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If It's A Choice, My Zygote Chose Balls: Making Sense of Senseless Controversy [Paperback]

Jeremy Hooper
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May 29, 2012

Jeremy Hooper's Good As You website (www.GoodAsYou.org) is known for blending passion and wit, making the case for LGBT equality worldwide. In If It’s a Choice, My Zygote Chose Balls: Making Sense of Senseless Controversy, Jeremy continues that style, blending a unique mix of memoir and social commentary that argues for equal rights based on relatable human principles.

Hooper leads readers through his own life story, revealing the positive and unnecessarily encumbered aspects of growing up gay in contemporary society. The noted author and activist writes in a sometimes humorous, sometimes serious, but always sharply informed style, opening a window into the realities of family rejection and acceptance. Whether offering direct guidance for would-be straight allies or sharing the inner monologue of a boy who knew who he was long before early adulthood would allow him to own it, Hooper provides a wealth of insight and argument to push the equality conversation forward.

“From constant talk about marriage to the popular parlor game ‘Which celebrity is gay?’ our world is, in many ways, obsessed with LGBT topics,” says Hooper. “However, there is serious neglect in terms of actually tackling the issues at hand. I want to address the weighty topics head on, but in a relatable way.”

As someone who spends ten to twelve daily hours slogging through the "culture war" for his celebrated website, Jeremy Hooper knows better than anyone how far the LGBT community still has to go in order to obtain full equality. At the same time, his focused lens had led him to believe that some of the usual LGBT activism has isolated the fight and stories, leaving much of the continued struggle to go unrealized by the population at large. So Hooper's answer is to present relatable tales that are just as proactive in changing hearts and minds as any textbook gay rights treatment, but doing so in a package that pops with universal heart and wit. Hooper calls out the B.S. for what it is, while keeping an equal focus on uniting folks from all walks of life for the common causes of peace, equality, acceptance, and, ironically enough–family values. All of this while remembering to keep his tongue in or around the cheek region.

Written to engage and entertain, as well as inspire further discussion and action, the book is aimed at a wide range of readers interested and open to learning.


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About the Author

Since founding Good As You (www.GoodAsYou.org) in 2005, Jeremy Hooper has garnered a reputation as a fresh voice in the worlds of Internet publishing and activism. With a background geared both towards entertainment and advocacy, he approaches LGBT issues with a showman’s spirit, pointing out perceived wrongdoings and follies with the clever exuberance of a seasoned jester. Both Hooper and his website have been profiled in the gay and lesbian newsmagazine The Advocate, featured on the PBS program In the Life, on the Logo network, on Sirius radio, and across every corner of the web. As a sought-after consultant, strategist, and speaker, he has worked with leading national organizations like the Human Rights Campaign and GLAAD. Originally from Nashville, TN, the author now lives on the West Side of Manhattan with his husband, Andrew, and the couple’s unbelievably adorable dog, Bosley.

Product Details

  • Paperback: 238 pages
  • Publisher: Good As You; 1st edition (May 29, 2012)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0615574548
  • ISBN-13: 978-0615574547
  • Product Dimensions: 9 x 6 x 0.6 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 14.1 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 4.8 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (46 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #822,287 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

More About the Author

Since founding Good As You in 2005, Jeremy Hooper has garnered a reputation as a fresh voice in the worlds of Internet publishing and activism. With a background geared both towards entertainment and advocacy, he approaches LGBT issues with a showman's spirit, pointing out perceived wrongdoings and follies with the clever exuberance of a seasoned jester. Both Hooper and his website have been profiled in the gay and lesbian newsmagazine The Advocate, featured on the PBS program In the Life, on the Logo network, on Sirius radio, and across every corner of the web. As a sought-after consultant, strategist, and speaker, he has worked with leading national organizations like the Human Rights Campaign and GLAAD. Originally from Nashville, TN, the author now lives on the West Side of Manhattan with his husband, Andrew, and the couple's unbelievably adorable dog, Bosley.

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5 stars
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4.8 out of 5 stars
In his book, If It's A Choice, Jeremy openly and honestly tells his story. B. Gerhardt  |  23 reviewers made a similar statement
Of course I was going to read this book (I have read it twice so far). Susan Shulman  |  23 reviewers made a similar statement
He knows he is loved. MarcoD  |  14 reviewers made a similar statement
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40 of 41 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Mom of a gay son and son-in-law June 10, 2012
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Of course I was going to read this book (I have read it twice so far). Jeremy is my son-in-law and I have a gay son. My first read left me in awe of Jeremy's amazing use of language while presenting a poignant and clear portrait of the gay rights movement. I was a little nervous reading it for the first time, not only for fear of finding typos (that I knew would annoy the heck out of my perfectionist son-in-law), but worried if I would follow it all or maybe find out something that Jeremy felt that I didn't know how to handle. I made it through, laughing and crying and knowing that this is a wonderful book.

The second read gave me much more. Free of the burdens of looking for typos or scary secrets, I enjoyed the read as a book in which the author is advocating decency for everyone; whether it be for the gay man or lesbian woman or the teenager who is bullied on the playground or the African American or Jew who is subtly kept out of some loop.

This book is a must read for human beings who want to learn, laugh, and feel in touch with the goodness that all humans can and should feel and hopefully demonstrate.

Susan Shulman
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22 of 22 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Ari C. June 5, 2012
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The book was an amazing read and I couldn't put it down. It was well written, funny, emotional and provided an important and logical perspective on this issue. Great job and 5 stars must read.
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15 of 15 people found the following review helpful
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I cannot remember exactly how or when I first came across Jeremy Hooper's blog Good As You; perhaps through a link from the Advocate or Human Rights Campaign or just the trusty old Google. What I can tell you is that it is a rare day that I don't visit his site at least once to read up on the latest slings and arrows that have been tossed in this current culture war. Jeremy's writing coupled with his investigative skills have provided a unique, reasoned and calming voice in the battle for full equality.

But who is this young man who has taken on the anti-gay pundits, whom he refers to as `mo foes, with both wit and reason? In his book, If It's A Choice, Jeremy openly and honestly tells his story. I, who am only 5 years his senior, found that his coming out process was very similar to my own. The awareness, the implications, the fear of discovery, the hiding; these were all what Jeremy, myself, and indeed hundreds of LGBT youth went through and are currently going through. While the steps might be different for some, and not always as humorous, what comes through to the reader is that this is an honest story and it could very easily be your story too.

Through the clever use of chapters taken as an aside to the main story, the "Despite what you may have heard" sections are Jeremy's clever way of confronting LGBT stereotypes with his caustic wit, humor and open honesty. After all, when it comes to the stereotypes who are you going to believe, the anti-gay fear mongers or those of us who are actually LGBT?

Several years ago, I was talking with my Dad about some comments made by the Church in response to marriage equality and homosexuality; I was furious at the hypocrisy in light of the scandal the Church was involved in. "Who were they," I argued, "to make such comments about sin and immoral behavior when all this had been going on for years!" My Dad's response was simply "You know, in my day, these discussions wouldn't have even been possible. Think about how far things have come in such a short amount of time." As with most things, my Dad was right. The discussions and progress made in the fight for full equality have been, not in small steps, but in leaps and bounds thanks to people like Jeremy Hooper standing at the forefront showing everyone that we are all as Good As You.
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5.0 out of 5 stars An entertaining read about the gay-rights movement and the author's...
Jeremy Hooper's blog, Good As You, is a must-read for anybody keeping up with the rapidly-advancing movement for LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender) equality, presenting... Read more
Published 21 days ago by Daniel R. Tobias
5.0 out of 5 stars As much a memoir as a call to arms.
I received this book through a Goodreads giveaway. Being a supporter of marriage equality and gay rights, I enjoyed reading "If It's a Choice..." greatly. Read more
Published 29 days ago by Brenda Coffman
5.0 out of 5 stars This is a must read for everyone!
I consider myself lucky to have won this book in a Good Reads giveaway. I loved this book! Jeremy was able to join humor and common sense in this wonderful book! Read more
Published 1 month ago by Teresa E Scardecchio
5.0 out of 5 stars A great book!
Jeremy Hooper has written a very honest, deeply personal account of growing up gay and facing the sometimes painful consequences of life. Life as a gay person and life in general. Read more
Published 1 month ago by MarcoD
5.0 out of 5 stars Thoughtful and compelling
One thing we've long known is that the more people get to know LGBT people, the more disposed they are to support equal rights. Read more
Published 1 month ago by John Corvino
5.0 out of 5 stars A Fresh Look at LGBT Life with Humor and Love
Jeremy Hooper has given us a fresh perspective on the growing up gay and finding himself an unlikely activist for the LGBT community. Read more
Published 2 months ago by Peter J. Likus
5.0 out of 5 stars Incredible
"If It's A Choice, My Zygote Chose Balls" is one of the most profound books I have had the pleasure of reading in a very long time. Read more
Published 2 months ago by SD
5.0 out of 5 stars Funny and optimistic even where painful
As a regular Good As You reader, I was expecting this book to be pretty good, but it still surprised me by being better. Read more
Published 2 months ago by John Sergent
3.0 out of 5 stars Unequal results
This book makes good reading for a longish trip, but I must confess I was a little disappointed by it. Read more
Published 2 months ago by J. P. Arroyo
5.0 out of 5 stars Don't let the cover fool you!
I say that with a bit of sarcasm. I actually think the light hearted childish feel of the cover captures Jeremy's hope filled approach to a painful subject very well. Read more
Published 3 months ago by P. Clark
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