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Intimate Allies: Rediscovering God's Design for Marriage and Becoming Soul Mates for Life [Paperback]

Dan B. Allender , Tremper Longman Iii
3.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (25 customer reviews)

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Book Description

March 1, 1999
In Intimate Allies, counselor Dan Allender and theologian Tremper Longman III merge their minds and skills to strip away cultural expectations and takes a fresh look at God's design for the marriage relationship. The authors focus on five foundations taken from Genesis 1-3 and include an extensive review of other biblical passages on marriage. Each section begins with a real-life story concerning an unresolved marriage issue and concludes with the same story built on the "foundation" of a godly marriage. With eloquence and wisdom, Intimate Allies will challenge readers to move their marriages out of the mundane and into the fulfilling and enriching experiences God intended.

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Product Details

  • Paperback: 400 pages
  • Publisher: Tyndale House Publishers, Inc. (March 1, 1999)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0842318240
  • ISBN-13: 978-0842318242
  • Product Dimensions: 5.8 x 1 x 8.3 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 15.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.7 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (25 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #71,517 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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Dr. Dan Allender received his MDiv from Westminster Theological Seminary and his PhD in counseling psychology from Michigan State University.

Dan taught in the biblical counseling department of Grace Theological Seminary for seven years (1983-1989). From 1989-1997 he worked as a professor in the Master of Arts in biblical counseling program at Colorado Christian University, Denver, Colorado. Currently, Dan serves as president and professor of counseling at Mars Hill Graduate School in Bothell, Washington.

He travels and speaks extensively to present his unique perspective on sexual abuse recovery, love and forgiveness, worship, and other related topics. He is the author of "The Wounded Heart" (NavPress), "The Healing Path," and "How Children Raise Parents" (Waterbrook Press) and has coauthored four books with Dr. Tremper Longman, III--"Intimate Allies" (Tyndale House Publishers), "The Cry of the Soul" (NavPress), "Bold Love" (NavPress), and "Bold Purpose," (Tyndale House Publishers). He and his wife, Rebecca, live in the Puget Sound area with their three children, Annie, Amanda, and Andrew.

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Filled with insight and practical wisdom. J. Sorenson  |  3 reviewers made a similar statement
There is indeed way too much padding in this book. J. C Clark  |  1 reviewer made a similar statement
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39 of 42 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Intimate Allies March 24, 2000
Format:Paperback
This Book is powerful and dissruptive. If you are afraid of looking at your own heart and motives, stay away. If you are looking for easy behavioral steps, don't read it. On the other hand, if you want to make your HEART available to the mysterious work of God in deeply changing you, by all means, this book is for you. The illustrations and stories paint pictures that will impact and disturb you, if your heart is open.
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22 of 23 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars A lot of good marital insight for any couple August 4, 2003
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Format:Paperback
I found as I read, laughed and cried with this book that I identified with many of the characters and scenarios. I appreciate Dr. Allender and Dr. Longman's styles as they are honest and up front about the culture, soul and text. They are not hiding behind Christian propaganda in this book but are nothing short of real. 3/4 into the book you have the idea of the script, but overall it is a very good text I have recommended to several couples.
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28 of 32 people found the following review helpful
3.0 out of 5 stars Hmm..it seems you either love this or hate it December 20, 2001
By Hanna
Format:Paperback
I thought it was worthwhile, I do see what others mean when they mention that there are only a few key truths, buried under lots of words...but those truths are good ones. I confess, I skipped right to the last chapters, and no, it doesn't give "answers" on how to solve problems, but it helped me to see my heart more clearly, and how I have contributed to our problems. I have read a few books by Allender & Longman, and it is a somewhat awkward arrangement (having 2 authors with pretty different styles). But if you can overlook the faults, this is an insightful book.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars Let the goodtimes role
This is a fantastic book which has helped my wife and I find common vocabulary to issues that arise in our marriage. Read more
Published 2 months ago by tshenk
5.0 out of 5 stars Dan Allender..
always goes to the bone. He refuses to leave us in our shallow waters and comfort zones. It's always about the heart.
Published 3 months ago by Denise
5.0 out of 5 stars Great Book!
I love the author and the book. This was a required reading for a Relationships class in college, but I love it and kept it.
Published 4 months ago by COgirl23
4.0 out of 5 stars intimate allies
The Book arrived in awesome time and in great shape. It is an Excellent resource. would deal with this company again. Thanks
Published 9 months ago by John E. Hartle
5.0 out of 5 stars God's design for Marriage
Excellent reading for those that want to strengthen and rebuild their Marriage God's way.
Shows how to become friends and soul mates for life and the blueprint for Marriage. Read more
Published 14 months ago by Edwin Miller
5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing Book!!
This is an amazing book I would highly recommend for everyone, married, engaged, wanting to be married, and even single. Read more
Published 17 months ago by Heather
4.0 out of 5 stars Author exposure...higher price
Amazon raised the price for this book to $10.08....one week ago it WAS $8.48, but Dan Allender was on Focus on the Family, and now they're feelin' greedy.
Published 18 months ago by C. layton
5.0 out of 5 stars Amazing
This book has been amazing so far. My Boyfriend are reading it together, and eventhough we aren't married YET it is already helping us with everything from communication to loving... Read more
Published 21 months ago by cheligurl
1.0 out of 5 stars Sorry to say....a disaster!
This book was recommended to my wife and me by a Christian counselor when we sought counseling to strenghthen our marriage before adopting two teenage daughters from Ukraine. Read more
Published on December 29, 2009 by Jfred
1.0 out of 5 stars Encourages Negative Behavior - Not Recommended
Comparing this book with similar books, such as "Boundaries in Marriage" by Dr. Henry Cloud as well as "Creating an Intimate Marriage" by Jim Burns, I was sorely disappointed in... Read more
Published on June 6, 2009 by Beth Hatch
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