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I Just Lately Started Buying Wings: Missives from the Other Side of Silence Paperback – June 22, 2010
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“[These essays] return readers to the fundamental nonfiction experience, an immersion in real life, exquisitely rendered. Here is a world--her world--so finely observed that it becomes our world, too. Here is a voice, both smoldering and meditative, that inhabits every page like an attentive host, inviting us in and offering no choice but to step over the threshold.” ―Sue Halpern, Bakeless Nonfiction Judge
“'Go fish, Kimche, go fish,' says her grandmother Fanya. And fish Kim Dana Kupperman does, down into the deep uncertain pool of suicide, death by AIDS, religious identity, bodies altered by the radiation poured forth at Chernobyl. These linked stories add up to a life--her life--in ways that are both harrowing and affirming, and that command our readerly respect.” ―Albert Goldbarth, Author of The Kitchen Sink and To Be Read in 500 Years
“Kim Dana Kupperman is many things in this collection of essays--a daughter of tumultuous parents, granddaughter in search of her Ukrainian grandmother, sister of variously troubled half-brothers, a woman trying to sort through the vagaries of her own heart. We note the many things she is and has been, but what is even more exciting in this brilliant debut is that we feel in the presence of a writer. With sensuous, precise, and superbly crafted language, Kupperman gives us what literature at its best does: compelling stories artfully told.” ―Barbara Hurd, author of Walking the Wrack Line: On Tidal Shifts and What Remains
“In prose that is by turns lyrical and precise, Kim Kupperman examines the mystery and depth of the human heart. Generous, forceful, and compassionate, I Just Lately Started Buying Wings is a stunning debut by an essayist of the first rank.” ―Michael Steinberg, Founding Editor, Fourth Genre
“A remarkably talented writer, Kim Dana Kupperman understands the essay first and foremost as a literary form. Yet she never ventures into craft or creativity for its own sake. I Just Lately Started Buying Wings is a high-voltage book grounded in the passionate and often messy business of living. And best of all with these essays, something vital is always at issue.” ―Robert Atwan, Series Editor, The Best American Essays
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In "The Perfect Meal," Kupperman examines how during this time she felt her life turning into a cliche: "I've never considered that the cliches I've headed into (including this one) are merely reminders that I'm alive, kicking around the same story over and over, trying to transcend the too familiar, sometimes unable to twist language in new ways to describe what or how I'm living." Sure, Kupperman's life did follow many of the cliches--lonely child of divorced parents finding solace in writing; young woman discovering her identity through various adventures; married woman having an affair with a married man that she knows will never work out. But despite living the stories that have been lived a thousand times before, Kupperman does manage to shed new light on the stories. She manages, despite her fears, to twist language in a way that describes how she, and how we all, feel about living.
As for the book, it's captivating. There's not a lot I can add about the plot that other reviewers haven't already, but I have to say that the chapter about digging through the records of her parents' divorce trial is especially impressive. She wants you to feel how she did being yanked back and forth between her squabbling parents, with their childish antics and all. Until the judge's ultimate decision over custody, you will, almost simultaneously, sympathize with and distrust each parent just as she did. Even as her father given legal stewardship takes Kupperman from her mother for the last time, she kicks and screams although she clearly loves her dad. It is definitely an insightful look into the experience of a child's view of a custody battle.
My one complaint: the narrative pace is staggeringly smooth throughout the book. It's really a bit monotonous. After hearing Kupperman speak in person, it was easy to hear her slow, deep voice while I read from her book, but maybe a little too easy. Even the most dramatic dialogue is written with the same slow, yet thoughtful pace. I suppose Kupperman is really playing to her strength-the precision and poesy of her thoughts. It's a bit dark too. Not many happy thoughts.
All in all though, Kupperman's "I Just Lately Started Buying Weeks" is a must-read. Enjoy!
stories of her life with other stories of other people’s lives, meticulously recording the details
into lovely lines of prose. Subtitled “Missives from the Other Side of Silence,” this collection of
meditations on everything from AIDS and suicide, familial relationships and friendships gone
sour, and appearing, again and again, death—the meaning of formerly innocent words such as
remains and arrangements, and the sensory experiences of ashes that were once a person.
Kupperman wastes no time in getting to these topics. The first sentence describes a rainy
morning—on the day she had to go identify her mother’s body at the morgue.
Kupperman’s eye for details draws her essays out of pencil stubs and the unnamable
color of institutional walls, fingerprints on refrigerator doors. She writes in the first essay that
when she wants to remember something, she chooses the strangest part and catalogues its
fragments—like the color of the walls in the morgue where she identified her mother once again,
or, in the moment when she catalogues the strangest part of the trip to the Normand beaches to
scatter the ashes of her brother (a woman who needed a light, unaware of the solemn purpose of
her family’s visit). She turns these catalogues into very lovely prose, poetic in its sharp honesty
and lyrical descriptions; realistic as she is elusive, Kupperman leaps in and out of lyrical
descriptive dream-like images and the reality of real life—the poetic existentialism of scattering
the ashes of her family, and the reality of not being able to get the lid off the can to do so.
Most Recent Customer Reviews
I was struck when I heard Kim read from Teeth in the Wind, a reflection about Chernobyl, society's masks, and the chasm adults face when children ask impossible questions. Read morePublished on July 5, 2011 by Belle Woods
I am very pleased with this book, as I have been with every used book I have ordered. I certainly plan to be a long time buyer of your used books.
Kim Kupperman writes honest, beautiful prose. In this collection of essays, she looks at major life events--divorce, death, falling in love--with a candor and wisdom that gently... Read morePublished on October 20, 2010 by E. F. Blevins