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11 of 13 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Just Excellent..., September 19, 2000
This review is from: Iron Shoes: A Novel (Hardcover)
Here we have a 40-ish female whose life seems perfectly nice. Married, nice part-time job, friends and family, lives in a beautiful part of the country, cute little boy, saucy empowering best friend. Look closer: marriage going downhill fast, job about to be eliminated, and her parents!!! Hag-ridden by a truly monstrous, alcoholic, sharp-as-a-razor mother - but the mother is dying, and the mother is deeply loved. She has her faults, but she is your mother. Remote, sarcastic, alcoholic father - but the father is also deeply loved. Who doesn't want the love and approval of Daddy? Born-again, weak, bible thumping brother - but you can't hate him, he came from the same place you did! Uncommunicative, secretive husband, downing health potions, distancing himself more every day - well, some things you may be unable to fix. Sounds awful, but Ms. Giles makes all of this both hilarious and tragic. You will laugh and you will cry. There are tons of stories about women and their midlife crises out there (including the paragon, "Diary of a Mad Housewife"), and as the midlife crisis is a perennial subject, many of the stories have a sameness to them. Worries about growing older, about a failing marriage, thoughts of having an affair to affirm that you are still attractive and desirable, and the looming realization that parents are not going to be here all that much longer. The looming realization that you can, yes, you can grow stronger and take charge of your own life and for once make yourself happy. Facing the death and decline of your parents, no matter how lousy they were - they are dear to you and no matter how old you are, you want their love and approval as much as when you were six years old. Ms. Giles takes all of these elements of the same old story and writes beautifully, making it a joy to read. You have to shake your head at our frazzled heroine, tell her to grow up, to get a grip, at the same time you want to hug her. Hey, it's easy to sneer at this middle aged child-woman, but she spent her whole life with two monsters and she can't just change overnight. But there are definite signs of hope at the end of this book, and you cheer for her. As in many stories of this type, the setting is in an upper middle class town: money is no problem, at least for the parents, which may make the heroine's life easier. She doesn't have to worry about Medicare or Meals on Wheels or home aides - the dying mother is draped in mink and diamonds and there is a loyal, hard working housekeeper pitching in. But death and dying is never easy, especially when there's so much you want to hear, or say, and time is running out. I just loved this book, it is very well done of its type, it has dark humor , bitterness, despair, anguish, wit, and hope. I finished Iron Shoes this morning and put it aside genuinely sorry to see it end.
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8 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars
Iron Shoes Slow the Pace,and Stunt Character Growth, January 4, 2001
This review is from: Iron Shoes: A Novel (Hardcover)
Molly Giles is an excellent SHORT story writer , and after reading her previous story collections ( Rough Translations and Creek Walk), I really looked forward to this first novel. WRONG. Iron Shoes is a s-t-r-e-c-h-e-d out short story and should be, at most,a short novel within a short story collection. The pace is slow, like a snails ,or even slower at times. I question the need for the inclusion of some characters ,who just take up space on the page , and are not needed for the thin storyline. Kay Sorenson,age 40,has problems...most that have been around for a long long time such as her prissy second husband,not interested father,and lack of self-worth ( OH MY ,we could see this coming)as manifested in a tiny job,tiny house, and tiny life driven by unresolved guilt, unwarrented fear and the need for,in my opinion , a kick-start to the rear. Ida, her Drama Queen mother, is the reason I kept reading this book. I wanted to know about what outrageous , self-centered (but with true DQ style ) thing she would say or do next.Ida was the only character with ( some irony here)some LIFE in her! Kay needs to GROW UP, and I felt cheated that it took 239 pages for her to take a few toddler's steps toward this goal. Get Molly Giles short story collections--- even in hardback , but I would advise waiting for the paperback of Iron Shoes, if you are still determined to read it!
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Wow, July 30, 2001
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When I first started reading this book, I thought, oh, my, these people are all a mess! Some of the ridicule and constantly demeaning situations Kay, the main character, tollerates, are just over the top. However, she tugs at your heart because she is obviously a big, messy, loving woman whose big heartedness is taken for granted by all around her. She drinks too much, smokes too much, and does too much, but who wouldn't with a family like this? When she finally begins to take ahold of her life, kicks the awful husband out and stops drinking, you know that she is on the road to discovery. Nothing momentous, but something profound. The author says that this is a comedy about alcoholism and dying, but it is not. There are sharply funny moments, but this is not a funny book.
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