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19 of 21 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
A history of everything, November 27, 2001
I find it difficult to praise this book enough. It is definitely not just a book about history--it is more a book about philosophy and the human condition. I could say that this is a book about everything--or rather everything that deals with being human.Even though it certainly is not a chronological story of human events, it examines many of the aspects of intrapersonal and interpersonal behavior we take for granted every day. He states himself, "But this book is not a summary of history: it has deliberately limited itself to finding lock that look as though they will not open, and to showing how they can be opened." The author, Theodore Zeldin, raises the question of what freedom really is, the history of conversation, loneliness, sex, dating, religion, and much more. He has interviewed people from all over the world to find commonalities and differences in the way we lead our lives. I think this is the kind of book that everyone can relate to and must be somewhat interested in as long as one cares about the human condition. As the author states himself, "This book has tried to show how great a difference to the conduct of daily life the ability to alter the focus of one's perceptions can make. To be hospitable to the nuances of life, it is no use treating the mind as an automatic camera; only by composing one's picture and playing with light and shadow can one hope to see something interesting." This book is in the end optimistic and Zeldin believes that humanity is merely at the beginnings of worldwide hospitality and sharing and understanding of ideas. Personally, this is the kind of reading I particularly enjoy--a compelling work that gets you thinking, a work which raises as many questions as it answers. However, it is also an extremely well researched work (as evidenced by the notes at the end of each chapter) with all kinds of fascinating information on the side. He provides a comparison of different attitudes and philosophies of different cultures. It is like reading a book about behind the scenes of history. Instead of tracing the history of things like kings and battles, he traces the history behind more intangible concepts like the concept of romantic love and contentment. Overall, I cannot begin to describe the entire work here, nor do I feel obliged to. I would highly recommend that you read this book yourself to fully understand everything it is about. In case you are interested, here is a listing of the chapters: 1. How humans have repeatedly lost hope, and how new encounters, and a new pair of spectacles, revive them 2. How men and women have slowly learned to have interesting conversations 3. How people searching for their roots are only beginning to look far and deep enough 4. How some people have acquired an immunity to loneliness 5. How new forms of love have been invented 6. Why there has been more progress in cooking than in sex 7. How the desire that men feel for women, and for other men, has altered through the centuries 8. How respect has become more desirable than power 9. How those who want neither to give orders nor to receive them can become intermediaries 10. How people have freed themselves from fear by finding new fears 11. How curiosity has become the key to freedom 12. Why it has become increasingly difficult to destroy one's enemies 13. How the art of escaping from one's troubles has developed, but not the art of knowing where to escape to 14. Why compassion has flowered even in stony ground 15. Why toleration has never been enough 16. Why even the privileged are often somewhat gloomy about life, even when they can have anything the consumer society offers, and even after sexual liberation 17. How travellers are becoming the largest nation in the world, and how they have learned not to see only what they are looking for 18. Why friendship between men and women has become so fragile 19. How even astrologers resist their destiny 20. Why people have not been able to find the time to lead several lives 21. Why fathers and their children are changing their minds about what they want from each other 22. Why the crisis in the family is only one stage in the evolution of generosity 23. How people choose a way of life, and how it does not wholly satisfy them 24. How humans become hospitable to each other 25. What becomes possible when soul-mates meet
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