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4.0 out of 5 stars
Surprisingly good, August 20, 2009
This review is from: The Johns: Sex for Sale and the Men Who Buy It (Hardcover)
I was a little worried this book might be a little too prurient. It actually turned out to be rather serious, and definitely very hard-hitting.
Unlike most books on prostitution, this one focuses on the other side of the equation - the men who purchase sex. Two things really struck me about these men. One, they seemed to have a lot of anger and resentment toward women, and expressed a real need for control over them. Second, they operate very strongly in denial.
As an example of the latter is the idea that prostitution is a victimless crime. Malarek does a good job pointing out that this is rarely the case - whether talking about children, drug users, abuse victims, trafficking victims, etc.
Being a good journalist, Malarek does provide plenty of stories (right down to trying to purchase some girls in Costa Rica himself), but also provides analysis and a surprising amount of passion too.
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6 of 7 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
Sex and The Men Who Buy it, June 11, 2010
This review is from: The Johns: Sex for Sale and the Men Who Buy It (Hardcover)
That the men who buy sex from trafficked girls are not moral pillars of the community is a shock to absolutely no one. The surprise coming from Malarek's The Johns Sex for Sale and the Men who Buy it is how brazen and unapologetic these men are for their actions. Some are even so diluted in their thought process that they actually believe that they are performing some sort of charitable action by giving a poor girl a miniscule amount of money that will go back to help feed her impoverished family in some third world country, therefore making the men heroes instead of disgusting pigs. Some reviewers have described this book as "man bashing." With all due respect, the men depicted within these pages are the prototypical man who would buy sex--a man who has hidden anger towards women or has been somehow conditioned to believe that women and children are a property to be owned.
I was able to read this book in one day because it read very quickly painting a picture of this angry, insecure, man-creature, discontented with his own life who needs to buy the sex of a stranger to compensate for the failings of himself...or more often in the eyes of the Johns the failings of Western women. I wish that Malarek had balanced his study of the men with more stories of the young women he's met in prostitution and human trafficking, that way maybe it would not have seemed like he was gaining up on the men involved in the global sex trade. Malarek is correct however in pinpointing the men in the link of the global sex trade because without men willing to pay for the sex, the trafficking and exploitation of women would not be so profitable. In any business whether it be legal or illegal the key is profitability, there's a reason why pimps, brothel owners, and gangsters traffic women because there are men willing to pay for sex making it immensely profitable.
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8 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
3.0 out of 5 stars
Interesting, but limited focus, October 24, 2010
I have very mixed feelings about The Johns: Sex for Sale and the Men Who Buy It. On one hand, the author has clearly spent a significant amount of time investigating human trafficking and the abuse of children domestically and abroad, and I applaud his efforts to raise awareness of these tragedies. Unfortunately this makes the title of his book somewhat misleading, as the focus is almost exclusively on the men who subsidize these types of activities as consumers. There are already a number of books that focus on these men (such as Travels in the Skin Trade: Tourism and the Sex Industry by Jeremy Seabrook), so I was hoping that this book would also discuss johns who patronize expensive escorts, legal brothels in Nevada, etc. There are mentions, but they are brief.
The intentions of the author are noble, but by demonizing all pornography and prostitution he over-simplifies a complicated issue. He dismisses the "happy hookers" who attest to entering the profession willingly and call for legalization and regulation as either not representative of most women in the profession, or puppets for pimps and mobsters. By disregarding the opinions and experiences of these women isn't he in a way disrespecting them, albeit in a well-intentioned way?
There is a lot of good information on the dark side of prostitution here, and much to enrage the reader. I wish the book would have had a broader focus though.
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