Inside Transracial Adoption [Hardcover]

Gail Steinberg (Author), Beth Hall (Author)

Book Description

Publication Date: November 2000 | ISBN-10: 0944934242 | ISBN-13: 978-0944934241 | Edition: Fifth or Later Edition

Inside Transracial Adoption provides creative, confident and pro-active guidance on how to build close, loving, and very real families consisting of individuals who are proud and culturally competent members of differing races.

Drawing on research and personal experience, Steinberg and Hall offer detailed, step-by-step, get-real guidance for families about tough issues they have to face relating to race and adoption in domestic or international transracial adoptions: What's "normal?" Where do we live and go to school? Does class have an influence? How do children develop racial identity? What kind of impact does being raised by white parents have on a black child?

Combining humor with empathy and hard truths, this book is an established classic guide to living Inside Transracial Adoption. It is essential reading for parents and the people who support them: whether considering transracial adoption for the first time or experienced veterans.

--This text refers to an alternate Hardcover edition.

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About the Author

Gail Steinberg is the adoptive mom of four grown daughters and sons: Shira Beth Gale is Korean and America Indian, Liza Anya Triggs is African American, Jeremy Ben Steinberg is African American and white, and Seth Ari Steinberg is white. She lives in San Anselmo, California, with her husband. Gail and Beth Hall are founders and co-directors of Pact, An Adoption Alliance - an organization dedicated to providing adoption services to children of color.

Beth Hall is the adoptive mom of Sofia Hall Gallagher who is Latina, and James Hall Gallagher who is African American. She grew up a member of an adoptive family and lives in Oakland, California, with her husband and children. Gail Steinberg and Beth are founders and co-directors of Pact, An Adoption Alliance - an organization dedicated to providing adoption services to children of color. --This text refers to an alternate Hardcover edition.

Product Details

• Hardcover: 405 pages
• Publisher: Perspectives Pr; Fifth or Later Edition edition (November 2000)
• Language: English
• ISBN-10: 0944934242
• ISBN-13: 978-0944934241
• Product Dimensions: 9.2 x 6.4 x 1.2 inches
• Shipping Weight: 1.6 pounds
• Average Customer Review: 3.6 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (20 customer reviews)
• Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #796,200 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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66 of 72 people found the following review helpful

2.0 out of 5 stars Know what you're getting into May 16, 2002

By Myke Predko

Format:Hardcover

I've just finished slogging through this book and I was very disappointed in it as it is tagged as the best book on "transracial" adoption available. The book is really very narrow and I found it almost totally useless in my wife's and my situation (we are adopting a child from Haiti). Looking at some of the other reviews, it appears that we weren't alone.

The book is the result of two families' experiences with adopting non-white children and their attempts at integrating them into their families. What comes through loud and clear in the book is that the author's were expecting that the children would come out perfectly because they were loved and wanted. The parents seemed to be very insulated from modern society and reluctant (or unable?) to talk to people of their childrens' cultures.

As a step parent to two partially South Asian boys already, I was appalled at the reactive nature of the families in the book rather than looking ahead and being prepared for developmental stages and cultural/race problems. I would have had a lot more confidence in it (and the authors) if they had explained what they had done to prepare for problems to sail through them as comfortably as possible (from both their perspectives as well as their children's).

The book is painfully white middle-America with virtually no discussion of living in a multi-cultural city. It repeats a lot of information that can be found and explained better in other child-rearing books. For my wife and I (who live in a large very multi-cultural city and already have children), we found the material on Black hair care to be the most useful part of the book.

Having said all this, "Inside Transracial Adoption" is probably the best book available on the subject. This is unfortunate because I do not believe that it is anywhere as good as it should be.

Before buying a copy, I suggest that you sit down with it and make sure that it is appropriate for your situation and family. Otherwise you'll end up like I did, skimming through the book looking for something that made me feel like I was justified in buying it.

30 of 33 people found the following review helpful

5.0 out of 5 stars Race does matter October 29, 2001

By A Customer

Format:Hardcover

When we started our family by adopting our son, we were very naive about the racial issue of being African-American in the U.S. We, both white, thought that raising our African-American child multi-culturally would be the answer. Then we read this book. It opened our eyes to the reality of being of color in this country. If our son was raised by us on an island without anyone else, things would be different. But here we are, in the U.S., barely a generation away from Jim Crow laws. This book gives useful tools and knowledge to be realistic about parenting a child of color. But the most important message of this book is: transracial adoptive parents are pioneers and we share a respect for difference and an appreciation for diversity that are models for all people and all communities.

It does not discourage people from adopting transracially, on the contrary. It gives you a reality check on what is ahead.

I do understand that some people might be offended by this book. To fully appreciate this book you have to be aware of your white privileges. Only then can you appreciate the clarity and honesty of both authors.

I have since then met the 2 authors. They are truly impressive and models for our society.

35 of 42 people found the following review helpful

1.0 out of 5 stars Negative, Overgeneralized, Poorly Written November 28, 2004

By K.S.

Format:Hardcover|Amazon Verified Purchase

I only read through the first third of the book before I had to give up on it. Often the authors overgeneralize - they take a statement made to them by one person of color and then say that all people of color feel the same way. That's not only counterproductive, it borders on perpetuating racism.

They have a very negative mindset that I find to be discouraging. My husband and I are considering transracial adoption of an older child; if I continue to read this book, I am certain they would talk me out of it.

Plus, I find this book to be very poorly written. It lacks any coherent organization. This book is in desperate need of an editor. Even if you agree with their approach to the issues, the typos, poor grammar and lack of structure will certainly make it difficult to follow their thought process. Unless James Joyce's stream of consciousness writing style is appealing to you, you will not enjoy the way the authors jump topics every other paragraph.

There are much better books dealing with these issues available. The only redeeming quality of this book is the quotes from children and adults who were raised in multiracial families.