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49 of 49 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Great for family discussions, March 2, 2000
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Our family (2 adults and 2 kids under 8 years old) enjoyed the discussions prompted by this book. The content is geared to children at the lower end of the recommended 7- to 12-year-old range, but covers universal qualities such as honesty, courage, compassion. The illustrations add significantly to the humor of many of the situations presented. I would recommend the book highly to parents who wish to spend time with their children exploring the issues; the book would be of limited value to a child reading alone. Please write another one, Ms. Sheindlin and Mr. Tore!
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47 of 49 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Margie, February 26, 2000
I am an avid fan of Judge Judy and her no nonsense approach and common sense make a lot of sense to me. I ordered this book for our 10 year old and while it is a good book with a good concept it would better be served to children in the 7-9 age brackett. The questions are good and the concept of giving the children a choice is great for family discussion as it was intended, but some of the situations posed are geared much more to the younger child. I would like to see her do a another geared more toward the older child, and perhaps even more serious family issues especially dealing with dual families, and the tough situations these family situations place children in. ie; You visit your Dad and think Dad is really cool because he lets you watch R-rated movies, dosen't make you bathe or go to bed, you can just fall asleep wherever you are. Mom on the other hand won't let you do these things. Dad suggests you should live with him, so do you begin bugging Mom to let you do this because you think it would be more fun to live with Dad? This of course could be just the opposite and Mom could be the one with the less structured lifestyle. This is just an example of the tougher situations our kids face. Overall it is a good book but best suited to a younger audience. I thought it was a bit pricey and could have been longer.
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12 of 12 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars Social situations for kids to think about and what to do ..., May 26, 2000
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We sat at our dinner table, my husband and myself with our twin 8 year olds. Together we read and the twins answered the questions. There are social situations and the reader is asked what to do by answering multiple choice questions. Some of the possible answers will have you laughing out loud. Our children enjoyed this book and we enjoyed making a fun time of it. With the text you will find some fun drawings. Parents and children are sure to enjoy this book. We were pleased to see that both our son and our daughter made the best choices. As parents, this book gave us insight into our childrens character and their hearts.
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10 of 10 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars very well done, July 14, 2000
Judge Judy's book has helped enormously to teach my child the difference between right and wrong. It also helped me, as a father, to learn what my child thinks and would do in these realistic senarios. I would recommend this to parents who have children at the age where they would like to become a bit more indipendent or for those who want to teach their child morals instead of letting schools do it for you.
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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Win or lose is good for kids on the autism spectrum, October 19, 2004
By looking at the cover I was under the assumption that the pages within Judge Judy Sheindlin's Win or Lose by How you Choose! would be similar to the illustrations depicted for the cover. This is not the case as the illustrations by Bob Tore are black and white. Although this was a disappointment at first, I think it draws the readers away from distractions so they can focus on the situation presented on each page.

There are four choices for each dilemma with no set answers, meant for discussion. Encourages parents and children to talk through the presented situations while exploring choices and examining the resulting consequences.

I chose Judge Judy Sheindlin's Win or Lose by How you Choose! for my son to assist him in social dilemmas that would require some thought. Children with autism are literal thinkers and lack in social situations, so having a book to go over before any of these challenges took place was the key factor in the purchase. It is somewhat similar to a social story many high functioning autistic children use to assist in the learning process as well as a stepping stone for promoting further socialization. By knowing the situations beforehand my son can reflect on these pages throughout the structure of his day.

There are no page numbers inside Judge Judy Sheindlin's Win or Lose by How you Choose!. We jumped right into the book going through the scenarios until my son was ready for a break. The recommended age group is seven to twelve. With my son being at the bottom of this age bracket, I wanted to make sure we did not go through the entire book in one sitting, thus gradually making our way through the sequences of events profiled in the pages.

There are several situations that could have more than one correct response. Judge Judy Sheindlin's Win or Lose by How you Choose! helps parents and children communicate which decisions fit the situation and discuss the outcome via these methods. These are everyday occurrences that involve not only children but adults and people that are going about their daily lives when they are confronted with a child or situation that needs to be rectified. The illustrations do not give away any answers, but do capture the confusion some of these dilemmas bring about.

This would also make a good classroom book for a teacher to make copies of pages and give as an assignment and to utilize as a discussion forum. Parents will be enlightened by the responses their children make and know when their children are ready for more challenges ahead. This will encourage better understanding of social situations and offer some perspective on what they face on a daily basis.

Judge Judy Sheindlin's Win or Lose by How you Choose! was a big confidence booster for my son. He enjoyed the discussions and laughed at some of the answers. These challenges brought new questions for him to explore and help him maneuver through the social mazes he encounters. Another bonus is going through the book a few weeks after it has been completed to see if answers have changed over time and experience.
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8 of 8 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars Ethics a child can understand!, June 3, 2001
Judge Judy has done the children of America (and the adults too) and HUGE favor! One hopes that children exposed to this book will learn to make good moral choices. Don't look for preaching here. This book is formatted in such a way as to let the child come to the conclusion of what is right. Maybe this book will help all of us be a little less self-centered and enable the growth of peace instead of violence in this new century.
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2 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars MY LITTLE BOY LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVES THE ILLUSTRATIONS!, October 8, 2001
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PERRY HARLAND (BROAD CHANNEL, NY) - See all my reviews
The book is a total enjoyment from first page to last. But my six year old gets an exceptionally big kick out of the illustrations. The characters are so unique; not like the pictures you typically find in kids' books. Mr. Tore packs so much dry, subtle humor and expression into each drawing that my son is forever reminding me, "Don't turn the page so fast, Mommy! I'm not done looking at the picture!" Draw more, Mr. Tore! My little guy is so content to just sit and flip through the pictures that I'm getting more housework done than I have in years!
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1 of 1 people found the following review helpful:
4.0 out of 5 stars quite funny, March 29, 2000
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I have just finished reading this book with my 8 year old daughter and reading it to my almost 6 year old son. My son was giggling throughout. Some of the "incorrect" answers are hillarious! My kids could spot the appropriate answers each time, but I could tell that they were learning. The multiple choice format works well. The kids are rewarded for chosing the example of good behaviour, even if they are learning what to do in a sticky situation for the time.
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5.0 out of 5 stars Great book for Classroom Guidance, December 29, 2010
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I used this book for a classroom guidance game. Kids loved it. Great teaching tool in regards to following the rules/obeying laws etc. It was great.
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5.0 out of 5 stars MUST READ, January 5, 2008
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Susan Colig (San Antonio, TX) - See all my reviews
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I bought several copies for teachers and school libraries.

Judge Judy is one smart cookie.

I would recommend this book for all parents.
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