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Intimate Behaviour: A Zoologist's Classic Study of Human Intimacy [Paperback]

Desmond Morris
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August 14, 1997
Twenty-five years after it first caused a splash in the scientific and literary worlds, Intimate Behavior is still one of the best chronicles of human intimacy. With a masterful and entertaining eye, Desmond Morris, bestselling author of The Naked Ape and The Human Zoo, analyzes the roots of human intimacy, from the handshake through the twelve stages that people pass through on their way to the total sexual embrace. Morris contends that the months just before and after birth are when the seeds of intimacy are planted and are critical to development. From the loving attention of the mother, the child learns and responds with intimate gestures of his or her own. He argues that human adults follow certain patterns of intimate behaviour that are based on these infant experiences for their entire lives. In addition to sexual intimacy, Morris discussed social intimacy, intimacy substitutes, object intimacy, and self-intimacy. Complete with a new preface by the author, Intimate Behavior is a provocative view of humans need to touch and to be touched, to love and to be loved. At a crucial moment, a gentle embrace can still do more good than a thousand earnest discussions. Despite all our social and technological advances, the primeval body language of love still remains the most potent force we have for the expression of feelings of comfort and caring. Desmond Morris, from his new Preface

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"Morris helps us to take a new look at ourselves." -Chicago Tribune


"[An] excellent accounts." -Alex Comfort, author of The Joy of Sex


From the Author

"At a crucial moment, a gentle embrace can still do more good than a thousand earnest discussions. Despite all our social and technological advances, the primeval body language of love still remains the most potent force we have for the expression of feelings of comfort and caring."—Desmond Morris, from his new Preface

Product Details

  • Paperback: 272 pages
  • Publisher: Kodansha Globe (August 14, 1997)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 1568361637
  • ISBN-13: 978-1568361635
  • Product Dimensions: 8.4 x 5.7 x 0.7 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 8.8 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (11 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #635,653 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Desmond Morris was born in 1928. Educated at Birmingham and Oxford universities, he became the Curator of Mammals at London Zoo in 1959, a post he held for eight years.

In 1967 he published The Naked Ape which has sold over 10 million copies worldwide and has changed the way we view our own species forever.

An accomplished artist, TV presenter, film maker and writer, Desmond Morris's books have been published in over thirty-six countries.

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37 of 38 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Sweet Science September 15, 2000
Format:Paperback
If science is regarded as a dry and boring matter Dr. Morris' Intimate Behavior comes to prove it wrong. In this delightful book the scientist states that "man is a social animal and the ordinary healthy human being finds prolonged isolation a severe punishment.

According to Dr. Morris the very beginning of our lives is replete with intimacy in our contact with our mother. After a brief while our quest for independence launches us toward the unknown world. If this urge for independence and exploration is the base for the development of human society it also weights heavily on the individual that loses the so needed intimacy. During puberty when the young couples start to form the intimacy returns and with it there's usually a certain return to infancy. That's when young adults cuddle each other and call each other babies usually using high pitch voices.

Dr. Morris warns us about the crescent overcrowding found on the "Human Zoo", the modern megalopolis. The overcrowding creates a high level of stress that helps to separate people. This creates a positive feedback link: elevated stress level reduces intimate contact that in turn increases the stress.

This 19971 book although covering fast changing subjects like human behavior and human evolution is still surprisingly up to date. As in his other books Dr. Morris presents the topics based in precise scientific propositions backed by his observations, historical analysis and by the painstaking study of over 10,000 magazine and newspaper pictures.

This book is a must read for everyone interested in human behavior. You will be surprised to learn why do we do the things we do. Other fantastic books by Dr. Morris include the revolutionary "The naked Ape", the "Human Zoo" and the recent "The Human Animal" that accompanies the TV series and summarizes his work.

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15 of 16 people found the following review helpful
4.0 out of 5 stars Great Read but where did Sigmund Freud come from? July 14, 2001
By "ztoth"
Format:Paperback
Although the book dates back several decades, with only a short updated prologue, the subject ,human intimacy, does not lend itself to change as quickly as technology or medicine therefore the information and opinions are still valid today. Desmond Morris captivated me with his zoological perspective on human behavior, viewing us as we are, animals; but with social restrictions and norms that artificially restrain our natural urge for intimacy.

I found it a fascinating read but found the last few sections not in line with his zoology background but rather from a ridiculous psychoanalytic perspective. This perspective is not based on scientific fact or reason but formulated by Freud from unrecorded observations that he recounted by memory of case studies he had saw. Having Desmond Morris try and convince me that I indulge in the occassional cigar, which represents a "super nipple", as a substitute for intimacy that I recieved as a child made me crack up rather than stop and reflect on his brilliance. This type of opinion seems to me out of Zoology's domain.

I rather enjoyed the sections concerning parental, sexual, and social behaviour as they were told from a zoological perspective, while the later sections had the sour flavour of Sigmond Freud. I do recommend this book to anyone interested in the behavioural sciences particularly in the ways we touch and do not touch each other. So dont be scared to 'touch' this book and become 'intimate' with its pages as you will learn much from it.

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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Understand The Human Animal Intimately..Read This Book. December 11, 1997
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Format:Paperback
Dr. Morris has written his most important document inside the pages of this book. It seems as if he matured after writing "The Naked Ape" and decided to condense all of the important points in his masterpiece and make it quick informative reading as "intimate Behaviour". When it was written, Morris was the head Zoologist at the London Zoo. His understanding of the human animal will answer all of the "why?" questions that your parents couldn't answer. This book should be mandatory high school reading and if it were so, speaking would be at a minimum and body language and gesturing would reign supreme.
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3.0 out of 5 stars NEVER BUY THROUGH I-PARCEL
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An old book dealing with a contemporary, old problem. Morris gives easy to understand observations that each reader can relate to one moves through this book. Read more
Published on September 28, 2009 by Charles A. Bledsoe
5.0 out of 5 stars Anthrology view of Us
I like the writings of Desmond Morris because he takes the discipline of a scientist and applies it to looking at us. Read more
Published on March 23, 2008 by William Bagley
5.0 out of 5 stars Extraordinary
I am new to Morris' general work but I am thourougly impressed. So far I have read this book and The Naked Ape. Read more
Published on June 19, 2007 by Marcus Abundis
4.0 out of 5 stars Intimate Behavior
I also enjoy reading books by Desmond Morris. This book was very interesting and provided several unexpected insights into animal testing and into child rearing. Read more
Published on October 22, 2005 by M. Pulliam
5.0 out of 5 stars Another universal classic by Desmond Morris !
Dr. Morris has written another marvelous book that clearly elucidates the intimate behavior of the human animal. It is delightful, interesting and informative. Read more
Published on April 15, 2005 by Rev4u
5.0 out of 5 stars A masterpiece in the study of man
Morris uses his same method of detachment and logic as that found in The Naked Ape and creates a modern guide to understanding the intimate behavior of the human animal. Read more
Published on June 25, 1999
4.0 out of 5 stars Superb, an excellent reading for all people.
There are so many things we take for granted, including care for our children and each other. We would spend thousands of dollars on training, learning, and loving our pets but we... Read more
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