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It's Not Him, It's You!: How to Take Charge of Your Life and Create the Love and Intimacy You Deserve [Hardcover]

Laura Berman
4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (10 customer reviews)


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Book Description

December 20, 2010
Too many women never achieve the romantic and sexual fulfillment they want and deserve and usually blame their partners for getting it wrong. But what if the problem isn't him? Designed to be both inspirational and achievable, It's Not Him, It's You! helps women break out of bad relationship patterns and achieve lasting romance and sexual satisfaction. Renowned relationship therapist and New York Times bestselling author, Laura Berman helps identify the damaging patterns of thought and behavior that prevent women from finding lasting love. It's Not Him, It's You! shows women how to overcome self-blame and lack of confidence, how to acknowledge bad relationship choices so that they are never repeated, how to feel confident in the bedroom, and how to bring romance and intimacy back into your sex life.


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About the Author

Dr. Laura Berman is a bestselling author and renowned sex therapist, as well as America's leading expert in female sexual health. She is the founder and director of the Berman Center in Chicago. Dr. Berman has appeared in the pages of nearly every major US magazine, including Glamour, Elle, and Ladies' Home Journal, as well as in the New York Times and USA Today. Dr. Berman writes a weekly column for the Chicago Sun-Times and has a daily talk show on Oprah Radio. In winter 2011 Dr. Berman will host a TV talk show on Oprah Winfrey's OWN network.

Product Details

  • Hardcover: 256 pages
  • Publisher: DK Publishing (December 20, 2010)
  • Language: English
  • ISBN-10: 0756671876
  • ISBN-13: 978-0756671877
  • Product Dimensions: 9.6 x 8 x 0.9 inches
  • Shipping Weight: 2 pounds
  • Average Customer Review: 4.3 out of 5 stars  See all reviews (10 customer reviews)
  • Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #195,286 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)

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4.3 out of 5 stars
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7 of 7 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars GREAT BOOK June 26, 2011
Format:Hardcover|Amazon Verified Purchase
I loved this book, and I know other women say Berman's books are too graphic, but I happen to be a "visual woman" and I love them precisely for that, specially because you find there real women, real men and not only young men, but also old men who still look great.

This book will help women to master balance not only in their sexual lives, but also in all other areas of our lives because sexual life is connected with every part of us. I do agree with Dr. Berman when she says that owning your sexual life is so empowering and liberating. If you know and own your sexual life, your sexual power; you can be really happy, really free, really powerful and absolutely 100% sexually satisfied. Having said that, I also think that having a great sexual parter and/or lover really helps alot. This is a book about selfworth, power and balance. We need to respect, love, and appreciate a real strong loving man, but we need to love ourselves even more!!! A must read for every woman!
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4 of 4 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars good book March 23, 2011
By vhw
Format:Hardcover|Amazon Verified Purchase
This is a good book. I learned a lot from it. I would have liked to have known beforehand that it does have sexually explicit photos in it. I was a little surprised by them when leafing thru with my son present. A good self-help book.
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3 of 3 people found the following review helpful
5.0 out of 5 stars Great book May 2, 2011
By Kimmie
Format:Hardcover|Amazon Verified Purchase
This book is for every women who has a open mind and would like to learn about herself. This book will also give you insight about who you really are and how to change some of your behavior patterns. And you will learn to love yourself and life again.
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Most Recent Customer Reviews
5.0 out of 5 stars good book
But I haven't started reading it yet. I have it on my bookshelf ready to go. Can't wait to dive in.
Published 3 months ago by Andrea Wyrick
5.0 out of 5 stars Dr Laura is Wonderful in "It's Not Him, It's You" & all her works.
How surprising to find individuals who object to illustrative photographs in a book trying to give insight and help on intimacy issues which Dr Laura Berman is wonderful at being... Read more
Published 18 months ago by BUYER BEWARY
4.0 out of 5 stars "How to" relationship helper for singles and partnered
The back cover says: "Break out of bad relationship patterns and take control of your love and sex life. Read more
Published on March 31, 2011 by L. Forrest
2.0 out of 5 stars More for single people
I didn't really care for this book. Half was common sense stuff and the other half was for single people, which I am not. Sorry Laura, I adore you but your book, not so much.
Published on March 23, 2011 by katrina
2.0 out of 5 stars Graphic Illustrations
The topic is okay, but many people will not appreciate the very graphic sexual illustrations in this book. Read more
Published on March 5, 2011 by Connie L. Vonsleichter
5.0 out of 5 stars Excellent info for anyone
ABC's for a healthy relationship...thank-you Dr Berman for a well rounded, practical book that will assist many
relationships - glad I got it before Valentines day :)
Published on February 11, 2011 by Lynne
5.0 out of 5 stars Another Winner!
I love this book and I love this author. What guy wouldn't appreciate the title of this book? On a more serious note, she teaches readers how to take full responsibility for... Read more
Published on January 4, 2011 by Sam Chapman
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