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4.0 out of 5 stars
Great stories; intriguing questions, October 26, 2008
This review is from: Kentucky Clay: Eleven Generations of a Southern Dynasty (Hardcover)
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This is an intensely personal account of the Clay family because it is a family history built around the family folklore the author heard as a child. And so this book is filled with personal anecdotes that simply cannot be found in most history books. It makes this history feel like a collection of short stories; stories about the Clays and the Cecils, the Wittens, the Burns and the Batemans.
But this is more personal than a history. This book is also Katherine Bateman's attempt to reconcile herself to the history of the "Cecil mothers" (her term). A history of women who, generation after generation, bequeathed to their daughters a legacy of unlove, class, and belief that ordinary societal rules don't necessarily apply to a Cecil. It is a legacy Kate Bateman felt personally in the tug of war between her Mother and her Grandmother; a tug of war in which she was, often, the prize.
And (perhaps subconsciously) this family history is also a story of not-telling; a story of what the family chose to leave out. Because Katherine Bateman did not inherit only the blood of the Clays, the Cecils, the Wittens, the Burns, and the Batesmans; she inherited also the blood of the Native Americans. Katherine's Grandmother, Wynemah, was named for an "Indian princess". Katherine's Great Grandfather had Indian ancestry which (according to Katherine) showed clearly in his daughters' features. Yet the story of the people who gave the Frank Burns' daughters their beauty and Katherine's Grandmother her name is not told.
We are regales with accounts of the "normal" interactions between Katherine's White Family and the Native Americans. We are told how Henry Clay kidnapped three Native American children and made them slaves (and how their Grandchildren sued the Clay family for their freedom and won); how the Clay men fought and died in the wars with the Native Americans; how the Native Americans killed and scalped Phoebe Belcher Clay's children. But we are not told the other, more intimate, story of how Native American blood intermingled with that of the Burns and, thus, with the Clays.
And this omission makes the history of this one family seem more like a family saga; the sort of thing told to children so that they would know who and what they are. That doesn't make it worthless. In some sense, it adds to its value because it gave me a feel for the way the American South was settled and for what "family" means in the South. But it also left me wondering about the stories I did not hear.
So I recommend this book for its fine story-telling and for the feel it gives for the South but I also warn that this book (like most family stories) will leave you with as many questions as stories.
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13 of 16 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars
Why judging from 21st Century standards??????, October 26, 2008
This review is from: Kentucky Clay: Eleven Generations of a Southern Dynasty (Hardcover)
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I am sure that Ms. Bateman was very pleased with her title, "Kentucky Clay," reflecting both one of her ancestral lines as well as the clay from which our heroes' feet are made. Unfortunately, that's the last bit of literary value in this overwrought diatribe on her families. Filled with excessive, and probably totally imaginative description of feeling the green grass under her feet, and attributing thought and feelings to various members of her family for which she seems to have no source, her volume is an adolescent rejection of the people of whom her material family is justifably proud. She uses the words "shame," "chagrined," and "embarrassed" as she discusses her forebears' accomplishments, judging 17th, 18th and 19th century people by 21st century standards. I have read many biographies and family histories that succeed in relating details without passing the judgments Ms. Bateman delivered. The only thing that kept me reading was curiosity as to who she'd trash next, and I wasn't disappointed. Her treatment of her ancestors was nothing to what she did to her more immediate family. I would assume that her vitriolic tale served as some sort of therapy for a childhood in which she felt ashamed by her ancestors' accomplishments, but it became nothing but a tell-all that was embarrassing to read. Her sources were not well cited, and it was impossible to tell what was researched fact, what was family legend, and what was her own vivid imagination.
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5 of 5 people found the following review helpful:
5.0 out of 5 stars
The difference between heritage and history., November 9, 2008
This review is from: Kentucky Clay: Eleven Generations of a Southern Dynasty (Hardcover)
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This book gets five stars, because I think it does what it sets out to do. Don't look for any historical breakthroughs about Henry Clay or Cassius Clay. This is not a work of history but a work of heritage which seeks to find patterns in the dry family history, to flesh out the names on the ancestral chart, to find the discernable historical truth behind the family legends.
We are all of the same clay, more closely related than you might think. Katherine Bateman provides a handy genealogical chart at the front of her book which includes many of the intermarried families, but that chart could easily be extended to include many other famous families as well, white, black, and red. Any reader who would like to see how these families connect to Kentucky's other famous/notorious families should not fail to read Chapter 3 of Alvin F. Harlow's WEEP NO MORE MY LADY.
Again, this does not pretend to be a comprehensive history, but rather a work of family heritage. And as such, it is a splendid read.
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