s a great guide to help you find your way to whatever it is God has for you in life.
You may be surprised to learn that a very famous person in the Bible found himself in a similar place. David was just watching some sheep, but God made it clear he was destined to do something a bit more meaningful and important–David was going to be king. As a young man he had to learn how to “live into” his calling–become like a king before ever putting on the crown.
You probably won’t be joining the royal family any time soon. But you can still learn a lot about life–your life, your destiny–by taking a good look at David’s life.
David had a dream and caught a glimpse of his purpose. He just didn’t know how to realize it, how to live until he did, and how to wait for it proactively. Maybe that’s you, too. In this amusing, amazing, and very surprising guidebook, Rob Brendle can help you get there from here.

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Editorial Reviews

From Publishers Weekly

Brendle, associate pastor at an evangelical megachurch in Colorado Springs, Colo., aims his first book at 20- and 30-somethings who are in limbo: they may be called by God to be pastors, or gardeners, or parents, but they need more time to mature before taking the next step. Brendle's book is about living faithfully in the time between the call and its fulfillment. Too often, he says, we are tempted to "manhandle" God's plans for us or forget about our call because it seems to take too long to play out. Brendle urges us instead to follow the lead of the biblical David, who was anointed by Samuel, but then had to wait on the Lord until his calling was fulfilled. The life stage to which Brendle draws our attention is important, but the book is flawed. Many readers may not have experienced the same kind of clear call that Brendle presupposes and experienced himself in his career and marriage decisions. Brendle may also one day regret lines like "Okay, wow. That was heavy. I need to take a deep breath now because I'm fired up and the veins in my neck are bulging a bit." Perhaps he could have followed his own advice and let this book coalesce a little longer. (Dec.)
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Praise for In the Meantime

"This timely and dynamic message has everything you need to transition successfully from one season to the next in your life. The book’s frank style will position, then equip and empower you. Rob Brendle is brilliant, fun, and witty. He is a man who has moved wisely within his years. Read In the Meantime...and reap."

--John and Lisa Bevere, speakers and authors of Drawing Near and Kissed the Girls and Made Them Cry 

“Finally, a guide to help us do what most of us do so poorly, wait!  Insightful, practical, and truly witty, Rob Brendle pens the heartfelt path from God's calling until God's fulfillment of His call.  Bravo!” 
–Douglas Weiss, Ph.D, Executive Director of Heart to Heart Counseling Center

“Rob Brendle’s book is an important contribution for young people who are confused about the pursuit of God’s will for their life, and also a great reminder for the not-so-young who need to continue on the journey with the Author who writes all of our stories for His grand plan. Rob has a gift for writing in a both humorous and down-to-earth style, and he clearly is one who is living his calling.”   
–Ed Young, Senior Pastor of Fellowship Church, Grapevine, Texas, author of YOU! The Journey to the Center of Your Worth

“A young pastor brimming with zeal and wise beyond his years, Rob Brendle conveys a fine combination of Christian insight and earthly good sense in this stimulating, enjoyable book.”
–Dinesh D'Souza, author of What’s So Great About America, Hoover Institution, Stanford University

From the Trade Paperback edition.

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  • File Size: 882 KB
  • Print Length: 240 pages
  • Publisher: WaterBrook Press (May 27, 2010)
  • Sold by: Random House LLC
  • Language: English
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4 of 5 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Do you wait well? December 13, 2005
Do you know anyone who waits well? It's hard to find good role models in the fast food line let alone life. All of us have reason to believe there's something great hidden away in our innermost being. We can feel it when we have to do repetitive tasks, mundane chores or make decisions that seem to lead nowhere day after day. Rob Brendle encourages readers to take a close look at the life of King David. Suddenly called in one day from the field as a teenager to be anointed king then forced to continue to shepherd for several more years would have made most of us write aggressive rap music rather than worship psalms. King David knew how to cultivate a lifestyle in the secret place while waiting on the Lord. This is the key that you will place in the hands of readers when you give them this book.
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4 of 5 people found the following review helpful
Rob Brendle's definition and discussion of proactive waiting helps illuminate the misconception that waiting means inactivity. Utilizing well painted word pictures and quoting authors like Steven Covey or Jedi masters like Obi-Wan Kenobi, he describes proactive waiting in such a way that challenges the audience to truly absorb the moment, live life to the fullest, and train for the defining moment when life can move into a

"new season." It should be required reading for the twenty to thirtysomething crowd, especially those looking to make the leap of change (college, career, or otherwise), but haven't stepped onto the springboard yet. Listen to the Tank Commander turned Pastor, and be prepared to be entertained as you learn!
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6 of 8 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars In the meantime... December 20, 2005
By T. Sun
Rob Brendle, a unique blend of former tank commander and pastor, writes with characteristic humor, vulnerability and insight as he answers the question, "What do we do while we wait to fulfill God's calling in our lives?" First, he advises us what not to do, charging ahead of the Caller for example. He suggests that the process is the calling, "the walk of obedience through the seasons of life," and describes the process as submitting, training, serving, and losing our lives. Brendle includes a valuable discussion on the idea of preemptive holiness, fleeing temptation and resisting the devil, rather than fleeing the devil and resisting temptation, and our two sources of power, the Word of God and an intimate friendship with God. Spoken with the wisdom of someone who has gone before, this book is a recommended read for anyone wanting to know what to do in the meantime when God calls.
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6 of 8 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Start for a Talented Young Author January 17, 2006
This is the first book of hopefully many from this young Associate Pastor of New Life Church in Colorado Springs, Co. The writer blends the narrative of the life of King David with his personal life experiences, resulting in a guide on how to live out one's specific calling. Rob fills the book with his energy, wit, wisdom, and biblical insight, along with his personal relationship with his Lord and Creator.

While the book's main focus is how to live out God's personal and specific calling, the principles set forth are invaluable for those navigating the general calling of God. Regardless of the reader's life circumstances, the principles in this book will help them to live life well.

It is my sincere hope that this is the first of many writings from this gifted and talented young man, and look forward to the next book.
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6 of 8 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars A gyrovague in the desert February 2, 2006
So, you have looked at your life and asked yourself "What is the big picture" or you are saying "I know the big picture so beam me up Scotty". But, nothing is happening. You are frustrated and ready to tear your hair out. Relax, you are in your prime time with God.

This book has the humor, and the guts, to show you how to discern God's heart for your life and how to relax and work into your calling with God.

Rob utilizes personal experience, biblical stories, and theology to weave an intricate story about his life, which by the way, probably looks a lot like your life to.

I suggest reading the book, then buying a dozen for your friends.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Learn Godly principles before emerging into your destiny November 30, 2012
Waiting. Not a topic of popularity these days but in God's economy it is an essential step toward actually advancing. God is smart and has devised a plan for our lives but author Rob Brendle wants us to know that our time ought to be spent more in pursuit of our relationship with Him than chasing after the dream.
In response to God's declaration over his life, he has believed that as we live into the answers and see the plan unfold that our true substance emerges. As you allow this book to encourage you during your time of waiting you will discover three paradigms- some of which you may already identify with- that people live by as they wait for the fulfillment of God's calling for them.
*A man handler will run ahead of God's timing and directive and end up having to reap the consequences.
*Waiting fifteen minutes then forgetting is a term that means losing hope quickly if things don't come to pass and then believing it was not meant to be.
*Super-spiritualizing leads to talk and prayer but is void of essential action due to underlining fear.
A lesson from David's life on submission cements the concept that God placed authority over our lives and that as we submit we shield ourselves from the enemy and are then able to enter into our calling. It is in being faithful in small things that God's bigger picture unveils. "But when we subordinate them[dreams], lay them aside- die to our heart's dreams and lose our lives for Christ- then our dreams advance."
We are to guard Scripture and "make it our single greatest source of delight." Brendle believes we should long for the secret place with God- an abiding friendship that David had, that can propel us out of obscurity and into His Divine favor.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars There are few things that I dislike more and struggle with than...
This book is worth every penny. There are few things that I dislike more and struggle with than waiting. Read more
Published 8 months ago by CeeBee
5.0 out of 5 stars incredible book!
I have never seen this subject put quite like this. How to wait on God in a proactive way. I felt as though I highlighted 90% of the book. Lol. Read more
Published 24 months ago by S. Hill
5.0 out of 5 stars Why Everyone Should Read this Book
I truely believe in the teaching of this book. I believe that everyone alive should read it. Rob Brendle's teachings about the "practice of proactive waiting" are not only... Read more
Published on June 18, 2006 by Cara N. Vecchiarelli
4.0 out of 5 stars Valuable and interesting
What do you do after the Lord has called you to be his special worker? Go off half cocked? Forget the whole thing? Become so bemused you just stand there, achieving nothing? Read more
Published on April 27, 2006 by Christian Book Previews
5.0 out of 5 stars Awesome! This book will save you so much frustration
Rob Brendle uses some imaginative and insightful stories to clearly demonstrate what we all feel when spoken to by God, how to deal with calling he gives us, and how to confidently... Read more
Published on March 7, 2006 by Daniel Webb
5.0 out of 5 stars A Life Examined that Helps Us Live Better
With exceptional maturity, grace and humor, Rob opens his heart to us and helps us all understand how to live life better. He is living an examined life... Read more
Published on January 11, 2006 by Justin Spicer
5.0 out of 5 stars ....BEEN WAITING FOR THIS BOOK!
Thank You Rob Brendle.

What a great title and humorous insight found inside the pages of this debut. You will smirk, you will laugh and you will be challenged. Read more
Published on January 7, 2006 by Don Pape
5.0 out of 5 stars Success in tackling a difficult life issue
Rob Brendle does excellent work in tackling a difficult life issue: "the art of waiting". Through humorous stories, his own personal life challenges, and solid exegesis, Rob sheds... Read more
Published on December 22, 2005 by G. Winters
5.0 out of 5 stars It Just Makes Sense!
While reading this book I had many "ok, that makes sense" moments. It was through the personal stories from Rob's life

(by the way Rob, loved the "Flag Boy" story) and... Read more
Published on December 21, 2005 by Carlyles4js
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