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It's Either Her or Me: A Guide to Help a Mom and Her Daughter-in-Law Get Along Paperback


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  • Paperback: 204 pages
  • Publisher: Bantam (March 23, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0553385941
  • ISBN-13: 978-0553385946
  • Product Dimensions: 8 x 5.2 x 0.7 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 7.2 ounces (View shipping rates and policies)
  • Average Customer Review: 3.9 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (7 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #1,310,454 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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“Ellie Slott Fisher tackles the trickiest of all family relationships with wisdom, wit, and laughter.  It's Either Her or Me: A Guide to Help a Mom and Her Daughter-in-Law Get Along offers the practical step-by-step advice both women need to tackle the challenges each must face to forge respectful and affectionate family ties.  This book is a must read for mothers with sons of any age, wives/girlfriends, sisters, and the men themselves. —Leah Klungness, Ph.D., psychologist, co-author of The Complete Single Mother and co-founder of Singlemommyhood.com
 
“This book deals with a topic that is generally given very little attention and yet has enormous significance for the relationships between families and the way people interact. Ellie Fisher has drawn from a wide experience to deal with countless issues and countless contacts. This should be most enjoyable and insightful reading to all of us who deal with the challenges of making life work – particularly when it involves the developing of new and yet quickly important relationships.”  —Herbert Pardes, M.D., CEO, New York-Presbyterian Hospital
 
“An engaging, insightful and psychologically astute take on the triangle between the woman who raised him and the woman who bed and wed him."—Susan Shapiro, author of Five Men Who Broke My Heart and Secrets of a Fix-Up Fanatic
 

About the Author

Ellie Slott Fisher is the author of the critically acclaimed Mom, There’s a Man in the Kitchen and He’s Wearing Your Robe. A veteran journalist, Fisher has written for numerous magazines as well as the anthology Single Woman of a Certain Age. A dating mom herself, she lives in Yardley, Pennsylvania, and has two children.

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4 of 5 people found the following review helpful By Kim T. on April 10, 2010
Format: Paperback
Where was this book ten years ago? I have been dating my boyfriend for nearly 11 years and have always wondered about how I could improve my relationship with his family and vice versa. I will readily admit I have harbored concerns and fears about whether or not I was doing enough or involved enough, and Ellie Fisher's book offers advice and insight that should be seen as common sense for anyone entering a new relationship or looking to improve a current relationship.

Coming from a family of all girls, It's Either Her or Me offers critical insight into what the mothers of sons are thinking when a new woman enters his life. For all the stress and pressure we girlfriends put on ourselves, it was reassuring to learn that this internal struggle is also shared from the mother's perspective. They too need to navigate the fine line between wanting to protect their sons and welcome this new woman in his life. As Fisher points out, rather than walking on eggshells around one another, it is critical that their is communication and respect from both parties. I have learned both his mother and my mother from their difficult experiences with their respective mother-in-laws, whether it was not speaking to one another for years, or learning quickly that your way would always be wrong, that to overcome these issues takes time, effort, communication, and most importantly respect.

While I am still navigating my own relationship road, and before the ring is on the finger, I thought it was important to take the time and effort myself to learn what I could or should be doing differently.
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2 of 3 people found the following review helpful By LGW on May 18, 2010
Format: Paperback
As a mother of two sons...this will be my guide for continuing a great relationship with my children and their future spouses or partners. I really appreciated the summation at the end of each chapter. This will give me easily available information at any time without having to skim through the chapters. I found the book to be an easy read filled with great information....LGW
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2 of 3 people found the following review helpful By L.B. on April 12, 2010
Format: Paperback
A great book! Packed with real-life stories,examples and commentaries that are
poignant, funny and helpful. A great book for mother-in-laws and daughter-in-laws, but also for anyone close to them.
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By hipmama on September 7, 2013
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Helpful & Insightful read. The author definitely focuses on problem solving & trying to create easy solutions to what seem like huge problems (and frankly sometimes they are!). This read tends to focus a lot more from the perspective of the MIL, but it is nonetheless helpful.
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